Comments by "Sebastian Rubio" (@sebastianrubio928) on "" video.
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5"7, going bald, good beard, jacked, based on how many women I attract, would say I'm attractive. Here's the thing though, in my experience it's mostly the confidence that brings girls and being interesting keeps them at your side.
I think guys (,including myself in the past) focus too much on the fysical attributes thinking that's what girls like, because that's how guys think, but they have different preferences than us.
Here's the thing, I had periods when I felt like shit, still looked the same, yet didn't get any attention. Then when I feel better, they come back, that's not coincidence.
I would say: take care of yourself, work on yourself both mentally and physically, then build some confidence and don't be afraid to talk to girls.
Most girls I've dated were taller than me, though I fully admit, some girls told me in my face: I'm attraced to you, I really like you, but you're too short for me. Whatever, still dated their friend :) and then they came after me :).
Looking good is a good bonus, being confident and having a good salary is more important I'd say. (it's not a money thing, it's status, which often gives confidence and it just allows you to do stuff)
A good way to get confidence is focus on yourself, usually the confidence comes along the ride.
Joker is 100% right, at the end of the day, focus on yourself first. See women as a bonus, forget about women being a life goal.
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