Comments by "j0elsuf" (@SirJoelsuf1) on "You Will Always Be Single If You Keep Doing This" video.

  1. Agree with all of that except the last line. I don't trust my gut when I make a move, I just do it and deal with the consequences later. I mean if the chick isn't having it I'll back off but when it comes to making move that "gut" feeling is just more propaganda brought on by the new alliance of fake tradcons and bra burning Karens who still think monogamous marriage is a good idea for society lol
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  2.  @jons4934  Why would she be homeless because she drank, smoked, and partied? My last gf was a travel nurse who made $125k a year and she drank, smoked, and partied. Responsibly, but she still did that stuff. Like AT LEAST 90% of any given western chick over 16 drinks, smokes, and parties...often well into their 60s.
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  3. Did you check out the chick for over 9069 centuries (or more than three seconds) before approaching? Based on your experience, I can guess that the answer is probably yes. Checking out chicks before approaching em will ALWAYS make ANYONE creepy no matter what they look like.
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  4. LMAO I'm one of em! I plan to just casually date until I croak. And monogamous marriage (in the west at least) isn't for ANYONE.
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  5. You're...17. Plenty of time to do what you need to do. I can tell one mistake you made and I made the exact and I mean EXACT same one when I was a 17 year old stupid kid: You developed a crush on a chick. Gotta understand that doing that is the closest thing to being abusive (towards yourself and the chick) without actually being abusive and I actually mean that. Not cool, the earlier you learn that lesson the better. Its alright to appreciate a chick. Perfectly cool to say "you know what, you're better than the other chicks I come across" but leave it at that. Catching feelings like that and looking to a chick for validation like you want her to replace your mom or something? Bad move. Here's a goal you should set, something my dumbass should have done when I was 17: Make it a point to invite at least five to ten chicks out on a date per week. Assuming the school you go to is pretty big, this shouldn't be a problem. Get shot down? Here's a good line to react to save your embarrassment: Right on, that's cool. Sorry if that came off as weird, I made a new years resolution to get a better partner than the last one I had. So I'm just trying to get out there. You can also say something like "Gotcha. Sorry if I bothered you, I just made it a point this year to be more outgoing. Didn't mean to make you a part of that or anything haha." And damn, WTF are you doing in college at 17? I was 19 my freshman year...too early in retrospect. I should have started college at 25 lol.
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  6. Yeah measuring your self worth with those terms is dumb. Just get your happy ass out there, see what you get, then go from there. Boys who obsess about that kind of stuff couldn't approach a thousand chicks in a year if you PAID them, let alone go out with any. Meanwhile I don't care about any of that and I do just fine with the opposite sex as long as I choose to get out there.
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  7. First of all, for the love of every deity in existence, can we PLEASE just say "offline" instead of "in real life?" Like good god damn, why is it a thing to say "in real life" instead of just "offline." 7:30 Yeah Cole, that's a unicorn. Those kinds of chicks haven't existed for about 40-50 years now lol. Might sound cynical, but its just how our culture has changed. For better (it is now possible and even encouraged to talk about sex with chicks now which incidentally gets most of em extremely horny cuz most chicks are "allowed" to express their sexuality now lol) and for worse (chicks now have sky-high expectations of dudes but generally aren't willing to improve themselves). Some of the stuff here is good, most of it sucks. Five seconds is way too long to wait to approach (three seconds is the longest you can wait and yeah, chicks notice this), you should never NEVER physically ask a chick to be your girlfriend/partner/whatever (those terms speak of a culture that does nothing more than create unnecessary expectations), and buying chicks gifts is incredibly passe to the point where it can and will be counterproductive. The best way you can SHOW a chick you are going out with that you enjoy what she is bringing is to simply ACT like a good dude towards her, a dude who is willing to show affection and drop his guard, but who she can also feel safe around. Make sure she orgasms AT LEAST once during sex/fooling around. I personally aim for at least two orgasms. If the chick "can't" orgasm that is a blood red flag btw. And if you don't know how to make a chick orgasm then my man, you need to work on that, straight up. Chicks are getting to a place where they are now "allowed" to value sex just as much as dudes. Plenty of PDA when you are around others but not in a forceful way. Talk to her about stuff that still affects you to show her that you are willing to drop your guard. Treat her like she is one of your boys but give her just that much more attention/affection. Chicks LOVE that at least in my experience. And five to ten dates before sex? Bruh. Just...bruh. Even CHICKS would laugh at this.
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