Youtube hearted comments of Sebastian Rubio (@sebastianrubio928).
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One thing I do wonder about, do 100% Japanese people like the honne vs tatemae culture? You mentioned Japanese people who speak English, generally are more open and that's true, i've met such people. But then the Japanese people who only speak Japanese and never travelled, I do wonder, are they happy with that aspect of their culture?
Along the same lines, would be good to see, if people are even happy with their own culture, but again, the one aspect that bothers me the most about Japanese Culture is the tatemae, it just bothers me when people are "fake". In Europe, you act fake, that's a giant red flag, if one of my friends does that, I might actually break off the friendship if he keeps doing that.
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Another great video Nobita-san. I related to a lot of these points, I'm Chilean living in Belgium for most of my life. I speak Spanish, it was the first language I learned, but here's where it gets really complicated; here in Belgium half of the country speaks French, the other half speaks dutch and in the capital you meet a lot of English speaking people, either they're American/British or they're just from some other foreign country. I live in the middle of you country, I basically had a lot of exposure to both languages, in fact I went to school in French at first, then switched to Dutch. Sounds complicated? There's more => this country has roughly about a 35% of the population either direct immigrants or second/third generation immigrants, in practice this means you get to experience a lot of different cultures. Basically in my own case I speak fluently 4 languages (+ some basic Japanese & basic German, there's a germanic part of Belgium too) and in my daily life, I some times am around very different people with different backgrounds. I mean at my own work we got like 20 different nationalities and in practise that takes some adapting. I don't really feel Chilean, when I'm in Chile I'm seen as the foreigner even though I can write & speak the language fluently (I just got a different accent, because of my parents), as Belgian we don't feel proud either, that's just not a thing here. On paper I am both Chilean and Belgian (got both nationalities), but I don't think I feel like half or anything like that, nationality or culture doesn't really matter to me. One last thing I'd like to share: I kinda look white, kinda, but in practice I've had direct discrimination to soft discrimination based on my look. The thing is, I got green eyes, dark hair and I'm 5 7, which is short for europeans it gets weirder with my beard, it has patches of blonde with some very light brown and some black at the edges, it kinda looks scandinavian I've been told. Basically Europeans "notice" I'm not really "from here". I've been called many times by racist pricks, funny enough even been called Japanese & Asian (not that farfetched I got some Asia genes in my ancestry, some direct family members could easily pass as Asians). I'm curious to see how Japanese will react to a person like me, I bet they'll be really confused, even more confused to see me speaking some Japanese :p. (I'm working on improving it)
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As with so many of Nobitas videos, at the very base this is a social problem and there's much resistance to solving this problem because of how Japanese society/culture is structured.
Purely from my personal experience, I've never paid for sex, but I have had one nighters and though they feel nice, nut the best sex is when the girl really but really wants you. You be the prize, let her ask you out, let her confess to you, let her pay/make dinner for you. This is something a lot of guys will never have btw.
How do you get to this point? Be the best man you can be, work on yourself to keep improving your mind & body. Basically work on your body to look your best & find a well paying job that you enjoy doing and girls will flock to you. Let the girls chase after you.
I can't imagine the girls enjoying this sex or they don't realize there's a better version of the same concept. Let's face it, most of these girls don't want to fuck these guys and it's just a performance for them. It may still feel nice, but it's not as nice as the real deal. It's just not the same as Sex with somebody you love and have good chemistry with, somebody that has proven over the years you can trust and has your back, this just so rare and that's why it's so precious. Sooner or later they'll start to realize what they're missing in their life => genuine love. When they finally realize this, that's when depression hits.
As for husbands/boyfriends not enjoying sex with their wives/girlfriends, that's just basic biology telling them: you're not compatible. Either talk it out and try to fix it, but in many cases just break up, you're not biologically compatible and you need to accept this fact.
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Something I started noticing during covid and it's worse and worse, here in Brussels, I'm seeing more and more young homeless people, it's a mix of foreign ones, but I would actually say the majority are local homeless.
I am not surprised to see so many homeless in Japan, I saw your previous videos, but it's not just that; I buy stuff directly from Japan because it's cheaper and the yen is doing bad and it's been going for awhile. I looked into this and it turns out that the economy isn't doing well and it's not new either. There's so much pressure to go to a good good, a good unviersity, but the salaries are pretty low, not extremely low, actually not too far from what people get paid here, but if you took the same degrees here, you would earn more. It's painfully clear how both Japanese education and the work culture are flawed. As for the Economy, Japan makes the big mistake of focussing only or mostly on Japan and not focus on the global market, while there is plenty of demand for many Japanese products.
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