Comments by "Fangroth" (@Fangroth) on "Why Are Older Men Staying Single?" video.
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I already posted this in one of Rollo Tomassi videos today:
I think in terms of sexual desire, the sad reality is: a boyfriend/husband cannot compete with variety.
I've been following a channel called: Strong Successful Male for years now and the stories I keep hearing the most are: girlfriend/wife got bored with the boyfriend/husband, still loves him but wants something new. So they decided to ask to open their relationship or they are cheating on their boyfriend/husband.
We can apply Jordan Peterson theory of hypergamy, when the girlfriend/wife is cheating with a better-looking/high earner, co-worker/boss.
But what about the cases where the girlfriend/wife cheated with good-looking guys they have no interest in being together ?
For example:
- The stripper(s) in the Bachelorette party.
- The AP that is married has no plans to leave his wife. She knows it, and when confronted by the boyfriend/husband, she says: "It was just sex, no feelings involved !"
- The brother or male family member of the boyfriend/husband.
- The ex(s) from college.
- Her male friend(s).
- The younger (insert the age) male student(s) she has in her class (she's a teacher).
- Etc.
Here's an example of a couple living an open marriage. This story was sent by a subscriber from Strong Successful Male.
He and his wife used to work in the adult entertainment industry. They are free to date whoever they want, but the rule is: no feelings or attachments. They have 2 kids that are already dna tested. They are from the subscriber.
They have a normal sex life together as well.
Here's an example of a guy who had it all, looks, money, and social status: Tom Brady. Still, he got cheated by his wife Gisele Bündchen. For a guy whose social status is nowhere near Tom Brady:Joaquim Valente, a professional jiu-jitsu instructor.
If this top percentage guy gets cheated on, what chance has the average Joe ?
If a guy is getting duty sex from his sex (if he's getting any), he's better off sleeping with sex workers. At least he gets better-looking women and more variety.
I believe cases like Rollo Tomassi marriage are the exception. Not the rule.
Here's 2 rare stories from Strong Successful Male, sent by 2 subscribers in happy marriages:
Story 1: Mexican chad used to play football when he was younger. Dated girls in college. Married his conservative blond nerdy wife. They met in college.
The day she lost her virginity to him, after 8 months of dating, she went to home cry because she thought he wasn't going to marry her. She only told him this after they got married.
They have 3 grown children. They have sex 5 times a week, with the weekends reserved to go out dating.
Story 2: US guy came from a house whose parents were alcoholic. Worked at bars. Hook up with multiple women to the point he made a name for himself. Travelled in countries like italy.
Married a beautiful UK girl from the army, he met at a bar he was working.
She also came from a broken home. All she wanted was a guy to take care of her. They're on their 40s/50s now. They met when he was 28 years old and she was 22 years old.
It's said that guys who want to be monogamous is because they can't get girls (maybe Michael Sartain said it).
I have to agree, unfortunately.
Even though I have Christian beliefs and I believe in no sex outside marriage. I understand that my brain wants variety. I've tried to see if there was an adult entertainment actress so beautiful that I couldn't look at any other woman. After a while, I crave for variety. It can be a woman who is not as sexually appealing as she is, but the need for a variety more than makes up for it.
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