Comments by "j0elsuf" (@SirJoelsuf1) on "There Is No Reason For Men To Date In Their 20s." video.

And what Cole is saying at the 10:30 mark is spot on and a lot of dudes don't pay attention to it. Looking to anyone (especially chicks!) for validation, as a man, is straight up abusive. To yourself and others. Cuz now you're tasking them to practically save you from yourself, which...yeah, I'd say that's abusive. Telling someone to do something for you and not making it clear. Oh AND you don't know them either. Not cool.
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I don't think any dude should be in any serious relationship until they're like 30-35, and even then that's only if they want to start a family. And even THEN the relationship BETTER be open and don't DARE get monogamously married. I mean if you want to its your funeral. When it comes to dating around and stuff? Anyone of ANY age should do that. Just cuz its one more fun thing to do that happens to be healthy. I mean unless you can stomach going dateless and sexless for decades on end and not wind up being a very unhealthy basketcase, then go right ahead.
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