Comments by "j0elsuf" (@SirJoelsuf1) on "The Masculinity Crisis: A Generation Of Hopeless Men" video.

  1. Tate straight up acts like a chick. Acts like a total diva. I've had this impression of him since day one. There is NOTHING masculine about going out of your way to attack others. That is a FEMININE trait. Always has been always will be. Unless you are defending someone who is important to you who can't defend themselves or who asks you for help. Then that's masculine. Any boy who has a life goal of triggering bra burners on the internet would change their tune in seconds if a bra burner jumped their bones. I have SEEN this happen. Would happen to Tate as well. I can tell.
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  2. There are only FOUR things that make you "masculine:" 1) Being responsible for yourself/those who YOU think are important to you no matter what 2) Absolutely REFUSING to be a victim no matter how bad things are 3) Not giving a FLYING SH1T about all the BS going on around you and just moving on 4) Helping others regardless of their background without seeking their approval Emotions and being physically tough or aggressive doesn't have as much to do with it as many think. Stuff like being macho, to me has always been a feminine trait. A toxic one, too. Since everyone I've been around who has acted macho have always smacked me of someone who is just begging for approval/validation. But those four pillars mentioned above? Those PROVE masculinity. Look at someone like Brian Tracy, for example. Here's a guy who is about the furthest from macho but no one would EVER question that he DOESN'T have masculine traits. And guess what, those four pillars are based from what I got from his book, Maximum Achievement.
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  3. I always felt like it should be changed to "let modernity be, embrace masculinity." Having a "live and let live" outlook is INCREDIBLY masculine. LGBTs aren't delusional or anything, they're just dealing with things the way they think is best. Sure SOME of them go out of their way to endanger the livelihoods of those not of their kind but that's a tribalist issue which transcends sex/gender/race/age/whatever. Attacking stuff? Not masculine at all. In fact that's toxic femininity since you seek approval when you attack stuff and all forms of approval seeking is toxic femininity.
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  4. Do things without needing the permission of others. If they get upset or something, get some information as to why they are upset and attempt to de-escalate the situation if necessary. Not too difficult to understand.
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