Comments by "Fangroth" (@Fangroth) on "27, Never Had A Girlfriend, Never Even Kissed A Woman" video.
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47 years old never dated a woman.
During my entire life, I was always busy. School, university, work, family, friends, hobbies, etc.
I believe in no sex before marriage, and if I ever dated, it was solely with the purpose of finding a wife.
Strong Successful Male once told in one of his videos that if you marry and divorce in your 40s or 50s, you can still make a comeback in your life if you work hard. However, if you marry in your 40s like my case and divorce on your 60s, it's over. By that time, you will be too old to do anyway.
The guy in the video cares too much about women.
"Care about what other people think, and you will always be their prisoner." Lao Tzu.
One of many lessons I've learned in Strong Successful Male is that there's no such thing as the one. Have an abundance mindset. If a woman dumps you find another one, there's billions of women on the planet.
What this guy should do is focus on himself and improve his life, especially making more money.
Why is he worrying about having a girlfriend when he can't afford one ?
From what he says, he was already at risk of becoming homeless.
As Legion of Men stated, women only care about 2 things: how much money you make and how big your package is, and this guy has neither of them.
Despite not dating women, I was always curious about their nature. How they think, how they behave, how they chose men, what are they attracted to, etc.
What I found on channels like this and Strong Successful Male completely shatered the image I had of them.
Porsuing women is, in my opinion, a vain endeavour. Relations are transactional, sex becomes meaningless once that tool men have between their legs ceases to function and kids are usually ungrateful towards all the sacrifices parents do for them.
Women often say that men only care about sex, beauty, they objectify women etc. They say men should be more open about their feelings towards women.
Well it seems I found 2 perfect women for that: my mother and my younger sister.
If I can't be myself towards the person I'm with, I would rather be alone as I have no desire to wear a mask and become something I'm not just to please someone that would drop me in a heartbeat.
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