Comments by "A Sparrow" (@asparrow9876) on "The Male Loneliness Epidemic...Why Don't They Understand?" video.

  1.  @guilhermehank4938  At this point, whatever issues were in the 50's seems like paradise compared to the gargantuan colossal celestially high amount of issues we got now.
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  2.  @japrogramer  He didn't say Japan was diverse. He was saying America is headed for the same grim future as Japan, except in all colors. 💀
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  3. Exquisitely well said.
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  4. I'm 30 next week, same story, been 100% isolated with zero friends since like 22, I'm not kidding. Zero human contact. Just doing what I have to in complete loneliness. Got cancer at 26, survived it at 28.5 with no one but my mother by my side, no friends, no women, nothing. The mind I've developed in the meantime has had a lot of equal amounts good and bad. The good? I now know I am unbreakable, I can survive without anyone, I am my best company and I do not need or beg for people to be around me. The bad? My emotional states were like crashing waves, they'd be calm like the sea then raging like a tsunami. My appetite was shot. My sleep was disturbed, especially from nightmares. My memory had tons of issues, mostly due to depression and anxiety for years, stewing in toxic chemicals, excess cortisol from stress, epinephrine from anxiety and MAO (mono amine oxidase A) from depression. (Also from chemobrain, a side-effect of chemotherapy & radiation.) Letting these things marinate for years inevitably gave me an inoperable tumor on my heart, which I still have but is dead, so only its carcass remains, waiting to be metabolized by my body. I built a physique I never dreamed of when I was an obese teenager and lost all the weight at 20, which I didn't believe could be obtained without steroids. I researched supplements, nootropics, psychedelics, peptides, terpenes and therapeutic technology beyond belief to heal myself. I then broke my mind, something in me snapped, and I didn't relent, kept on reading, listening, getting high and training. Now I changed my full entire name, only my mother is allowed to call me by my birth name, I have permanently engraved views of reality that do not adhere to the ones I was given by society, I took every red pill imaginable, since 19 years old until now. I've never been in a relationship and I promise you. I wouldn't take ANYTHING back..... You need rage.... Then you need to redirect that flame towards goals that serves as an anvil. Then strike at yourself with effort every day until you forge a sharp iron mind. It will have magnetic properties, which will pull all that you desire literally to you. It will defend you in times of need, and it will comfort you in times of despair. Hope this helps. Godspeed brother. Hang in there.... 🫂🤝
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  5. As for hobbies, I took interest in the following things: Archery/Firearms. Bodybuilding/Yoga. Music (browse all genres, there's just so much out there). Movies/TV Shows (only watch the good ones, not the woke ones). Anime. VideoGames. Animals. Nature walks. Growing plants. Building Aquariums/Terrariums. Space-watching (get a nice telescope). Cloud-watching. Drawing/Painting (doesn't matter if you're good or not, just learn at your own speed, its beyond therapeutic). Learning, about everything (make tons of folders with all your favorite channels, since you might reach the maximum amount of subscriptions like I did). Reading Manga/Self-help books. Meditating. Choosing future travel destinations (this will give you something to look forward to later in life). Renew your wardrobe, browse jewelry, clothes, you'll learn about yourself and see yourself in styles you didn't think you'd be interested in until you saw them and looked at other men pulling it off, this will nurture your self-love. Master the teachings of ancient scriptures and texts of all cultures. Connect with God, even if with the use of psychedelia.
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  6.  @zerofox2030  That's true too. Thank God I left the West.
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  7. I give them the exact same feedback when these old crying harpies whine about not being married (and by old I mean 30+ years old). Ouinnnn Ouinnnn 😢😢 nobody wants them cause they're insufferable, boo hooo..... Cry me a river. So lonely... Wahhhhh Wahhhhhh 😭😭
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  8.  @godekchen9658  This, so much. I can't stand people when they give me attention now, because I know exactly how they would've treated the guy I was all my life. Now I could not possibly care less.
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  9.  @euthyphro8935  Earth doesn't have much longer. God's getting quite tired of this failed experiment. Judgement day's coming soon, whoever initiates it. This place doesn't have long.
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  10.  @JamalRidge  My brudda. 🤜🤛🏾
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  11.  @douglaswelenc4698  He wrote his comment specifically to get stories of others so he can relate to his own and know he's not alone. Don't think sharing will take away from anything. Trust me, I was in his shoes. This helps him. It sure helped me throughout the years. Knowing how many men go through this and what their stories were. He appreciates it and even if it doesn't look like it, he wants you to show him a piece of you, so it can reflect with pieces of his own.
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  12.  @douglaswelenc4698  He wrote this post out of yearning for support. And even if he doesn't realize it, these stories will resonate later. It will shake up his soul and rekindle a fire within, tell him about yourself. It will help.
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