Comments by "Fangroth" (@Fangroth) on "Why Everyone Is Giving Up On Marriage" video.
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I agree with Legion of Men.
Traditionalism is what holds a marriage.
Leftist ideology is what destroyed it.
For example: I lived for more than a year with a Indian doctor in the UK.
He was a graduate, with a visa study. He was working on his specialization.
He was a nice person. Polite, educated, humble, came from a good family (economically and socially).
He wouldn't be a prospect under modern women standards. Because he wasn't: 6 feet tall, 6 figures income and 6 pack.
He was scheduled to marry his fiancée. She too was a doctor but she wasn't studying as he was. She was just working, as a doctor.
She looked older than him and wasn't very pretty.
This was an arranged marriage by their families.
His marriage was postponed twice due to COVID and not having flights to India.
Currently they are married, have a small toddler and I believe this marriage will last.
I know a Chinese couple. They married a couple of years ago. They have 2 daughters.
She's not happy and wants to divorce.
However her parents are against it.
This was a arranged marriage also.
From what they discussed in the video, the divorce is initiated most of the times by women, because men stay in unhappy marriages, while not getting the hints women give to them.
Sounds to me, more like women are the ones not putting the effort in to bring better communicators and expect men to read their minds.
The way I see it: men suffer the consequences for their decision making all the time, but that doesn't work that way on women and until they start suffering like men do for their decisions without society protecting all the time, they will never learn.
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