Comments by "Sebastian Rubio" (@sebastianrubio928) on "Why This Japanese Mom Got Into Porn [ENG CC]" video.
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I'll be purely rational and to some people it will come as brutal perhaps rude, but here it is:
She never loved her husband, it's painfully clear she never did. She never had genuine desire for her husband and frankly speaking, if the sex with him is bad, it means they're not really compatible.
She married way too young, this is a mistake way too many people make. Opposites do attract, but still need great chemistry & compatability, you need to have things in common for the relationship to work out.
It's perfectly fine to be a nympho as long as you don't overdo it, by that I mean; don't end up in the hospital. Personally that is something I can relate to, as I still have a extremely high sex drive as well. It's fine to explore your sexuality, but that comes at a price, it's a different price to pay for men vs women.
Plenty of studies have gone into the subject of peer bonding. It's a sad reality that men and women are not the same when it comes to sex. She very likely slept with so many men, that she is incapable of forming a true deep bond with somebody. The way she talks about her son is not very motherly and I kind of feel bad for the husband. I feel like she only got with him because it was covenient, she has to face the fact that she is using him and it's very likely that he likes it that way. I truly hope she never watches porn with her son, that would be going too far, it's fine with the husband, he's that type of guy, I'd actually involve the husband in her porn, he might learn something from it.
Very interesting interview and she, as a person is very interesting. The one thing I noticed is how she doesn't seem to think like most Japanese people and that is refreshing.
At the end of the day you got to accept yourself. She's not a bad person, but her situation is anything but rational.
I do think it's important to have to regrets in life, I'll wish her the best, though her luck might run out eventually.
The list of Porn stars Notiba knows keeps growing and growing lol. This is a fascinating subject, keep doing these type of interviews Nobita-san!
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@Spiriax I'm not judging per se, I'm only giving my opinion based on facts & stats I know. I'm quite familiar with the subject. yes they're still together, from what I can tell, the husband might even like that side of her, I mean, he knew about it from the start, that's how they met in the first place. Watching porn with her son, you have to admit, that part is weird. Here the reality though, depression rates in people who do porn are sky high. Have you check their suicides rates? Japan naturally has high suicide rates and those got even higher during covid and it's a sad reality that a lot of those were females, often working in the sex industry. There's quite a few documentaries online about it. Covid was really rough for Japanese sex workers. Most guys very likely wouldn't be ok with this, the son part, I'd like to believe most people should be against it. Peer bonding has been studied extensively amongst men and women, enformed opinions can be made on the subject. It's a fact that having too many partners can affect the way people bond with each other. I don't even need to know her background to know for a fact that she very likely grew up with a single parent or either no parents. I just hope she'll be ok in the future, I wish her the best. I don't think she needs to regret her choices, but she certainly didn't pick an easy path in life.
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