Comments by "Violet Joy" (@VioletJoy) on "EWU Bodycam" channel.

  1. The fact that her colleagues want her removed says everything we need to know. That was the most pathetic display of immaturity, self absorption, and utter disrespect I've seen in a long time.
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  2. Beyond heartbreaking. Why she even had children is beyond me. Who knows how many other times she drove like this, but wasn't caught. 😳
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  3. They're all messed up. The couple knew he was there with the young lady for several days, but they waited to call police. I saw it on another channel.
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  4. That neighbor was extremely annoying. She made it all about herself.
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  5. Yep. I saw another video that stated that they knew he had been there for days with a girl, but she didn't want him to get into trouble. That guy isn't the only sick and twisted one involved here.
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  6. They don't seem a whole lot better. They covered for him for days! They knew he had been there for several days with the young lady, but they waited until then to call police.
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  7. She might be wasted, but she's heartless through and through. She ruined her life and more importantly, took the lives of others.
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  8. They looked the other way for 3 days!!! They knew she was there.
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  9. No doubt there was a logical explanation, but we just don't know what it was. Talking or yelling on the outside can sound like it's coming from the inside when there's water involved.
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  10.  @rachelann9362  They actually didn't wait hours. They waited days. There's no way they didn't hear a woman being tortured right next to their house.
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  11.  @sublime2craig  That's what I was thinking. Her friend was totally babying her as she was crying out for her. 🙄
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  12.  @notsocrates9529  Hmmm. Considering she got black out drunk, lied to police, wasted public resources (police and ambulance), caused all kinds of mayhem, showed utter disrespect to all around her (especially those trying to help), etc., I wouldn't say she did nothing wrong. I'd bet money on it that she doesn't act much differently when sober. You're right. She wasn't driving, but how did she plan on getting home?
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  13. Yeah, he pushed her out of the way, but she only focused on that one thing while totally ignoring the part where she hit him and threw chairs at him...all while her daughter was right there in the room. 🙄
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  14. He wouldn't leave. You must have missed that part.
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  15. Right? I caught that, too. I know their kind. They're just as sick for hiring him, ignoring the allegations, and alerting him when police showed up!!! I'm so disgusted!!!
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  16. I wish we knew the rest of the story, but I can't find any other details on line.
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  17. She came across as rather annoying, and so did the daughter. Her life could have been spared if they had just given him the keys or let him leave. Bizarre!!
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  18. I've seen countless videos with officers just like this. Unfortunately, the small percentage of bad ones get the attention.
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  19. While the parents' rage was understandable, they really got in the way. If the father had gotten close to the perp, he probably would have pummeled him to death. What an absolutely terrifying nightmare for them. It's such a relief that she's okay. Props to the officers.
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  20. The mom didn't even say that. The officer had to insist that she meet them at the school! And that was AFTER he had told his mother about the abuse!! Unbelievable. That's horrible.
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  21. ​ @DonLewis86753 I thought it was odd how she "reacted" when the officer told her that Kayden was found. She just continued on with her story about the other child. 🙄
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  22. ​ @YTStoleMyUsername The commenter didn't say she should have been jumping for joy. You didn't think it was a little odd that she just kept telling her story about the other lost child when the officer told her that Kayden had been found? The officer sounded more relieved and seemed confused as to why she didn't really show any kind of reaction.
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  23.  @thefridge7335  You may not mean it this way, but your comments sound very judgemental. It seems like you aren't willing to look at it from a different perspective. The US is very different than other countries where guns may not be lawful to own. Guns owned lawfully are permitted here, but there are also many who own guns illegally. Unless someone owns a gun (legally), there isn't a matched defense weapon to use. Many people have used guns to defend and save strangers. Also, the second amendment was put in place as a way to defend against a tyrannical government. See North Korea for an example of how defenseless citizens can be when a tyrannical government is in place.
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  24.  @thefridge7335  Yeah, you totally missed the point. Every country is different. That's great if guns aren't allowed there and the vast majority of the citizens follow those laws. That won't happen here. There are gangs and criminals who will never follow those laws. It's not like banning guns will lower crime here.
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  25.  @layla2115  For some reason, people like to believe that homes don't cost owners a dime.
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  26.  @MircomFan  You have no idea what happened in this situation and shouldn't make assumptions. All landlords aren't greedy. That's just a popular belief.
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  27.  @healingandgrowth-infp4677  I'm not sure where you got that idea. I didn't hear any pride or boasting. He appeared to me to be a kid who had been at his wits end and was being very honest about what he had done. I'm thinking in his young mind, if his mom was out of the picture, he could live with his grandma where he felt more comfortable.
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  28. They couldn't just enter her house at that point. They have to have a reason.
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  29. @kn0006  There of a reason that they waited hours before calling police.
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  30. It's one thing to grieve, but quite another to act like a toddler and show such utter disrespect to others.
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  31.  @Dawg.....  Yep.
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  32. ​​ @deamcn6548 he officer clearly stated that whether he had that medical condition or not, he should not have been driving. It's not like he had a sudden heart attack. Let's say he really had that condition. Well, he chose to drive knowing it was not safe to do so. Either way, he was in the wrong. What do you think the cops should have done instead?
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  33. Are you trained in sniffer dogs? They are.
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  34. ​ @kathypichey4306 There aren't "a lot" of videos like that. That was ONE incident. That man did not display the typical signs of having an injury like that. Medics arrived and were also not extremely concerned right away because he was coherent and sitting up. In this incident, they didn't say he wasn't shot and didn't cancel medics or anything. They were gathering information. One of them said it didn't appear to be a gun shot but it could be. Medics were on their way.
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  35. To me, it sounded like they may have been turning a blind eye for a very long time, as he's likely an alcoholic.
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  36. It's really not helpful to ignore the other part of the equation - she chose to have sex without using birth control. It's very popular to point the finger at all of the free programs offered to these moms, but it's not that simple. She has access to all kinds of free things to help her children - food, medical care, baby supplies, even work training. It's up to her to accept it and make changes.
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  37.  @bofasofa9399  Yeah "god" was MIA. It's very interesting how God always needs people to help people. 🙄
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  38. You must have missed the part where they got it out safely.
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  39. While it's popular to claim that sentences are harsh for weed, that's not accurate at all. Most are 6 months or less, and that's usually when there are other charges involved.
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  40.  @notsocrates9529  Yeah, I hear you. You're considering other possibilities. 👍 I'm not one to jump to conclusions, but in this case, she showed her colors pretty clearly. She also didn't give the cops another explanation. She just lied about not drinking much.
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  41. They don't transport people to the hospital. That's what ambulances are for. It's part of their job to ask questions and try to get information.
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  42. ​ @TheLikenessOfNormal Up until the Johnny Depp case, it was extremely rare to hear any mention of men being DM victims. It's still very common for women to make excuses for other women, assuming the man is always the one in the wrong.
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  43. ​ @vickyn8162 Not necessarily. They have to have probable cause to enter no matter who it is.
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  44. They waited 3 days!! Horrible human beings.
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  45. Of course, they did. Listing your name and address is the most standard information on ANY document. Sick women!!!
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  46.  @_Y.Not_  Snark warning. No doubt it had nothing to do with her getting black out drunk, passing out, acting insane, being extremely disrespectful, lying to police... all while representing her county. But, yeah, it's possible that they conspired against her, but not likely.
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  47. ​ @holarndius You must not have watched this video or any other police videos for that matter.
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  48. How is that a miracle? We don't even know if that's what he heard. They were already working on getting the car right side up. 🤷🏼‍♀️
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  49. School information should be shared via private email.
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  50. Even having an alcohol level of .32?
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  51. I think it's less about not caring about victims and more about protecting criminals. It's backwards!!
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  52. It's amazing how at least 6 people in the comment section supposedly know someone with ABS, yet there are less than 100 cases worldwide, most being in Japan.
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  53.  @willdiesel8431  I'm not sure what your referring to. Are you asking if she was attempting to deescalate the situation by lying?
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  54. ​ @misscecity Harsh? He's 3. They don't think like we do.
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  55. ​ @privatedonut2914 And that also isn't true. There are very few police shootings. It's just popular to pretend there are.
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  56.  @adimeter  There was a lot of footage cut out. I've seen the extended version where it shows that the officers were very kind and gentle to her. I think they're trained not to touch victims in this type of situation.
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  57.  @Stevo.100  I was referring to when they went up and got him out safely. We don't know when the guy shot himself.
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  58. ​@lifeofxyco7633 He had an alcohol level of .32.
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  59.  @sij809  This might come as a surprise, but everyone is different. When considering cases like this, there are a lot of variables to consider: age of abuse, length of abuse, depth of abuse, type of abuse, personality, if there was a trusted adult or friend to turn to, etc. We aren't robots. Everyone has a threshold.
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  60.  @kommisar.  💯
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  61.  @Vale0x3  I've never heard it put quite like that before. Very interesting and astute. No matter how much alcohol I consumed, I would never treat anyone that way - flipping them off, making demands of her friend, etc. Some people might think that sounds holier than thou, but I honestly don't mean it that way. I'm just recognizing that what you said makes a lot of sense. Her true colors were revealed, which is why I don't have a lot of sympathy for her.
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  62.  @kommisar.  I'm not sure why so many people are insisting that she was somehow a victim. It's very strange. You are thinking it through rationally.
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  63. Not only that, but the utter disrespect to everyone around her, including her own friend. I'm going to guess that she's the type to lean on others, but not the other way around.
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  64.  @snow4summer515  Huh?
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  65. There is plenty of support available. There are so many free programs for parents in need - free medical, free food, free baby essentials... All drug treatment centers give mothers all necessary supplies and connect them with local programs to make sure they're set. Some people really shouldn't have children.
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  66.  @Adelicows  I said they were getting in the way. Maybe you missed the part where they were repeatedly asked to back away, but kept coming back, which only escalated the situation. Yes, that hindered the investigation because the guy was opening up about his sick desires. So let's say the father had killed the guy with his bare hands. Then he'd be in prison. Police are there to make sure legal protocol is followed. That's the best way of ensuring an arrest and conviction. The last thing they'd want is for the wrong man to go to jail.
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  67. Cops behave like this in about 99% of the arrest videos I've seen.
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  68. ​@gregjegstrup1024 You might want to reread niki's comment. She said whoever voted this administration into office is continuing to promote that. She did not say that the current president was the cause. There's no way anyone can honestly deny that this administration condones criminal behavior and does not support personal responsibility.
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  69.  @lorireed8046  I'm really surprised to see so many people defending this woman. Yes, she lied about drinking. There was no reason to think that her drink was drugged. The cameras showed her drinking a lot. Crying for her deceased mother is not pointing toward past trauma. She sure looked extremely relaxed when she continually flipped off the EMT who was helping her.
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  70. It's easy to jump to conclusions due to confirmation bias. One case Isn't a representation of what usually happens. Plus, each state, department, etc. are different. Charges get dropped pretty often. Sometimes the parent ends up in classes or something similar.
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  71.  @Earth2ash311  Like that was so less abusive, right? 🙄
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  72.  @LittleKikuyu  Exactly true. The rare "bad" cops are the ones that the public tends to focus on. Then they jump to the conclusion that they're all the same.
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  73. I don't quite understand your comment. Would you mind explaining why you mentioned the bond? The mother drove with her daughter in the car knowing she had a cocktail of drugs in her system.
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  74. There's no rehabilitation with people like this.
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  75.  @RoolyToo  💯
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  76.  @LilLadyAy  Right? I noticed that, too.
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  77. 🎯
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  78. I find it very odd that so many people believe he has dementia just by watching one video. He's a severe alcoholic who absolutely did not care about those children on the bus. He was told to pull over, but he refused. He dropped a few kids off before his supervisor showed up to tell him to get off the bus. His BAC was 4 times the legal limit. Why would anyone think that's dementia?? He even showed up plastered in court! He's probably been an alcoholic for many years.
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  79. Taylor: He pushed me! Translation: Taylor repeatedly attacked Dakota and he attempted to distance himself from her. Taylor: He didn't like me going out with my girls. Translation: They are both addicts and had an agreement about avoiding alcohol. He went to pick her up from the party because she was toasted! Taylor: But, I'm a girl. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
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  80. ​ @SimonC82686 RIGHT?! Some of these comments are insane. He even showed up to court plastered. He's a severe alcoholic. End of.
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  81. 1. He's 3, so it doesn't mean much that "He knows not to go in the woods." 2. Three years old is too young to be outside alone in that type of area. 3. Her lack of reaction when the officer told her that Kayden was found was weird. She just had to continue telling her story about another child. What?? 4. After the 20 minute video, we didn't even get to see the mother and son reunite. That moment was cut out. Why???
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  82. It's interesting and telling how both the husband and step son defended her. Messed up situation, that's for sure.
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  83. What?!!! At what point? AFTER she was shot, her babies kidnapped, and she almost died??
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  84. ​ @charliehofmann3524 Well, or brings in money that is used to live on. She was evidently able to buy that big house.
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  85. This is horrifying. Those poor babies. 😢
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  86. It's interesting how she was trying to pose as a 7th grader with winged eyeliner and false eyelashes. She also didn't change her speech. School staff: Good morning. How are you? Casey: Fine, and yourself?
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  87.  @nunyabiznis3595  I'm not sure what your point is here. That goes without saying. Although that's a very popular thing to say, there are far fewer cops that know about the corruption than people want to believe.
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  88. ​ @westboroughbaptistchurch5136 She needs help and a massive dose of humility.
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  89. Well, you're normal. None of those employees had any morals.
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  90. ​ @KaiLucasZachary Day care is big money. Why would you assume otherwise? It's strange that you think that she'd "have" to rent the second house out. Hello! She's greedy and deranged.
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  91. Shout out to all of the celebrities who raised their kids with respect, rules, and humility. Evidently, Michael Jordan is not one of them. The irony of him claiming racism is beyond. 🙄
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  92. Uber is cheap and can save lives.
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  93. ​ @ThrockmortonJGildersleeve He was very kind the entire time, but you happened to point out the one single sentence...
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  94. ​ @erinshaw6266 Where did you get the info that the suspect was not lying?
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  95. It's just not worth the risk. No doubt the grandfather is in agony knowing he tried to prevent this from happening, but for some reason, mom was being stubborn. This is heartbreaking because it was totally preventable. 💔 Hats off to the first responders, who gave their all and showed their genuine concern for them.
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  96. @Norah Elaine I wonder if he did. I can only imagine the anguish. 💔
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  97. She is a disgusting person. Not only did her sister die 100% due to her intoxication, but she didn't even change afterwards!! 💔
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  98. Well, it was named "the baths". It's kind of a trashy town, though.
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  99. Yet the grandmother was horrified.
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  100. They seemed more relieved, honestly.
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  101. Yes, but there are less than 100 cases worldwide, most of which are in Japan. There are supposedly at least 6 Americans here in the comment section with the syndrome. 🙄
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  102.  @tamtamjacobs3442  Everywhere in the US.
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  103.  @666PicklesNickels  Everywhere in the US. Each county and state offers all of that. Plus, there are public programs and churches that offer all kinds of stuff.
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  104. Well, the officer needed his car. Why do you act like he was being petty? She was a terrible driver!!
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  105. ​ @jeremy5602 Seriously. I'm convinced that people generally assume the worst when it comes to police officers. I can't imagine standing there just letting someone hit another car.
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  106.  @jeremy5602  💯
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  107. That was after the third time he mentioned sending help!!
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  108. There were complaints about this guy at a mall. That's why.
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  109. It's amazing how at least 6 people in the comment section supposedly know someone with ABS, yet there are less than 100 cases worldwide, most being in Japan.🙄
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  110.  @shellos8  This might come as a surprise, but people are different.
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  111.  @ezra6454  Good for you. Everyone if different.
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  112. I'm shocked no one has said, "Bye, Felicia!" Lol. Groan.
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  113. ​ @ataridc Finally! A sensible comment!!
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  114. ​ @MrJahvyn  I think he was referring to the sentencing, not the actual time served. If there is a plea of guilty or a plea deal of some sort, the sentence is negotiable. I'm not saying it was appropriate, but it's rarely as ridiculous as people assume. There is usually more to it than that. She clearly didn't learn any type of lesson, though.
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  115. ​ @deborahallen3318 There's probably much more to it than that.
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  116. I wish all 911 dispatchers would immediately just let the caller know that help is on the way. 90% of the time, the caller keeps asking for help to be sent. How maddening!@
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  117. 1. The drone and robot footage were very cool. Those are really helpful tools to have. 2. Evidently, the phones might have been on the burner in order to create an explosive. 3. I'm glad everyone got out safely. 4. The mother of the child might want to refresh her driving skills. 5. How terrifying for all involved, including the locksmith!!!
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  118. At the very least, give him the freaking car keys abs let him leave!!!!!
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  119. 💯
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  120. After all of that, the moment they were reunited was cut from the video. What the heck?!?!
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  121. Someone mentioned that it could have been used as an explosive.
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  122. Right??!!
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  123. ​ @Kavi_Sedai It's 100% alcohol. He even showed up to court plastered. He's a severe alcoholic.
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  124. ​ @Gigibaby88 He's a severe alcoholic.
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  125. ​ @otomo129 Maybe it's rare, but in his case, he's just a severe alcoholic. He even showed up to court plastered. He's probably been an alcoholic for many years. Many people who deal with alcoholics have said that he acts accordingly.
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  126.  @AFarmerCalledChicken  This is totally alcohol induced. What a relief that your "grandpa" quit.
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  127. 🤢
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  128. Did you mean nothing from this? That's not true at all. People love to make claims like that, but now you sound like Marcus. I've seen countless times where drug charges aren't tagged on - when it's a small amount for personal use. Bonding out is standard. It would have been different if he had murdered someone or something like that. You must never watch arrest videos.
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  129. It's rather shocking that none of the children ever mentioned "down stairs." My heart breaks for the children AND the parents. I can't even imagine how traumatizing it was for both!! Those women are despicable, to say the least. Carla has the most child friendly voice, yet is dark as coal on the inside.
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  130. That was weird.
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  131. There are no gods. This is so disturbing!! That poor little boy. He will have years and years of therapy ahead of him in order to deal with all of that trauma. How scary that must have been for him. Imagine all of the times that weren't caught on camera!! As if Dontay's behavior wasn't bad enough, these women went and excused the serious allegations against him because he "helps" children. Yeah, that's how they get access to the kids. They're negligent!!! A bunch of sick people. All of them. Even the mom had to be talked into coming to the school with her son WHO HAD TOLD HER THAT HE WAS ABUSED. Shame on her, too! The officers took it more seriously than anyone!!! Good thing they handled the situation properly!!
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  132.  @KennyA424  What stones were thrown? I made an observation.
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  133.  @zykariah5292  But it speaks volumes.
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  134.  @BenziitOfemme  She was on video downing 5 drinks in a fairly short period of time. None of her drinks were spiked. She was just wasted.
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