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  72. Shimin Shamim You know I actually kinda agree with you. They aren't bad people, really and they are just pop singers. To me they are just harmless really. Swift has gotten better over the years, her latest songs haven't been so bad. Blank Space is quite catchy. The thing with her doing songs about exes etc. is really only slightly annoying but it did get overwhelming. There's a male equivalent to her, a band called Theory of a Deadman and they are perhaps even more annoying, with literally 7 in 10 of all their songs being about being dumped by some chick or some chick who doesn't want to hook up with them. But different than Swift, they aren't talented at all for being a Nickelback knockoff. What I really dislike about her is that she thinks Spotify isn't paying her enough. Allow me to give you some perspective. My favorite band of all time is Bad Religion. They have been around for 35 years and they made, as a band, a very small percentage of what Swift made and Swift has only been in the music industry since 2007. At an average age that is approaching 50, they still tour, around the world, and play roughly 100 shows a year, each show costing at most $50 and their set being an hour long usually. They are, for the most part, self managed as well. When they were Taylor Swift's age, they were booking their own shows. But why aren't we hearing anything from them? I feel like maybe a publicist told Swift to say what she said about Spotify not paying her enough tbh. 1D are just another random pop group, so that's all I've ever expected of them. I just don't like the music they play, but that's about it.
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  444. Best performance/most fun = Manual Easiest to drive/repair = Auto Most fuel efficient = Continuous Variable My first car was my late dad's car, a 1996 Mercury Cougar with a manual transmission. Had a whopping 17 miles per gallon in 3rd gear, but was able to go 0 to 60 in a minute in some change...in 1st gear. But could go 0 to 60 in less than 3 seconds. V8, 4.6 liters, 315ish horsepower, this thing was a TANK. But boy did it let you know if you didn't shift gears properly lol. After my dad passed he left me a ton of money and I bought a 2006 Nissan Sentra cash with it. Classic automatic transmission. 6 speed, 4 cylinder, 1.8 liters, 140 horsepower. 25 miles per gallon city and 30 miles per gallon highway, but boy was it boring to drive. Super DUPER easy to maintain tho. Just change oil every 7500 miles or so and you're good. Wasn't like that in the Cougar! haha. Sentra started to run rough at about 315k miles and needed all kinds of new stuff (new axels, control arms, bearings etc) so I decided to trade it in for what I currently drive, a 2020 Versa. This car is tiny. 4 cylinder, 1.6 liters, only 120 horsepower. Yet it uses more oil than the Sentra did (Sentra took 3.75 quarts, the versa takes 4.25? idk you tell me). Now yes the Versa DOES have a CVT and they've been known to be problematic but my Versa is already and 90k (bought it at 60k, I do ridesharing gig stuff with it) and it seems fine. Just a couple hiccups over those first 30k. Gets about 35 miles per gallon in the city and a staggering 47 (!!!) miles per gallon on the highway. I'll never forget goin on my first road trip with it, filling it with a scant 8 gallons of gas from 1/4 tank and staring at the 450 (!!!!) miles to empty on the screen after for a few seconds. Like How is that possible on 10ish gallons? But yes, driving a CVT DOES take some finesse. As the video says it has an infinite number of gears and is continuous. This means you shouldn't floor it/gun it to accelerate or else you'll burn it up. Gotta check the belt. Gotta check the transmission fluid too. I'm flushin mine soon. The Versa goes 0-60 in a painful 10 seconds and it will shout at you every second lol. BUT! If you take it nice and easy, it is smooth as butter.
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  467. This whole observation of starting "late" in the realm of dating, sex, and relationships is TOTAL 100% high school nonsense brought on first by reality TV in the late 1990s and cemented by social media now. NO. ONE. CARES. Chicks don't judge dudes by how "experienced" they are. They only appear to. They judge dudes based on how well said dudes can protect them from creepy weird Chris Chan type dudes who pressure said chicks to mother them, which is at the core of most dudes who suck with the opposite sex; they appear to objectify chicks by seeing them as pieces of meat but REALLY objectify chicks by seeing them as replacements for their moms since those types are obsessed with validation seeking and if a chick mothers them that is the ultimate validation. I say this as a dude who used to struggle with this...a lot lol. btw I know chicks objectify dudes too but I'm not tryna write a blog post here which is what would happen if I were to list all the ways chicks objectify dudes lol. Sooooo literally the ONLY thing you need to do if you are "starting late" (and again, fuck this retarded high school concept of "starting late") is to learn how to take the "pressure" out of this stuff by not taking it so seriously, learning how to have normal conversations, learning how to invite without being pushy, learning to flirt and make moves and not be nervous about it, and for the love of every deity that has existed over the last 200000 years, refusing the temptation to see chicks as a replacement for your mother or any other form of esteem for you. That last one is BY FAR the biggest challenge since it is preached to us that it is "beautiful" to see partners and potential partners as sources of esteem. But eliminating that ONE thing changes everything.
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  472. Probably gonna get some heat for this, but take some time to pay attention here before getting at me. As someone who dealt with depression and shitty mental health (anxiety, mood swings, suicidal thoughts, homicidal thoughts) for nearly 15 years (from 18 to 30 or so), nearly any given form of shitty mental health is a choice. It's all about being responsible or not. Believe it or not it's THAT binary, despite what the hacks, swindlers, and drug lords known as the mental health industry would have you believe. Never forget the words of Thomas Szasz: There is no such thing as mental illness; just a lack of responsibility. Took me a LONG time to figure that kind of thing out. The more responsible I am, the less time I have to BE depressed. The less time I have to think about offing myself (or others). The less time I have to think about worrying about whether I'm good enough or not. Again, this is coming from someone who not only struggled with suicidal thoughts from my late teens all the way until 30 or so and even though I have never been diagnosed, I have traits of Asperger's, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, and even Intermittent Explosive Disorder. So I know what I'm talking about, and I'd wager that I know what I'm talking about more than any "expert" out there. Yes we need to more away from the narrative of "man up, stop being a bitch" when it comes to mental health for dudes. Cuz there is NO substance in that statement. However, the only thing that really needs to change is the language. The message is fine. Swap "man up, stop being a bitch" to "Make the responsible choice, you are worth being responsible" and we're good.
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  476. First, follow the following channels immediately: Bulldog Mindset and Caleb Jones. Mine's mostly gaming/wrestling stuff but I do pepper in some "life" content like this. Feel free to follow it if you want. In a couple months I'll be making a channel similar to Dr. K's. Anyway, watch and take notes on the content on Bulldog and Jones' channels about getting in shape as well as making more money as if they were college courses. Cuz to you they pretty much are at this point. Keep in mind that like myself, Bulldog and Jones are supportive but tough individuals. You won't get what I call EES or "empty emotional support" from any of us. Then do the following by the time you turn 35: -Move out of your folks place; yes, even if you have debt. Get a second job or do Uber stuff on your days off. Try to do this by 2022. Earlier the better. -Get to a healthy weight. You claim to have lost nearly 100lbs. Nice. Now lose another 100. This may just take you until 35 but that's alright. But once you are obese and 35+, you'll only live until 50 or so. Again, the earlier the better. -Find a better job that pays you more, using the experience you gained from your current shitty job. More than likely this is going to be a sales job. EVERYONE UNDER 35 no matter what gender they want to be NEEDS to work a sales job for at least 2 years. This means you. -Talk to a counselor. Or someone on Dr. K's staff. Or ME if you want (I work almost exclusively with men who have been sexually assaulted since I myself am a man who has been sexually assaulted but I can probably work with you too). You have mental health issues that you absolutely need to address. Quick note about the obesity thing: Even obese dudes can get with chicks. Nearly 3/4 of the chicks I've been with (I've had sex with about 25 different chicks so do the math on that) have said that I was "a lot less heavy than their ex." And I'm 5'8'' 205. That's about as close to obese without actually BEING obese. But if I were you I wouldn't even care about chicks right now. I'd move out of my folks place then get to a healthy weight.
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  540. Mini blog post as a comment incoming: This is coming from someone who struggled with anxiety and depression as well as self harm habits and thoughts until 35 or so. It's not really WHAT is being eaten so much as how often. The thing about Food/drink/substances in general is that they stimulate the brain and since anxiety is overstimulation, most of the time none of it is necessary, especially if you don't exercise rigorously every day. Case in point, when I ate more than 2x a day and was practically sedentary in my teens and early 20s, I would get really anxious. This would get even worse if I ate often, like every 2-4 hours, which was a fad diet that I fell for in my late 20s. This would happen no matter what I ate or drank. Nowadays I do intermittent fasting (A MUST for anyone who has anxiety issues AND is overweight like I used to be back in the day) and hydration. Good LORD are we a dehydrated society. If I'm not active I drink a gallon of filtered water per day. Close to two if I know I'll be rigorously active. Drink your damn water. For the last 2-3 years I've been eating at most 3x a day (and that's IF I know I'm exercising rigorously that day such as lifting weights/running a 5k/bowling more than three games). This INCLUDES snacks. Most of the time I do meal/snack/meal. Roughly 1200 or so calories total. As for what I have been eating? Peanut butter sandwich 2 to 4 hours after waking up (I'll take my multivitamin shortly after so that it can work its magic since most multivitamins are fat soluble and there's plenty of fat in PB), a small snack a few hours after that I feel like it, then rice and vegetables (or if I want to save money/too lazy to cook rice for 20 minutes, ramen noodles and vegetables) about 3 hours before bed. If I know I'm gonna cheat I'll make sure that it's the ONLY thing I consume THE ENTIRE DAY. No matter what, I make sure to never do these three things: 1) Eat too frequently. Four hours is the shortest amount of time I can wait between meals. 2) Get dehydrated: A gallon of water a day is the least amount of water I can drink. And 3) Consume more than 2000 calories. Most of the time I max out at 1500 or so. Again, SUPER important if you have anxiety issues AND are overweight. tl;dr version: Intermittent fasting + Solid hydration = RIP most Anxiety issues.
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  545. First of all, for the love of every deity in existence, can we PLEASE just say "offline" instead of "in real life?" Like good god damn, why is it a thing to say "in real life" instead of just "offline." 7:30 Yeah Cole, that's a unicorn. Those kinds of chicks haven't existed for about 40-50 years now lol. Might sound cynical, but its just how our culture has changed. For better (it is now possible and even encouraged to talk about sex with chicks now which incidentally gets most of em extremely horny cuz most chicks are "allowed" to express their sexuality now lol) and for worse (chicks now have sky-high expectations of dudes but generally aren't willing to improve themselves). Some of the stuff here is good, most of it sucks. Five seconds is way too long to wait to approach (three seconds is the longest you can wait and yeah, chicks notice this), you should never NEVER physically ask a chick to be your girlfriend/partner/whatever (those terms speak of a culture that does nothing more than create unnecessary expectations), and buying chicks gifts is incredibly passe to the point where it can and will be counterproductive. The best way you can SHOW a chick you are going out with that you enjoy what she is bringing is to simply ACT like a good dude towards her, a dude who is willing to show affection and drop his guard, but who she can also feel safe around. Make sure she orgasms AT LEAST once during sex/fooling around. I personally aim for at least two orgasms. If the chick "can't" orgasm that is a blood red flag btw. And if you don't know how to make a chick orgasm then my man, you need to work on that, straight up. Chicks are getting to a place where they are now "allowed" to value sex just as much as dudes. Plenty of PDA when you are around others but not in a forceful way. Talk to her about stuff that still affects you to show her that you are willing to drop your guard. Treat her like she is one of your boys but give her just that much more attention/affection. Chicks LOVE that at least in my experience. And five to ten dates before sex? Bruh. Just...bruh. Even CHICKS would laugh at this.
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  562. 19:45 While this DOES seem unfair, it HAS to be that way. And it isn't even dudes judging other dudes that way. Most of that comes from chicks. Chicks want dudes who are experienced. Shows that they have value. So yeah, just like you should have certain financial milestones by certain ages, you also need to have certain sexual milestones by certain ages. Same with athletic stuff like weightlifting, running, etc. Not a big fan of Andrew Tate since he is the biggest asshole I have ever seen on the internet since Jake Paul, but he was talking about this kind of stuff on this platform and he's not wrong about it. Dudes need to prove to the world that they have value. Chicks look for it, dudes look for it, hell LGBTs look for it. In order to create value, you need to play the game...to a POINT at least. In this day and age you can't just meditate and "rise above" it cuz that doesn't PROVE anything. It's like someone living check to check saying that they're happy even though they aren't financially secure or someone who is overweight who claims that they are "happy" even though they are incredibly unhealthy. However! When it comes to sex, once your count is somewhere around 7 to 17 (depending on how educated you are on sex and sexual techniques etc) you are good to go. Just like you're pretty much good financially if you make around 90k a year and are generally healthy and fit if your body fat% hovers around 15% (or a BMI of 20ish). That's my opinion anyways. Exploring where the drop off among ourselves and preaching that among ourselves within our own confines would be MUCH better than Cole's VERY totalitarian solution that he described at the 23:40 mark when it comes to this stuff. Seriously, why is "Hey government! Make this stop!" The ONLY solution ANYONE has for ANYTHING anymore? Be better, Cole.
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