Comments by "Sebastian Rubio" (@sebastianrubio928) on "Better Bachelor"
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Been single forever, I had 1 longtherm relationship, it didn't work out, it's fine, I had a couple of flings here and there, nothing serious.
I keep myself busy with lots of hobbies, life is sweet because of the following fact: sure "love" is a nice feeling, but the worst I've ever felt was always due to a girl. There's ups & downs to love, the downs really suck. Now I haven't given up on dating, I'm just living my life, whatever happens. Yes I'm never getting married, that's for sure, in this country you really don't need to.
I think your second part hits home, keep yourself busy, no gf? Just hang out with friends, hang out with whoever. You don't need a gf or wife, but you certainly do need some social interactions.
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I think the middle ground is the best route to go. Some rainbow folk go over the top, but some are pretty normal. Religion is not the answer, not even close, that's just the other extreme end, the answer to an extreme is not another extreme. I'm a latino, let me tell you, latinos are incredibly trans & homophobic and they're even more racist. Sure it's not every single latino, but racism & discrimination are so common it's like going back in time. As for Muslims, same deal, not all are anti gay, & racist, etc... but then do note, there's atm 14 countries with the death penalty for being gay, all Muslim countries.
You need to be fair, give fair rights for everyone, the woke stuff in USA and in English speaking countries is over the top, without a doubt it's too much. Just give them equal rights to regular folk, just don't go over the top, this opposite view in the video is not the answer.
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Honestly? Freest country in the world? That's debatable. I'm with you on most things, but you couldn't pay me any money to go live in the US. Beautiful country, don't get me wrong, I've met plenty of genuinely kind Americans, I would visit the country, but living there, no thanks.
I live in Belgium, for the most part, I would debate I'm freeer than I would be in the US. Crime is pretty low, the only few times I had a gun pointed at me, was from cops, you don't see too many guns here. There's few to no school or mass shootings. In very short I'm left alone and it's pretty safe here. Taxes suck, but Healthcare is fucking awesome and afforable.
1 reason why I love Belgium and this one may go unnoticed, but to me it's a big deal: it's one of the most Atheist countries in the world, this has many great implications.
I do agree, the half topless overweight women is being immature and silly, the US is still one of the better countries to live, though personally I would pass on living in North America or in the UK(too much US influence even in Politics)
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2 things on this:
1) you're a feminist, that is one of the biggest red flags, instant turn off, so many things are wrong with you to be a feminist. In my experience, all the IRL women that I've met that were feminists, were women coming from very rich parents, that's how they manage to justify that reality. I don't ever want to get married, in this country, there's no need to and it's considered very normal, all my close friends, most of them aren't married and they won't get married, the ones who got married usually just wanted the nice fancy party at the request of the woman. As for kids, I do want kids, but there's no way in hell I'm making kids with a woman that think men are trash.
2) the opposite is a major green flag. Luckily, I do know such women, my mom, my sister, several of my friends and women I've known, all women I dated longtherm were like that: feminism? That's such a stupid idea. That is exactly the answer I'm looking for.
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I wonder if in some case this isn't just "overthinking" everything. ATM I do have female friends and it's fine. Some have BFs, some don't, I'm single atm, it's all fine. I mean I have like a handful of gf who invite me over and stuff, because they like me, even though they got a BF. Man & female relationships don't always have to be sexual. Videos like these make it sound like every time you put a guy & a woman together they're bound to fuck or at least get attracted to each other, I don't think that's the case. Finding love, finding somebody you're attracted to isn't that easy. Bret Weinstein said something along the lines of: There's a different between a woman that's "hot" and a woman that's "beautiful", the woman that's hot you just want to fuck, while the woman that's beautiful you want to marry (/you truly want to be with). That "beautiful type" of woman is hard to find, the hot kind is easy to find and even easier to forget. If your friend is somebody you find "beautiful" and you want to be with her, but she doesn't like you, you'll eventually just have to drop it, but some of your female friends can be hot. As long as you keep boundaries and have good communication with each other, everything can work out. In my own case the reason why I've been able to keep some of my female friends for 15-20 years is because a long time ago I decided: I don't fuck my friends, no matter how hot they are. I do have one night stands and easy flings, but just not with friends. I've event talked this over with some of my female friends, I know that sex would make things complicated, why bother, just stay friends who respect each other.
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Holy shit man, at the same time, I'm not surprised, I'm not sure why the fuck, I keep seeing this BS; guy commits a heinous crime(s), family & neighbours: oh but he was such a nice guy. Usually same dude had an extensive criminal record, but he was such a nice guy. No, real nice guys do nice things, they don't hurt people, people need to stop calling convicted criminals nice guys.
I do wonder, are these people willing liars or are they just terrible at reading people, probably both.
Another perspective, which nobody wants to recognise in this day & age: humans are violent creatures, humans are horrible beings capable of insanely evil acts. And yeah, humans lie, a lot. So every time I see on tv: he was such a nice guy, I automatically take it as: ok, not true.
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That woman, her expectations are off the scale and she's not particularly pretty, nor is she getting any younger, the wall is gonna hit her so f hard.
As for guys & jobs: there's nothing wrong with having some ambition, as long as you stay realistic. I lost my job during the bug, cause I worked in event's stuff and everything shut down. Right now, not doing as good as I wish I was, but I'm still getting paid more than I was pre bug, ATM under certain conditions I have a couple of options opening up and yeah those future options, I'll get paid even more. My pre bug job was pretty sweet, it was well paid, it was international at times, fancy hotels, expensive food, but when I lost it, I wasn't crying, I was just like: oh whatever, I'll go somewhere else.
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My view on women and dating: I don't give a fuck
Not against it, barely put an effort in. Girls come to me. I have not been in love in over 10 years and it's wonderful, cause I remember how much it hurt, again, not against it, but I'm in a pretty good place right now. I think I'm fairly good looking, I'm nearly 40, I look good, I work out still, I look younger. I don't mean to be a good guy or a bad boy, I just don't care, I'm myself, I do my hobbies, I my life, I have fun, I have freedom. I do notice, women generally tend to like that.
Rather than being nice, I think what women don't like is a boring guy and as much as people wanna deny it, women do prefer good looking people who take care of themselves.
The one thing I would tell younger guys: be rational & don't ignore red flags.
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5"7, going bald, good beard, jacked, based on how many women I attract, would say I'm attractive. Here's the thing though, in my experience it's mostly the confidence that brings girls and being interesting keeps them at your side.
I think guys (,including myself in the past) focus too much on the fysical attributes thinking that's what girls like, because that's how guys think, but they have different preferences than us.
Here's the thing, I had periods when I felt like shit, still looked the same, yet didn't get any attention. Then when I feel better, they come back, that's not coincidence.
I would say: take care of yourself, work on yourself both mentally and physically, then build some confidence and don't be afraid to talk to girls.
Most girls I've dated were taller than me, though I fully admit, some girls told me in my face: I'm attraced to you, I really like you, but you're too short for me. Whatever, still dated their friend :) and then they came after me :).
Looking good is a good bonus, being confident and having a good salary is more important I'd say. (it's not a money thing, it's status, which often gives confidence and it just allows you to do stuff)
A good way to get confidence is focus on yourself, usually the confidence comes along the ride.
Joker is 100% right, at the end of the day, focus on yourself first. See women as a bonus, forget about women being a life goal.
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I think more than ever do I notice both sides not really understand what the other side wants, even when you're redpil or blackpil, I notice most guys still don't fully get it. Women don't get that men don't want fat women, men don't care whatsoever about your degree or how much you make. Women also think they want X, but they don't realize the price they need to pay for it, the biggest problem is women are insanely entitled.
At the same time, you got guys calling themselves Redpil, they study it like their life depends on it, but they don't take care of themselves, they're fat, they're not improving their lives.
Neither side makes themselves into what the other gender wants, they think they understand what the other wants, but in truth, they really don't get it.
As for the age thing, I can confidently confirm women boldly go for older. I work with 17-20 year olders, they're not even shy about it, I asked several girls at work, 18 years old, what guy would you like to date? Again, they're 18, they said: a guy in their 30ies. I mean, they're not even looking at guys of their own age, they're not looking at guys 25 years old, because they know they're broke.
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This whole Red Pill thing got into Clownworld a long time ago. I don't think there ever was a clear definition.
As for the 4 guys, Sneako, he's young, he's not my thing, I couldn't disagree with him more, besides I did follow him for a bit, the guy changes opinion like the wind.
The 2 sanest in there are either Destiny or Sartain, but both are very different. Sartain has his shit together for now, he's a real man living a man's life. Destiny, you may not like him, not agree with him, but the dude is really smart, like authistic lvl supersmart. The debate itself went pretty well, but as more time passed it got kinda boring. I mean if you check the debate, Destiny made some good points, Sartain & Rollo as well.
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Yep, good advice.
I'm stuck in this one job, atm got 2 jobs going on, 1 is super chill, my main job... I love the, people there, but the work itself fucking sucks, though I got used to doing it.
I also need to move in the next 1-2 years, that won't be a problem, but I really need to change jobs. I've been sending my info to folks, but so far no luck, but I'm not giving up, I'll eventually find a better job.
SO basically, I need a better job, certainly something more chill to work at and I need a bigger place, I hope in 2 years I'll be there, I'll set new goals once I'm there.
PS: sry about the politics channel, personally did find the subject interesting enough, it affects us all no matter what we think or want. I don't live in the US and never will, but US politics still affect the rest of the world sadly.
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The political twist is bad, but the situation itself it pretty tricky. Fucking Americans are the best at giving the most fucked up political twist to whatever random situation.
Most people are not trained to face a knife attacker. I've actually had that training, I know what to do, but I'm the exception, I would jump in and stop him, no need to choke, can just lock him, most people don't know shit about leg or arm locks. Would you have stopped him? Would you have done any better than the guy with the bag? I don't know, I just don't know you well enough.
I agree society needs strong men, I do not agree religion is the answer, the world does not need religion. "Religion makes the world a better place" is the biggest lie in history. What happened to europe when religion was at the center of everything? It was called the dark ages, one of the worst times to be alive.
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