Comments by "TsuM" (@TsugMt) on "The Japan Reporter" channel.

  1. Seeing that politician pour his heart out made me almost cry, yeah, I don't doubt there's not a lot of great politicians in Japan but I have never seen a politician speak like that or be frustrated like that in my developing country, they generally always try to keep their cool and be seem as "strong" when what we need is no more lying psychopaths who love to do nothing for the people, but more people like that politician who speak loudly and understand people, obviously if they can at least try to change things it would be even better but I think it is clear nowadays when a politician just talks for votes and who really wants to make a change and is passionate about helping their people
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  2. And it's happening around the world too, many see children as a luxury
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  3. Japanese people imo are afraid of being criticized rather than being cold hearted There's good and bad people in all countries but I hope the good people in Japan start using that group mentality for improving social conditions Though I really think school in one of the biggest aspects to blame in Japan as it is VERY outdated as it has kept a form of education that doesn't work and only traumatize children for life. The way school works and how students are treated really really really need a massive change in mentality and way of teaching students. Schools shouldn't be about making kids afraid of giving their thoughts, of being creative, of being confident, group mentality can be good for mai tai ing peace and to have a mentality of caring for others but schools imo are ruining that and are just making people who are afraid of helping, afraid of being assertive, afraid of being themselves and of seeking help Schools in Japan are affecting their own people heavily and for the worse
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  4. I think the key word here is having high expectations for Japan, andnI don't say that in a negative way but rather we need to go to Japan with an open heart, with a sense of adventure and curiosity and not expecting things to go a certain way so we can enjoy more the little things that Japan can offer. Without expectations I think we can enjoy not just Japan but life more
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  5. We need to stip this mentality of infinitesimal growth, we cannot grow forever and ever, we should rather focus on balancing populatuons, yes, Japan may not look in 50 years the same as it is now....And? Why should they stay the same for our selfish wishes? That's no good, Japan should do what THEY want to do, bot what the West imposes on them, is that clear?
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  6. Yeah, the world feel smore isolated, like everyone is divided and in their own bunker, with theur own closed communities, it's weird
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  7. When I speak to people they believe themselves nowadays to be very "progressive" but it is impressove that her hisband was able to support her more in a country like Japan where there's a lot of sexism rather than us from "progressive " countries to believe that what she does is ok because that's her life and her marriage and we cannot speak for her husband and what she does SHOULDN'T BE SOMWTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF, but seems we are not as "progressive" as we believe we are lmao. We need to grow much more too guys. Not be stuck in a mentality like that of what she can or cannot do with her life....Damn guys....
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  8.  @thathandsomedevil0828  That's interesting how many people think of this lady as a "bad" person when she and her husband talked about her job and well....It's a job, I see the people who criticze the lady as a bunch of idiotic people who cannot fathom the lady and her husband accepting her new job and that's it
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  9. Japan reminds me that all countries have problems and no country is perfect It's not about them, it's about us. If you can love others (friends/family/partners) by seeing who they are, I'm sure we can discover beautiful people instead of blaming others. For example, I love living here in Mexico, a lot of people have this idea this is a dangerous couintry, and while they're not wrong haha that doesn't mean everything is bad or that everyone is bad here, that violence is heavy doesn't mean all mexicans are violent (like it is impossible that all japenese don't know about love) thanks to videos like this I can see and accept both the good things abd bad things in my country and still love Mexico with my heart, of course I want us to improve, but I also know there are some things out of my reach and it's a group effort of all of us to fix things for the better Same with Japan, they have a lot of problems, but if I can love a heavily flawed country like mine, I definitely can love Japan for what they are. Doesn't mean I don't want themto see them grow but rather that I grew and can love people and countries / societies for what they are, not for what I want them to be. So I don't think it is a country problem, it may be a difference in valies problen for you. I may sound arrogant but there's a reason generally people around the world likes us mexicans , because we are warm and welcoming and maybe it's not about japanese in this case, but about your own needs, morals and cultural differences from them. Because I know japanese people can love others as kuch as yoiu or me, they just need nore time to get warned to others. To feel safe and secure.
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  10. I think the key word here is having high expectations for Japan, andnI don't say that in a negative way but rather we need to go to Japan with an open heart, with a sense of adventure and curiosity and not expecting things to go a certain way so we can enjoy more the little things that Japan can offer. Without expectations I think we can enjoy not just Japan but life more
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  11.  @alsparkproductions7849  She said that yes, the husband did accept, and it's not my problem, nor other people's problem, if she said it there's nothing else we could do but accept it, what good will it come from doubting her? Will YOU cancel her? Will YOU go to her house like weirdos all the way to Japan and tell her she's wrong? Will YOU use this as am excuse to be incels and say how all women are supposedly the same? Or to be prejudice and say how all japanese people are bad and evil and not trustworthy? It's just a grown up lady making a decision, and we cannot control every single person in the world like gringos generally believe to be able to do....So let's just chill and respect her decision
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  12. I think the key word here is having high expectations for Japan, andnI don't say that in a negative way but rather we need to go to Japan with an open heart, with a sense of adventure and curiosity and not expecting things to go a certain way so we can enjoy more the little things that Japan can offer. Without expectations I think we can enjoy not just Japan but life more
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  13. But there's hikikomori around the world, and people shun them away too and we don't talk about them so aren't we in the west doing the same? Look at the statistics for America for example, half of young people feel isolated frok everybody, that's a scary number, I'm not saying japanese don't need to focus on their problems, but we should also focus on our problems, be hukble and not pretend we don't have those kinds of problems, because we do, and we are looking away, that doesn't make us better, we need to do hetter for our people here in the west too.
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  14. I feel you dude, out there, society seems like i has become less patient, less empathic, less chill and more competitive in a bad way, more rude, hopefully societies around the world will go the otherbwayband become more tolerant of different people like us who need to go at a slower pace, more tolerant for those of us who are a little bit more sensitive.
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  15. When I speak to people they believe themselves nowadays to be very "progressive" but it is impressove that her hisband was able to support her more in a country like Japan where there's a lot of sexism rather than us from "progressive " countries to believe that what she does is ok because that's her life and her marriage and we cannot speak for her husband and what she does SHOULDN'T BE SOMWTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF, but seems we are not as "progressive" as we believe we are lmao. We need to grow much more too guys. Not be stuck in a mentality like that of what she can or cannot do with her life....Damn guys....
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  16.  @punbishal5874  Yeah, preparing mentally is important but I think the most improtant thing is to learn Japanese, go without expectations, because having expectations for everything is just goong to disappoint us every time. And finally, really having an open mind about the good and bad of japan, and not to focus on the bad, but on the good side, and see the "bad" stuff as challenges People talk about japan like if it were this alien planet but it's just a normal conolex country as any other. And living as an immigrant in the USA or Canada is notneasy either, I speak as a mexican myself who has seen so many people struggle as immigrants innotherncountries, not just japan
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  17.  @CentauriTT  Well, again, before talking, read a little before sounding like an ignorant person.... Japan working hours are less than US working hours, and yes, they can improve, an bro, I am from Mexico, the number 1 country with most working hours, for me, going to Japan would be an improvement....
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  18. Oddly enough I've learnt this from Japan, there's a lot of pressure but also depends where do you olive, if you live in Tokyo, a highly competitive place yes, people feel cold and rushing through life, but if you see how people live in smaller more rural areas, you'll see nit all japanese people treat ewch other with so kuch pressure, I think the solution is to elicit people to go to more rural, peaceful and natural place within Japan to drop that pressure. Let's remember countries are complex and they're not just one thing or another. They're a mix of everything
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  19. But there's hikikomori around the world, and people shun them away too and we don't talk about them so aren't we in the west doing the same? Look at the statistics for America for example, half of young people feel isolated frok everybody, that's a scary number, I'm not saying japanese don't need to focus on their problems, but we should also focus on our problems, be hukble and not pretend we don't have those kinds of problems, because we do, and we are looking away, that doesn't make us better, we need to do hetter for our people here in the west too.
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  20.  @victorlarryesmenda2805  Yup, and she made a decision with her husband. And imagine a young AV actress wants a family in the future....Would you tell her she can't have a family? It's just a job....Don't be asshols guys....
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  21. @agapp11able I'm not telling you're wrong, people on the internet seem to have this obsession with being right and generally have their ego so inflated I know there's no use in convincing them about something different from their perspectives, including you of course. But seeing and studying cultures and welcoming people ideas I've seen things are not "simple" they are very complex, simple is only used when we don't know about something, when our ignorance doesn't let us see the grey aspects in problems I don't know why you comment though, I obviously won't be convinced of your opinion (which is not a fact, our opinions are not facts, we are not perfect, we're flawed humans) maybe it is to convince yourself of your "righteousness ". I want to accept our flaws as humans and go the opposite way the Internet is going towards, that means I wanna be more open minded and empathic instead of obsessing over being "right" Either way, have a nice day and greetings from Mexico
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  22. Here in Mexico we have a similar feeling to foreigners lmao. So be careful to not turn your criticize into ignorance about the world and prejudice
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  23.  @observer.b_e_l_l_i_s  Yeah, we need more empathy and love and support for those that we see as "different" from us. And that applies in kany ways to many countries and people and contexts.
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  24. Oddly enoigh that has happened to me to....Here in Mexico...With adults, I have had a lot of my mexican people who have told me that I am "Too brown".... or that I smell bad too only due to my skin color....I truly think I would experience less racism in Japan than in Mexico, which is very sad to think that a lot of people from my own country think like that of me
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  25. Thanks for being an armchair therapist, I'm sure you have the credentials to talk about stuff like this
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  26. We need to stip this mentality of infinitesimal growth, we cannot grow forever and ever, we should rather focus on balancing populatuons, yes, Japan may not look in 50 years the same as it is now....And? Why should they stay the same for our selfish wishes? That's no good, Japan should do what THEY want to do, bot what the West imposes on them, is that clear?
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  27.  @alsparkproductions7849  Respecting her decision doesn't mean aggreeing with her BTW, it's just a form of knowing well....That her life is her life and we are not part of it so we can just only let it go....so chill guys 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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  28.  @victorlarryesmenda2805  And again, you didn't answer....If she was a youngee AV actress wouldn't she had the freedom to choose to have a family even when still veing and AV actress? Would she be a pervert? Without morality? Selfish? It's just a job guys.....And we western think to have always the moral superiority when we cannot accept this is just a job.....shame...
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  29. @agapp11able I think political abd social problems are way more complex than what your comment says That's what I've come to understand from researching many cultures and countries over the years I think though personally governments around the world are failing their own people and communities and we need to improve the way politicians do their job imo or straight up create mayne something new, something that is still not written or thought of, we can and need to do better though, mostly in being humble and study much more about what surrounds us and be bold and think outside the box without demonizing others imo
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  30. @agapp11able haha, I'm sorry I wrote a lot, I just don't tend to agree with internet half assed and black and white opinions, I prefer to speak with real life people, I don't mind political discussions, social discussions too like abortion, democracy etc with a person as long as I can see them irl, if not, I don't think is worth "fighting" to see whose right when we don't even know each other That's my way of living though, you can fight with many others in the internet aside from me And it's not just you, most people in the internet have this massive ego, thinking they have the right and only opinion while ignoring everything else that doesn't fit their narratives, becoming more ignorant than they think, you're not unique, is something common in the internet So you can take your sigh and contempt away and be miserable fighting with stangers in other forums, again, greetings from Mexico
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  31.  @chunellemariavictoriaespan8752  Man, I love how people talk of Japan like if in the west we would be so hyperindividualistic there's no room for collectivism anymore, when in reality in our countries there's a lot of tribalism among people, people getting into their own circles and not getting out of those circles lmao
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  32.  @tonygriego6382  She has the right to work wherever she wants and to have a family, and saying she can't just proves how we always love to boast how much more progressive we are than Japan but imo it's just hypocrisy. Just hipocrisy and trying to force pur views into a very different culture. It may or may not affect the child but the thing is that she talked with her husband, and not respecting the husband decision is also hypocritical. Just idiotic
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  33. Bro...Japan isn't even the country with most working hours among OCDE countries, I think even the US worked more hours than Japanese people so....yeah... Read first before spiting lies and fake news on the Internet, be better dude....be better
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  34. For example, what about AV actresses that are young but in the future they want to have a family? Will YOU AND ALL THESE people in the comments tell her to not have kids? Why? Because she did something shameful? Not womanly? Because she needs to behave like a proper lady? Because she will affect others with a job that should considered just that, a job? What an awful mentality people have in this comment section
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  35. Absolutely, I guess they don't have many times a good perspective about other countries, for example, if they would see how we live here in Latin America they would have a heart attack LMAO, I guess they need to be more aware of the opportunities they have imo
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  36.  @loserwade1346  Why people have such a hard time accepting that what she does is just a job? Guys....It's 2022..... Not only that, I BET anything that if this was an interview towards a dude we would all be "He has the dream job","It's so nice his wife supports him", "He's so brave", etc
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  37. When I speak to people they believe themselves nowadays to be very "progressive" but it is impressove that her hisband was able to support her more in a country like Japan where there's a lot of sexism rather than us from "progressive " countries to believe that what she does is ok because that's her life and her marriage and we cannot speak for her husband and what she does SHOULDN'T BE SOMWTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF, but seems we are not as "progressive" as we believe we are lmao. We need to grow much more too guys. Not be stuck in a mentality like that of what she can or cannot do with her life....Damn guys....
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  38. Well, I don't see it different as the west hyper sexualizing Asians, look at trends and reseaech, japan generally ranks #1 in the west for adult videos....So....yeah...And there's a lot of step family in USA videos I've seen as mexican....It's weird for me but I've never seen a gringo that bats an eye for those likes
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  39.  @victorlarryesmenda2805  Still, shouldn't the woman deserve to take her decisions? Doesn't the husband count in this decision she made? Because she said she talked with her husband....Are we just....going to ignore that MASSIVE FACT? lmao
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  40.  @victorlarryesmenda2805  yeah...
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  41.  @tonygriego6382  And what if she wanted to be an AV actress when she was younger but wanted now a child? Because the problem would be the same, her face will always be in the internet in those videos but wouldn't she be able to have a family? Why? Because for us as men she loses value or worth? Because she made something not moral? Of good western values? Who says that the adult video industry is or not moral?
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  42. @Centauri The Typical Juicer  Id you don't know where I get my info from you are just demonstrating your ignorance, I SAID FROM THE OCDE COU TRIES READ THE OCDE DATA YOU CAN FIND EASILY ON THE INTERNET....It won't take you more than 5 seconds to google it...jesus dude....
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  43. When I speak to people they believe themselves nowadays to be very "progressive" but it is impressove that her hisband was able to support her more in a country like Japan where there's a lot of sexism rather than us from "progressive " countries to believe that what she does is ok because that's her life and her marriage and we cannot speak for her husband and what she does SHOULDN'T BE SOMWTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF, but seems we are not as "progressive" as we believe we are lmao. We need to grow much more too guys. Not be stuck in a mentality like that of what she can or cannot do with her life....Damn guys.... The level of people who would treat their wife like if a job in the p0r industry is bad just because is kind of f up imo as mexica
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  44.  @JBNariko  For example, what about AV actresses that are young but in the future they want to have a family? Will YOU AND ALL THESE people in the comments tell her to not have kids? Why? Because she did something shameful? Not womanly? Because she needs to behave like a proper lady? Because she will affect others with a job that should considered just that, a job? What an awful mentality people have in this comment section
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  45. @Tommy Rex  Well, if you get to know japanese people you can see they're just that, people, not some kind of aliens that don't have feelings but due to their strict society they cannot express themselves properly. And that can happen with any society, if you don't know us mexicans you may have some thoughts about us, maybe you think our society is one way but reality may be way more complex than that.
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  46. When I speak to people they believe themselves nowadays to be very "progressive" but it is impressove that her hisband was able to support her more in a country like Japan where there's a lot of sexism rather than us from "progressive " countries to believe that what she does is ok because that's her life and her marriage and we cannot speak for her husband and what she does SHOULDN'T BE SOMWTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF, but seems we are not as "progressive" as we believe we are lmao. We need to grow much more too guys. Not be stuck in a mentality like that of what she can or cannot do with her life....Damn guys....
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  47.  @billjones642  Absolitely, Jane Jacobs has a lot of books talking about how we have built cities to be lonely instead of cities that help in building communities. With the internet, the pandemic, the division of people in many areas like politics or racism, gentrification, etc. The high expectations we have for each other to fulfill a specific role etc we have become loners abd we need to change that around the world. So I agree 100% with you
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  48. Yeah, I've seen data that young people in the usa feel more and more isolated and that's worrying, we also jeed to do better for our people, to be more tolerant and accepting of others
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  49. When I speak to people they believe themselves nowadays to be very "progressive" but it is impressove that her hisband was able to support her more in a country like Japan where there's a lot of sexism rather than us from "progressive " countries to believe that what she does is ok because that's her life and her marriage and we cannot speak for her husband and what she does SHOULDN'T BE SOMWTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF, but seems we are not as "progressive" as we believe we are lmao. We need to grow much more too guys. Not be stuck in a mentality like that of what she can or cannot do with her life....Damn guys....
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  50.  @victorlarryesmenda2805  Like, I get people are worried about the kid but....first, the talked about it together, it's not just the woman's responsibility but the husband AS A FATHER, and second....Well....It's their problem, their family, what they are doing isn't ilegal tbh, it's maybe weird but as long as they're aware about the problems the kid can have and have sone solutions for those problems.....Well it's their problen as family now tbh.
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  51.  @demonizedhuman941  I guess it's a difference in cultures then tbh, bot everyone has to think like you giys, thanks for that though. Greetings from Mexico.
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  52. @agapp11able 👍
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  53. It's interesting because that happens to me as latino, I never had a lot of friends, right now I don't have any friends which I can communicate with, and that's alright, I feel good because I have my family who supports me, but I know I'll have to get out there and let others see me. I don't want to spend my life without friends but it has been difficult even in a country where foreigners think we all are warm and welcoming to others. And with covid that feeling of loneliness also worsened, you could say it's "easy" to make mexican friends, but I kind of have a different mentality than a lot of mexicans so I feel I don't belong here at times, but it is what it is, I think it is important to try and meet new people because at the end, good relationships imo are the most important thing we can build in our lives
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  54. It's just a job. Let's not act like republican gringos and Let's understand this is just a job
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  55.  @chunellemariavictoriaespan8752  But aside from that, it's just a job. Imagine this  Gor example, what about AV actresses that are young but in the future they want to have a family? Will YOU AND ALL THESE people in the comments tell her to not have kids? Why? Because she did something shameful? Not womanly? Because she needs to behave like a proper lady? Because she will affect others with a job that should considered just that, a job? What an awful mentality people have in this comment section
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  56.  @tonygriego6382  How much I loathe this comment section for this video lmao But nobita did a great job as always
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  57.  @chunellemariavictoriaespan8752  Well, according to THEIR law, they canmot discriminate you due to what you did in the past so that is something to use as leverage to obtain other jobs, and there's a lot of AV actresses that just went and had a normal life, but that's the decision of eqch lady no matter how society sees them
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  58.  @chunellemariavictoriaespan8752  Yup, people will ALWAYS talk and gossip, and that will happen to adult actors everywhere in the world as people consume crazy amounts of adult videos, but it is just a job and while for sone it may be difficult to find a job, for others it isn't, it's a decision that they as adults should face tbh, they know that Japan loves to gossip like that so they need the strenght to face that, I know theire industry is shady but the job itself shouldn't be marked as just bad by us too tbh. We should be more comprehensive and understand other JAV actresses do it out of passion and understand the risks, that's not difficult to inderstand
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  59. @Centauri The Typical Juicer  I won't give you a link you won't read, I'm wure you're old enough to be responsible to google something as easy as "Working hours per country according to the OCDE" be a grown up abd search for yourself, don't be a baby....
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  60.  @victorlarryesmenda2805  Hsband
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  61. @Rekko  Nah, here in Mexjco even with all our problens with violence life is convenient...We are not having kids for teking them to work, you discriminately think we still love in the 1910s or what the hell?
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  62.  @Momo-qo7is  I guess but you could say the same for every other country like USA who had 100k overdose deaths in one year, or here in Mexico with the rampant violence, but the bad things aren't the only things that define a country, or are they? I personally prefer to be aware of the problems of my country and Japan where I plan to live soon and focus on the positives, if not, I'll live with bitterness in my heart forever, I don't want to live like that, I want to live with hooe even if it sounds cheesy.
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  63.  @Momo-qo7is  That's the pro of being a foreigner imo, as they don't necesarily see us as part of their society so we have more freedom to be oursleves and they'll be like "oh, they're foreigners guess they just have a different culture", I have seen though that being a salary man in Japan as a foreigner can be harsh as their expectations increase and put the same pressure on us as other japanese people. As an english teacher and translator I feel gratitude to have such jobs where I can be more independent, where I can find more online jobs and not have to work in a company and can enjoy a better work-life balance but yeah, while I have seen imoprovements in their work environments in Japan they still need to work a lot, but again, I want to trust them and believe in them, believe that they'll grow and improve. Have a nice day!!
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  64.  @GeenoGab  Also, we use gringo a lot as a shorter way to call them, because for us, they're not americans, we mexicans are americans too, for us them calling themselves americans means they think of themselves to be the center of this continent, when they aren't. So instead of saying all the time USA citizens, and in spanish the term is longer, we use gringo. If you're going to talk with ignorance and prejudice about ke or my people please go back with your parents so they teach you some manners please. Thanks
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  65. We need to stip this mentality of infinitesimal growth, we cannot grow forever and ever, we should rather focus on balancing populatuons, yes, Japan may not look in 50 years the same as it is now....And? Why should they stay the same for our selfish wishes? That's no good, Japan should do what THEY want to do, bot what the West imposes on them, is that clear?
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  66. Bro...Japan isn't even the country with most working hours among OCDE countries, I think even the US worked more hours than Japanese people so....yeah... Read first before spiting lies and fake news on the Internet, be better dude....be better
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  67.  @GlasbanGorm  you know what's up!!
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  68.  @CosmicVoid_119  We aren't as progressive as we always boast lmao . We always boast how mcin "better" we are than japan but see this WHOLE comment section full of people not being chill about this grown up lady that made the decision to be an AV actress and can't wrap their head aroind her husband accepting her doing it, like...that's some backwards ass midnset
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  69. When I speak to people they believe themselves nowadays to be very "progressive" but it is impressove that her hisband was able to support her more in a country like Japan where there's a lot of sexism rather than us from "progressive " countries to believe that what she does is ok because that's her life and her marriage and we cannot speak for her husband and what she does SHOULDN'T BE SOMWTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF, but seems we are not as "progressive" as we believe we are lmao. We need to grow much more too guys. Not be stuck in a mentality like that of what she can or cannot do with her life....Damn guys....
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  70.  @thathandsomedevil0828  And again, one more time, like hell, WHAT THE HELL DO YOU CARE ABOUT HER DECISIONS, she talked about it with her husband, it's their problem, not your, if you wouldn't do it that's ok, but learn to have some respect to other people at least. And more if they're adults or a couple that already talked about the issue, be mature, please.
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  71.  @thathandsomedevil0828  That's your thoughts of her without knowing her.... I mean, like, I don't know where are you from but for me as mexican I really don't like that mentality of your as it resembles a lot this gringo mebtality where they believe they're the morality police FOR THE WORLD, and they say that kind of stuff you say about my people too without really getting to know who we are. So I really dislike that kind of ignorant mindset about others....
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  72.  @thathandsomedevil0828  And that morality includes sexual and cultural morality...Like....It's weird but tbh, it's not illegal over there, she talked about it with her husband, her people, her culture, why do we have this stupid ass mentality of morality over others? It's not like the USA and Europe don't have massive morality, racism problems and tbh although I don't like gringo culture that doesn't mean I will criticize every thing they do or like like their obssession qith weapons or their obssessive patriotism....But I guess respect and tolerance towards other ciltures and people is not part of your morals though
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  73.  @thathandsomedevil0828  So sad your mentality, I'm glad nost people don't think with that horrible gringo mentality
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  74. But there's hikikomori around the world, and people shun them away too and we don't talk about them so aren't we in the west doing the same? Look at the statistics for America for example, half of young people feel isolated frok everybody, that's a scary number, I'm not saying japanese don't need to focus on their problems, but we should also focus on our problems, be hukble and not pretend we don't have those kinds of problems, because we do, and we are looking away, that doesn't make us better, we need to do hetter for our people here in the west too.
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  75.  @frankrivera8858  So at the we in the west may not be as "progressive" as we always boost, that we suposedly are more "progressive" than Japan....Hahahaha
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  76.  @idleeidolon  Yup, I think of them as I think of my mexican people, we are a falwed society but I poove ky mexican people, same with Japan, I know they are flawed and as you said, there's a lot of people who won't heklp other out of fear, but I still love them. I mean, if I can love what can be at times a violent, corrupt, unpunctual, rude, with crab mentality society I think I can be open enough in my heart and mind to love another flawed society like japanese people. Because it's not about wanting to change other in the ways we think it's the "correct" way of living but accepting the good and bad aspects while we trying to do our best ibdividually imo. Those are my thoughts on different cultures you don't have to agree with me of course, I love to criticize but also beijg aware that neither me nor my country are perfect
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  77. @The game The movie  Yeah, that's why I want to go to Japan, because when I was a kid I was heavily bullied and everyday that I came to home I was always excited to see new cultural stuff, anime, food, etc from over there, so you could say that they kept me alive when I was young. Over the years I've come to love Mexico even with all the massive amount of problems we have, and I've come to the conclusion that my goal is to give back to japanese people all the lessons and love (I know how cheesy it sounds) they gave me even if it was indirectly. So if I can love and accept a very broken and problematic country and society like Mexico, I think I have the maturity to live over there and love and accept their people, to help them go through one of the biggest sistematic problems in japan (school) to help them become better people and to give back what they gave me, which is love. Sounds cheesy but generally that's how we are as mexicans lmao
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  78.  @punbishal5874  I think it's the opposite, it's not about focusing on the "problems that we'll surely live through" haha, some problems may affect locals more than us as foreigners. For example, we mexicans cannot pay for a rent un Mexico but for foreigners rent is very cheap here so it's not necessarily a problem for them It should be a focus and understanding about thebchallenges we may face and what others may not affect us too
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  79. Quite a lot, yes
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  80.  @1lovelucas  The abortion thing is worrying though, but yeah, all countries have problens to work through, I don't think that makes ones better than others, just that we are going through a lot of changes, here in Mexico you can imagine how many things we need to change though haha. Though I want to say this, I'm hopeful, that both my people and japanese people will improve (as well as other countries), because I also want to keep seeing my people, my country with love and hope while being aware of our problems, that goes for other countries too like japan. Hopefully I made myself clear, these are complex emotions I have haha, have a nice day!!!
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  81.  @Seraph68  There's a problem with sexualization but one thing for example is a lady like this wanting to express and doscover her sexuality and other for example in the USA is how oversexualized women are in media which doesn't help not seeing women as ovjects as hollywood, music industry, health industry, etc sexualize women heavily over there (imo as mexican) but another is to want to discover yourself and yes, it happens for a lot of us a teenage years but that's why we need the support of our parents and the understanding of people in this really conplex topic
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  82.  @anomadicgirl  Funny, quite the opposite expectation from the very conservative Japan that most people have
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  83.  @victorlarryesmenda2805  alright?
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  84.  @demonizedhuman941  Asking for her hisband consent? Is this comment filled with people from middle east conservative countries or something? Why is it so difficult to understand different people will accept different things? I'm sure the lady has talked about her husband before about being and AV actress....
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  85.  @kazumakiryuu2668  I mean, many cartel members here in Mezicp have a family, and those kids atrend school normally....You just get used to it....Like...Yeah, it's sad their parents are criminals but the kids don't necessarily carry the suns of their parents... In this case you are comparing a lady that sells adult videos...For adults, in a industry that makes content for adults legally, and compared her with people who literally kill others, with people who are selling drugs and shooting other gangs and even innocent people....Like....How is that making any sense....Do you even know how a druglord operates? I'm mexican, I sadly know how they operate..... They don't compare in any way to this lady selling adult videos....you are crazy if you think they are comparable
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  86.  @nitingakarijiceoofroadcons2822  Me? No, I'm from Mexico
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  87. They Do! Here in Mexico we have a MASSIVE influencer called ChinguAmiga, she's pretty funny and tells us about korean culture, well, the differences between our laid back culture and hers is day and night lol, she liked pur culture more and is living here but I guess SK also has a lot of strengths that people love
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  88.  @chunellemariavictoriaespan8752  I'll tell you an example, here in Mexico teachers are seen as a failure, people think you only work as a teacher if you weren't able to find a job in your field but that's just discrimination from my people, teaching is beautiful and it shouldn't affect one's decision to do it. Same with JAV, it's just a job, businesses won't necessarily search all your oast in search for something wrong, somwthing wrong would be having a criminal record, not being a JAV
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  89.  @kokotheclown2588  Bruh...You are comparing this lady to Lana Rodhes....Like...Wtf bro hahahaha
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  90.  @kokotheclown2588  Now, this lady said already she talked with her husband and the husband was pk with this, what. We men don't have any blame at this? LIKE. Just the lady of course is the bad actor, an easy woman who loves to see her home destroyed but we as men mever have any responsibility, what a bunch of idiotic mentality, that you don't want that life for you doesn't mean other people can't have the openness to accept this kind of decision...That you have a conservative mindset doesn't mean the entiee world has to think like that....Get of your high horse and respect other's decisions. Alright? Or don't comment at all if you can't make that. Greetings from Mexico my dude.
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  91.  @kokotheclown2588  Bro, she said crazy stuff and...What? It's her life tbh, I don't agree with tjat stuff but what do I care? Will you go all the way to Japan and tell her she's wrong and evil and all that shit?
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  92.  @kokotheclown2588  I couldn't care less about what she does because for all I care she could be trolling, and tbh, having here in Mexico as the #1 country of children abuse (search it duee, it takes 10 seconds) I really worry more about what we as mexocans are doing, I bet you didn't even know what's happening here
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  93.  @kokotheclown2588  so my point is, as long as she and her husband discuss this stuff then it's their problem to be honest. Again, as if the husband wouldn't have any error. ...This is a crazy video in many ways but I find it more entertaining than anything, I won't go all the way to Japan to tell them how "bad" they are, my ego is not that massive lmao, so I just let this wild ride of a video play and let it go hahaha. As simple as that, we have WAAAYY too many problems here in Mexico for that lady to be my main problem tbh though, and I would sau the same if I were a gringo, the USA is crumbling hard my man. So I just want to leave this crazy lady and her family alone tbh.
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  94.  @kokotheclown2588  Again, as if the hisband wouldn't be involved at all in this decision, of course, we men can't never make mistakes, so go with your conservative mindset elsewhere dude. You're no morality police
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  95.  @CentauriTT  Bro, I say fake news because you gringos love to use it so much, I'm a mexican making fun of your absolute ignorance
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  96. @Centauri The Typical Juicer  No, that's working hours on aberage, we mexicans have less people than you and work more hours than you, you don't even know what you are writing...Bro, I beg you, stip being so stupid gringos, please, for once read before you comment with arrogant, stupid ass gringos....And stop consuming so many drugs, and STIP SELLING weapons to cartels and criminals, we have strict gun laws but your shitty ass culture clobssesed with guns is fucking us, so please, stop being so bad neighbors and read first before commenting inborant stuff.......Jesus christ dudes....I'm amazed we have you as neighbors...
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  97. @Centauri The Typical Juicer  Bro, tell me, who is consuming all the drugs? WHO IS SELLING ALL THE GUNS TO CARTELS AND CRIMINALS?cuba? Hahajaja Argentina? India? No, it's shitty US...We have strict gun laws but their obssession with guns and their corruption that makes drug distribution so easy in their own country is fucking us.... We have 30 000 homicides per year, put of those, 24000 are dearhs from guns.... Those fuckers are killing us and they don't give a shit....We have a ton to work on you idiot but by having such shitty neighbors we cannot advance..... So read before you comment about my country or any other you ignorant piece of sh.... Before commenting read, you're just embarrasing yourself or maybe you are proud of your ignorance and racism....Which is sad
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  98.  @CentauriTT  Bro...I'm mexican, I don't care for reddit, reddit is for gringos and their wcho chamber, their ignorant little bubnle I don't know why you think I visit that shitty ass racist page, or that I see hololive
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  99. @Centauri The Typical Juicer  Another thing, you should give a shit or make fun that I like other countries, that's discrimination, would you make fun of an lgbt person? THAT would make you no different than a boomer racist asshole ...Don't be like them please....Be better you ass.... Also,it's impressive gow as a mexican, if I would like the US or Europe NO ONE would tell me anything, maybe you even would support me but if I like any other cou tries now it's bad? Why? And fuck off with that shitty ass mentality...I can like whatever country I like, the u iverse doesn't revolve around the US and Europe...Asshole
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  100. @Krash Me  Yes, and japanese people have what we in Mexico call "horas nalga" meaning doing nothing because they have to wait for their bosses or coworkers to go out. Many of them are also umhappy with their marriages or family life and don't want to go home but a lot of times it isn't forcing them non stop till midnight, it's a social construct of them not being able to be assertive and get out to their correspknding hours.... You kneew that don't you?
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  101. @Krash Me  And I also have studies a lot about karishii? WHY? Well, I'm sure you don't care about is mexicans but here in Mexico we also have karoshii, and sadly no one knows how big are these numbers but Japan isn't the obly country suffering from that problem....And the over work is a little bit more complex than what you wrote
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  102. @Krash Me  Right doesn't mean bad, left doesn't mean good.....the American / gringo view of that doesn't necessarily apply to the world, although in Japan sadly as the US had a lot of influence on them (poor japanese people) you may find more closely related aspects in their politics although . Here in Mexico that kind of mentality to politics doesn't apply but I guess...again you don't care or knew...Seems you're living in a bubble.... But yeah, in 2019, the japanese government also put heavier laws on overwork, although it applied mostly to bug conpanies, as you said...baby steps. But what I have seen that is interesting is that conpanies that aren't related to the food industry, made by younger people have waaaay better working conditions, in the food industry it seems it still is as bad as in other countries but yeah... In part tbh that's their culture and if they like it well....We should stop IMPOSING our beliefs on them, they're a different culture
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  103. @Krash Me  We should stop imposing put belief that infinite growth is going to be always the solution....that's so stupid.... We should focus less on making babies forever and more on balancing populations...That Japan eill change? Absolutely, they will have way less people and productivity but we should stop imposing also out selfish wishes on them....They should decide BY THEMSELVES if they want to keep working a lot or less or have some better work-life balance, it's their country, not yours, not mine...Theirs...They have to see how they will move forward with this issue....They are NOT the US nor Europe...Thibking otherwise is not very progressive thinking.... They have problems, yeah...Good luck on them....
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  104. @Krash Me  If you are from the US I would beg you to focus on selling weapons to cartels because we have 30 k bomicides per year, 24k of them are gun related deaths...We have very strict gun laws for citizens but the US is selling criminals tons of weapons, that worries me waaaaaay more as a mexican than if Japan wants to have babies or not..... And the addiction of gringos to drugs is also very, very worrying so again, if you are a gringo...Please focus a little bit more on not killing my people, thanks
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  105.  @krisztiankoblos1948  Where, here in Mexico? The problem is worse, we have 60% of our people working informal jobs, jobs that can be dangerous in many areas, and they still work long hours for low wages that arent even monthly, which means one month they can earn “well” and another month they won’t, they don’t have any social programs available to them, they are exposed to crime, etc….so it’s worse than you imagine
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  106.  @krashme997  It's a complex problem yeah, that's how I talk my dude, sorry if it offended you
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  107.  @krashme997  yes, but it's an important that I think very few people talk about while I hear people all over the world being obssesed about the "extreme" work culture in Japan...Like...we get it, but I think that's their problem
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  108.  @krashme997  You talk as if Japan wouldsyill need to continue following the west's (USA and europe) examplewheb imo they should stay away from that example...
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  109. @Krash Me  Maybe hace you stopped and think for just a momento that Japan doesn't need to following the west anymore? THAT the US and Europe is not necessarily the best example in many áreas like racism or even overworking hours? (Specially in the US and even Canada) becaise the US mentality is work to buy more, your identity is defined by the things you have instead of just being yourself. And maybe have you stopped to think Japan doesn't need more and more and more babies? Sorry but that mentality of growing indefinitely is just going to end us all my dude.... You investigated a lot about karoshii but....Have you stipped to think about those things instead of thinking that you already know it all? I don’t thibk like that, maybe it's because I'm mexican, but that doesn't mean we need to think like gringos or europeans anymore....
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  110. @桜小路ウィリアム  Yes, it is a problenlm over there, but I think in part, again, has to do with social expectations, it isn'tlike China where many businesses give incentives to those who stay longer hours. Greetings from Mexico
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  111.  @krisztiankoblos1948  Yeah, those numbers also "lower" the average of working hours but that would mean that us mexicans work even waaay more then than Japanese if those half time Jobs are counted...That's fuckd up
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  112.  @morsayxd  Uhm....We as humans are animals.... We're not better than animals or worse... We're humans with complex loves in a complex world with complex cultures...And a lot of animals do have limits, but each animal is different in their behavior, you're just telling me how ignorant you are about life and how rude you are towards animals....And humans as animals too....
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  113. @Sujan Dey  Hello! I have seen that you have a ton of overwork time but just as us mexicans it's a weird tipic because I also feel you have a lot of informal jobs where people could work very long hours too and aren't counted properly. Greetings!
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  114. @Rekko  Countries like Japan aren't self centered...They are countries that think hugely in society , unlike the IS that has becone a selfish dystopia.... And EVERYOJE in the FUCKING WORLD is spending their money on entertainment...Wtf are you talking about? EUROPEANS NOR GRINGOS don't go to the cinema nor play videogames? Don't they soend money also in things for entertainment? WHAT kind of boomer perspective is yours dude?
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  115. @Rekko  Bro, you sound like an incel towards women...You don't even know women have each one different views...Yes, men in Japan think is a hassle to date, it is, it is expebsive to date many girls to see which one can be a good match too...No need to get incely...
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  116. @Rekko  Bro, the US has higher working hours than Japan, Japan has work condition problems but they are improving.... And mind you, japanese have better mental health than girngos because they have something gringos don't have, communities, strong communities, in cities is difficult to build communities but Japanese people are a collective society, they like to sticl together unlike gringos, meaning they have a stronger social net where they can count on others... For example you ignorant racist idiot...The US has 50 000 suicides per year plus 100 000 overdoses per year...That isn't a gealthy society ..
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  117. @Rekko  Hace you stopped to think Japanese people may not need to follow the West steps anymore? HUH? Is your arrogance guys so high that you think you are a good example for the Japanese people? I as a mexican don't think so, I think your arrogance blinds you and that Japanese people should choose how to live without idiots like you belittling them...They have good stuff too, good atuff you didn't even care about...You don't think Japan is conplex obly that it is bad over there and that's it...That's a pretty racist view of another culture
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  118.  @rRekko  Talking about problems is normal there, but in cities is difficult because everyone is busy... And no...They aren't obssesed with consuming things, they don't even have the space in their apartments to hoard unlike gringos...I think it's your culture the one that should change not theirs, it's your influence that should disappear from their country as the gringo culture shaped sadly current Japan....You gave them their current problems...Bravo So mayne you are the ones who should change first....Don't you think so? Arrogant ass
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  119.  @rRekko  Get that pekora pic off your profile! You don't deserve it with all that ignorance you carry
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  120. That's curious because I always see them happy we as foreigners learn their langiage, I find hard to believe a society not being happy to see foreigner learn their native language.
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  121.  @jappysassy8194  That happens in a lot of countries though, here in Mexico there's people who love to gossip, others are very nosy, I had a classmate here in Mexico that asked me in front of a group in university if I already had a girlfriend and had sex when I am very shy and introverted and didn't have the change to experience that with a woman so it was VEEERY awkward and there were many conversations like that with family, coworkers, classmates etc so yeah, there's a lot of awesome people here too though. I think Japan generally people leave one alone as they tend to be more private so when I live there I hope to find pretty chill people
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  122. I do agreez if you see japanese people living in more rural places well, life is kuch better, much slower, without that heavy competition to be the best, you just enjoy more life imo, as you say, maybe japanese people need more nature and to slow down a little bit to chill
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  123. When I speak to people they believe themselves nowadays to be very "progressive" but it is impressove that her hisband was able to support her more in a country like Japan where there's a lot of sexism rather than us from "progressive " countries to believe that what she does is ok because that's her life and her marriage and we cannot speak for her husband and what she does SHOULDN'T BE SOMWTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF, but seems we are not as "progressive" as we believe we are lmao. We need to grow much more too guys. Not be stuck in a mentality like that of what she can or cannot do with her life....Damn guys....
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  124.  @GeenoGab  Well...You're the one putting your emotions and values on a person from a very different culture. I don't know where you are from but that's a very gringo thing that I don't like that they impose their veliefs on others
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  125.  @GeenoGab  Lmao man, you're also the one who put all his hate on that reoly to me as the lady said...well...she talked it with her husband, no need to be a dick about her private life and I will ask again, it's no different from a young AV lady who may have a family in the future but will always have her videos online so it may affect always her family, but that's the thing....There's no difference and you're not being chill about a lady you don't even know or her husband or her kid....You're just imposing your beliefs on a VEEERY different culture from ours
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  126.  @GeenoGab  I say the example because that same example applies to a woman with a family and an AV woman who may want to do a family at the end that's why I put that example, because both women with or without kids will face or face that problem. If that's difficult for you to comprehend....Man....It's not my problem
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  127.  @GeenoGab  Yeah, and she talked with her husband and in that case they come up to the conclusion that it's ok for her to do that....It's like...You didn't even see the video....It's like....She said she talked it with her husband and they are ok with that decision....But you aren't....When they talked about that decision...
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  128.  @GeenoGab  And chill my dude. You're waaaay to angry lmao, chill, just why is it so difficult to chill and accept the woman's decision that she already talked with her husband....It may affect the kid? Maybe, maybe not, there's so much AV out there that nothing says the kid will have problems....Like....It's their family decision, not yours, not mine
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  129.  @GeenoGab  My point is....Is that difficult to be chill about another family shich culture is different from ours? You are not even replying to my questions, you are just in an angry bubble lmao....And I'm not talking about the lady, but them as family....
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  130.  @GeenoGab  Please chill and then reply, or don't reply at all if you're just going to reply with so much anger lmao
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  131.  @GeenoGab  Meh, we mexicans use gringo because it comes from the usa military where they used to say "green go" for their military operations....So....It doesn't have any racist connotations, be less ignorant before you speak please, and don't be prejudiced.
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  132.  @GeenoGab  Greetings from Mexico, if you want to know anything about ky culture please ask before pointing fingers and saying ignorant and prejudiced stuff..ok?
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  133.  @GeenoGab  But it is within the context, a lot of people say that she shouldn't do that to her family....But a yoinger AV actress would need to go through the same problem with her family, and more if that AV actress wants to have a family and keep doing adult videos. Like we talk as if this wasn't just another job, it has a lot of prejudice from people? Yes, but as long as the ladies can speak with their hisbands they'll have to deal with those consequences
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  134.  @GeenoGab  Also, man....I lost so much respect for someone that clearly doesn't know about other cultures and just point fingers because that's what will make you "win"......Bro.....Study about other cultures, have some tolerance . ..You're just embarrasing yourself
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  135.  @GeenoGab  I don't care about your thoughts on gringo tbh.
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  136.  @GeenoGab  But here's the thing, I say to just leave the lady and family's decision alone why? Because I come from Mexico, I know how crazy bad violence towards women can be, and all those comments of "She's wrong, she's going to affect her family" is understandable but weird to see how she seems to be ok with it but all of the comments pretty just.....Way to involved with her as if they knew her or knew what's betyer for her
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  137.  @GeenoGab  Here's the thing, I bet you and all other comments wouldn't say the same if instead of a lady this alwas a dude workijg in the AV industry with a family....Like so many people woild say something like "He's living the dream" "He has a wife who supports his AV job?? Where do I get a wife like her??" My point is not that the job is jad but that we really think differently from what a man or a lady would be ok to do when it's just a job
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  138.  @GeenoGab  Also, you didn't know where the word gringo even came from but you try to put your values without knowing my culture lmao....Like, that's what I'm referring you and the other dudes do with this lady, impose your beliefs but you can't even notice that because you live in your bubble, be it from USA or Europe bubble you believe to he the center of the world and that's just....So ignorant and prejudiced duee
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  139.  @GeenoGab  So please learn about my mexican culture before pointing any fingers because you just are tellling everyone how ignorant you are, and how little tolerance you have to other cultures and that's just....sad. ...That's not progressive lmao, that's quite the opposite....
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  140.  @GeenoGab  Any other questions?
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  141.  @GeenoGab  I don't care about your thoughts on the word gringo....You don't even know about my culture but talked out of your ass as if you know when it is used, you don't even know that a good portion of mexicans use it, and it has many uses, but mostly is for a shorter way to call americans....
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  142.  @GeenoGab  But of course, it was more important for you to invent all the sht you could think in that moment about my language.....Seriously dude....
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  143.  @GeenoGab  To be honest I don't care how you think about how I talk, that's generally how I talk in spanish thoigh so it can be difficult to express it in English, in spanish I'm waaay more direct though lol
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  144.  @GeenoGab  But again, imagine if this lady would be a man, most comments would applaud th dude for having the dream life and his "mistakes" would be forgiven much kore easily tbh, soy point is, if we could do it without much repercussion why this lady and her family have to be "perverted" or "bad", they're weird but that doesn't mean we are not weird, look at the USA, Europe or here in Mexico, we have tons of sht that is weird af, that's a natural thing for most societies and again this lady already talked it out with her husband....As a family....Vut of course let's keep ignoring that
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  145.  @GeenoGab  Bro ypu wrote a lot I'm not gonna read your rant lmao
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  146.  @GeenoGab  My point is, she talked about that decision with her husband I really think you have some problems with her being an AV actress which shouldn't be...It's another job
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  147.  @GeenoGab  And ypu focus on jer but I don't doubt if this were an AV dude you and most people in the comments wouldn't have a problen with it lmao, many would applaud the dude for living his dreams hahahaha
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  148.  @GeenoGab  So again, my point is....She already said she discussed it with her husband.....So chill lmao. We don't know if her decisions will be right or wrong but you jave some serious issues if you can't let go the fact that the decision was already made....And you can't have any say in their life lmao, so just chill and let go....Or you'll have some serious internal problems aside from anger or intolerance hahaha
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  149.  @GeenoGab  I'm just talking about accepting her and her husband's decision as culture and family dude....Don't know why you have such a difficult time being obssesed understanding it was their decision, at best im shoehorning their japanese side of seeing things, not a mexican one....But if you are so obssesed with a family and a lady you have just seen one video about....Maybe you need some help duee....
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  150.  @GeenoGab  Seriously man, what a rude person you are because she sais already she talked about it with her hisband but you just cannot accept that fact, that she and her husband made a decision together in this regard.....Like, you really talking like an incel imo, like....If it's your wife, yes, divorce her for not telling you but. ..this is not your family lmao, this is another coupke with a different mindset from you or me....And that's their culture, their mindset....You just want to "prove" she did wrong and her family did wrong when....You're looking at it from your viased perspective instead of just....Lettting go.m.I don't know why you cannot let go for this family that you don't even know or know the culture or even the mllanguage I bet....So just...chill
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  151.  @GeenoGab  You said that if she's a mother she cannot make decisions like yolo....But...she's human dude, we all make mistakes, if she made a mistakes, it's hers...not yours...I don't know the obsession to pintpoint all women doong a decision like this as "yolo" as bad....like...if you cannot let her decision go...You worry me dude, you really do
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  152.  @GeenoGab  I don't need an argument, I'm just "shoehorning" you to let their decision go, you're not the moral police, you're not the judge of all cultures....But that's the feeling I get from you, a very gringo feeling that I really think is awful, because they believe they're the center of the world and have all answer for everyone
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  153.  @GeenoGab  And that's something that we as mexicans have had to deal with also, that jind of mentality, from them thinking we're gonna take their jobs or that we're all criminals and mind you, there's 70 million people who voted for trump over there. I mean that they force their mindset on others....When maybe their way of thinking is just very very off.....That's what I feel from your comments dude
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  154.  @GeenoGab  You comment about how women, mother and wives as YOU WROTE IT do something like YOLO it's wrong...What about us dudes? You never said anything like that for us, you sound like an incel imo
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  155.  @GeenoGab  It's so sad you have that gringo mentality where you think you have the right to judge people like the lady in this bideo, I'm shoehorning at best to leave her be....To just stop acting like you are the moral police....Again....You're not the moral police if you think that...Maybe rething how you see other cultures, if you say you aren't like that then....Just leave the lady be with her decisions and that's it....So hard for you to let things go huh...And more ones that doesn't concern you lmao
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  156.  @GeenoGab  Are you the morality police? Are you some sort of judge that says what is good or bad for everybody else? And if you cannot understand your own language the it's you who should maybe go back to school hahahahaha
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  157.  @GeenoGab  Stop thinking like a gringo, you're not the police of the world, you don't police anything, you're just a dude obsessed with a lady and her husband not making the "right" decision, "right" decision for who...For you? For everyone? So I have to think like you? She has to think like you, man...You have your ego the size of a zeppelin
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  158.  @GeenoGab  And again, my English may not be perfect, but if you cannot understand your own language even when there's a lot of us latinos in the USA and Europe then....Oof...Maybe you need to go out and convive with other people from different cultures...Because like it or not....A lot of latinos speak and write as "bad" as me. So don't be a racist person please
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  159.  @GeenoGab  Also, you're talking eacj time more and more like a trump supporter, which could explaon many things tbh but we'll see... Have a good night my dude
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  160. I guess as Japan is super homogenous country they still find outside cultures something of as an exotic thing. And I have seen japanese are super focused on reading the air so for us foreigners to stick like a sore thumb in a very homogenous society and mindset is something that breaks that ambience they have.
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  161. @Reameb JP  Wait...I don't understand this "defending foreign" policy you are talking about...Like....You are not told to get out, but if you cannot speak japanese you are giving japanese people a hard time, just because you feel entitled that the world should adapt to you doesn't mean it should.... Like here in Mexico, SO MANY GRINGOS (Americans) refuse to speak Spanish, they just come to live hrre because it is cheaper for them.... But the people who we have seen try to speak Spanish more are Asians like koreans, japanese and chinese, not westerners.... So who is more racist here? The ones trying to communicate with us and be part of our community or the ones coming just for convenience? Again, japanese people are weird at times, doesn't mean all of them do it with bad intentions or that the bad stuff represents them, I barely see people putting them on a pedestal, unless YOU think people are stupid, which would make you the prejidiced one here don't you think so? Yes, there's racism and discrimination in Japan, sadly that happens all around the world, doesn't mean it make your life impossible or in danger like in the US ....
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  162. @Reameb JP  And if you're japanese let me tell you something it's so sad to see you giys think lile raciat gringos....Japan is way more complex than just the bad stuff.... Let me give you an example, I am from Mexico, it is a dangerous country for us locals, but still, I love my country and my people lile you don't know...And my people have tried to hurt me before, physically, a bus tried to run me over because a lot of times sasly in here there's no respect for human lives but still, EVEN with that super fucked up fact and sad soxiety I love them. So if I can love a VERY FLAWED country I think you giys can learn how to love Japan even with its flaws, don't you think so? Only an emotionally mature person could do that though....Greetings
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  163. Here in Mexico too sadly, a lot of people don't feel they have someone to rely on and feel very isolated which we need to change.
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  164. Bro...Japan isn't even the country with most working hours among OCDE countries, I think even the US worked more hours than Japanese people so....yeah...
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  165. @ByteCodePie  Bro, read before commenting ignorant stuff...I feel you are just an ignorant person feeling proud of not reading....When was the last time you have read? Search, I promise you it won't take you more than 5 seconds " List of working hours per cpuntry according to the OCDE" and you can see for yourself what I'm talking about....Bro, you sound like any other republican gringo I have talked with...Greetings from Mexico...I want you to not be ignorant like those gringos, not to be worried if I feel "attacked" or not...man....
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  166. Lmao as a mexican you're right, we do have a little tiny bit of snow in some places 😂 but yeah, I get you
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  167.  @ayameisastar  So....you are afraid of old people but not criminals that could end your life? For example, here in Mexico there has been people klled due to only having a dollar with them (Because we have 60% of our people living in poverty) , one dollars, and the criminals gets angry and do the worst..... Here in Mexico we have 5 million cases of sxl abuse towards children per year... Here in Mexico, the government doesn't rule, in many places, it is the crime that rules. But still, I see and hear many people, many mexican people who say that they like Mexico, that they enjoy it here. I think we just need some perspective to enjoy our homes rather than hating them imo
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  168.  @ayameisastar  For example, I HATED Mexico up to three years ago, I really didn't like the violence, the violent people, the very low wages, the crazy ass long working hours (OCDE says we're the #1 country with more working hours, more than South Korea) I mean, everything about Mexico was for me really savage, I wanted to escape from jere as fast as possible. But meaning that, that I hated everything and everyone here meaned I wasn't in peace, and I would never be at peace with any country no matter how good it would be, because I would always find something bad about it. So I knew that if I wanted to get our of here I would need to accept it first, to understand all the amazingly awful stuff happening here and to be at peace with all of that bad stuff and focus on the good like my family. So when people say they ansolutely haye their countries of origin, it really pains to see me to see those people so at war when they don't need to be at war because they will fuck themselves hard enough to lower their quality of life tbh.
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  169.  @ayameisastar  I'm sorry, maybe your english inderstanding isn't that good. I talked about the importance of healing and accepting pir own countries no matter how bad they can be Like, I think I made it obviously clear that Japan is not perfect, I don't know this obssesion with people thinking that feeling that Japan is good but flawed makes it "perfect" But again, I'm talking about healing with one's country to he able to live happily be it in our country of origin or in another countries as I've seen many people who haven't healed with Mexico and thus cannot live at peace in Mexico or other countries and I really think that applies to other countries
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  170.  @ayameisastar  Hopefully you can understand Engllish now, maybe it's not my English being bad mayne it's your reading comprehension being bad...And if your native then....Oof buddy, must be rought to be you
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  171.  @ayameisastar  O tal vez te hablo en español si asi te sientes mas comodo carnal jajajaja
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  172. We need to stip this mentality of infinitesimal growth, we cannot grow forever and ever, we should rather focus on balancing populatuons, yes, Japan may not look in 50 years the same as it is now....And? Why should they stay the same for our selfish wishes? That's no good, Japan should do what THEY want to do, bot what the West imposes on them, is that clear?
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  173. Well jeez, is like teenagers don't develop their sexuality or somwthing or that they cannot start learning about that stuff. Yes, I get it, if she seeks doing that stuff with grown men is very weird but....That's her life, we cannot tell her what to do or not as long as she protects herself and is clear about what she does to her parents as embarrasing as it can be. That's why parents should support their kids and give them a space to talk about stuff, you cannot control teens, a lot of them will do stupid stuff, that's the reality, but as long as parents can talk and have an open space to let their kids develop ibto who they are, that include their sexuality, then that's all they can do Where's our "PROGRESSIVENES" as western nations guys? Are we just a bunch of hypocrites and become conservative when we don't like something? That's not progressiveness
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  174.  @JBNariko  Fuk of, she as a woman can do whatever she wants, I kind of doubt that if I was a father and would be an adult video actor people would tell me something.....But because she's a woman people are goong nuts. Imo, demonstrating how hypocritical we are when we think we are more "progressive" than japan HAHAHABABA
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  175.  @JBNariko  Do much guys here thinking that a job like that is bad just because it is, it shouldn't be, AV actors should be able to have a life, and you isiots thinking the husband made a mistake to accept HIS OWN WIFE'S DECISION speaks volumes about how you see women guys.....Seriously dude.....Fuk of with that backwards mentality
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  176.  @JBNariko  But still so many people believe themsleves to be bove Asia in terms of morality....Like if they had any say into other cultures and people....That's awful. Greetings from Mexico
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  177.  @JBNariko  Nah fam, I'm not talking about politics, as mexican I couldn't give less of a sht about USA politics, but their culture and politics have become one in many ways
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  178.  @CosmicVoid_119  Not that individually each one can't decide if they want to be with an AV actress or not but vhilling about the decision this lady on the video made....Like what's their problem, damn bros....What are you on about?
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  179.  @alsparkproductions7849  It's a complex problem, people are complex and Iike to write, for me its not about "writing more=not chill", quite the contrary, if I write more it means that the topic is of interest to me and I want to detail as much as I can why I think that way, sorry to bother you if you see my xomments and don't like em, I would sugestiones you to block me but because we can't do it in YT, just ignore my message 🤣🤣
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  180.  @moisesgaribay4893  If you don't understand is not my problem dude 🤣
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  181.  @moisesgaribay4893  I'm talking about a lady on the other side pf the world making her own decision in a creer and you all crazy fks thinking sexual jobs are bad or somehow inmoral when it's just a job and Japanese people don't have the same values based in religion like we in the west have. they have their own values and the husband accepted it, so you crazy fkers just chill and let her and her husband live their life, if you think she's so bad then go to Japan and say to her face lmao
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  182.  @thathandsomedevil0828  And maybe we don't need an exlosive i fitive population like gringos think, maybe economies shouldn't grow forever and maybe we should create an economy that is in balance with a stable population even if that population is not as big, bigger numbers in population doesn't mean anyhting, I think that's a very western mindset that is not helping us, many countries including european countries are losing population but you didn't even had the info or just omit it, maybe becaise europe is good and japan bad like many peiple think
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  183.  @thathandsomedevil0828  But maybe we don't need such a stupid mentality of infinite growth and maybe less population is not bad in this regard were it's done naturally because of the vhoices that people are making both in japan and other countries like Germany. Alright or do I explain it with apples?
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  184.  @thathandsomedevil0828  You're not "progressive" but from what I see in the world a bunch of people are going into extremes, either they're proud progressives that don't know anytbing about other cultures or are conservative and a lot of times have bery prejudiced mindsets, my point with poling fun at the progressivism of the west is that it's just an extreme reaction to extreme mindsets, people need to find a better balance in mindsets rather than tagging themsleves and others so easily
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  185.  @thathandsomedevil0828  Because I love how you say that is degenerated while Hollywood is massively p3d0, when USA is one of the top producers in the world of CP yes, I'm talking aboit children sadly, search it. Now that is degeneracy but I don't see USA as only that. BECAUSE I know USA is a conplex country with problems like any other
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  186.  @thathandsomedevil0828  Who says we need to maintain a massive population? Again that gringo mentality that everything needs to be "big" and "powerful", maybe we don't need an infinite growing population but one that is in balance with nature, we're fucking nature hard and you thinking about still growing population, yup, that's quite the grigno mentality and that's why I don't like it, because of its selfish nature but people don't want to admit it
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  187.  @thathandsomedevil0828  Who says we need to maintain a massive population? Again that gringo mentality that everything needs to be "big" and "powerful", maybe we don't need an infinite growing population but one that is in balance with nature, we're fucking nature hard and you thinking about still growing population, yup, that's quite the grigno mentality and that's why I don't like it, because of its selfish nature but people don't want to admit it
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  188.  @thathandsomedevil0828  Human desire is not infinite, that's just the stupid ass gringo mentality and their obsession with naterial but GUESS WHAT THE WORLD ISNT ONE USA THE WORLD IS DIVERSE, something that you clearly can't see.....Damn dude I don't know how to explain this to someone that is clearly living in annignorant bubble
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  189.  @thathandsomedevil0828  I just hope someday you can see outside your gringo ignorant and prejudiced mentality because that mindset is....Puaj, that's the only way to describe it. Greetings from Mexico
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  190.  @thathandsomedevil0828  let the lady be, you're not the police, you don't police us mexicans, you don't police the world, you don't have all the answers for every culture, you don't even know other cultures, you aren't the peak of morality nor have zero degeneracy in your country, you don't rule thebworld as much as it pains you, you're just like any other man and woman no matter their color or weird mindset as much as it pains you, gringos aren't the representation of human life and you should respect cultures more instead of thinking you know better. Is that hard to comprehend? Greetings
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  191.  @arcrival3801  Damn yo, what a load of BS that the West is more "progressive" then 😏😏
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  192. My opinion is....What wrong does it has on she being a porn actor? I mean, she has the right to work wherever she wants and we should see those jobs as well....jobs....Nothing to he ashamed of and while I'm sure Japan is closed in this mentality, her family could support her at the end and that's the most important thing rather that trying to save face imo.
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  193.  @vicente3k  It's interesting for me as mexican seeing people who speak Wnglish trying to put everything neatly into just right or wrong when countries like the USA or Europe are complex and are doing some f up stuff like having massive racism towards my latino people in the USA, and Europe having racism towards Middle East and Africans and still I don't see those places as just bad or good as they're full of complex people As complex as this lady imo
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  194.  @avidcollector869  Guess depends on the person, we cannot think every person will act the same
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  195.  @victorlarryesmenda2805  Yup, and it would take me even more time and space to my long ass replies to list every single country in Europe , do you list every country when you mention Europe or Asia or my region of Larin America? Nah fam, I doubt that. Anything else?
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  196.  @victorlarryesmenda2805  Such profound words my man that I cannot comprehend them 😅
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  197. For example, what about AV actresses that are young but in the future they want to have a family? Will YOU AND ALL THESE people in the comments tell her to not have kids? Why? Because she did something shameful? Not womanly? Because she needs to behave like a proper lady? Because she will affect others with a job that should considered just that, a job? What an awful mentality people have in this comment section
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  198.  @jees26  Well....Peopke are saying the same idiotic thing and I'm not gonna waate more time giving a personalized comment for every single idiotic comment I see because they all say the same and the answer will be the same...It's just a job....And the husband already said he's ok with that, no need to be asses about this thing
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  199.  @jees26  Want me to gove you a personalized message? Are you that desperate for me to tell you something different for the same 100th same idiotic opinion I see? Or what? Does it bother you that mucn? Mute me
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  200.  @jees26  Well, tbh it doesn't take long to copy paste, and I like to write quite a lot, so it doesn't bother me
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  201.  @jees26  I'm just annoyed people are saying such idiotic things about the lady, like....You're not even touching on that subject anymore, comlon man, I come from Mexico, I know how stupid people can think about women, see all the violence we have towards women here, I don't say it out of veing triggered like you stupidly think, I say it out of seeing how that mentality can affect a whole country and the safety for women, seriously think for once guys, it's not about who's right and who's wrong, it's about being really better and not saying such idiotic things about others .... Grettings from Mexico myndude, if you didn't get what I said then it's bot my problem
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  202.  @marccrossland785  It's just a job dude....A job that has existed for quite some time....It's a form of entertainment, nothing wrong with that. Is like you trying to tell me to not play GTAV (I don't play it, just an example lmao) because it should be avoided due to the violence and because it makes peiple violent wheb in reality studies tells us that's just not the case.
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  203.  @marccrossland785  An by principle of who? Gringo principle ? Teligious principles? Mexico doesn't have the same principles (luckily) than the USA for example so what principles? One country should dictate the principle for all countries? Isn't that a little bit like villains in movies think ? Lmao
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  204. @Maegal Roammis  Careful, what you say is discrimination, imagine that you would "know us mexicans really well" And in your mind all of us are narcos who sell drugs, violent, lazy and ignorant....That is prejudice and you are putting yourself in a superior place from others.... You ARE NOT BETTER OR SUPERIOR THAN OTHERS, as much as it pains you, we are all equal, you and us mexicans, you and japanese people. The only idiot that thinks that he is superior to others, above others to judge others like you did is the funny mustache man fromWorls War 2, he believed he was better than others, he spoke of other cultures with such poison like yoi do, don't be lile him, don't be a massove piece of sh-.... Greetings from Mexico
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  205.  @virgilthemob1242  Ok so I see you got this kind of incel mentality to you so as mexican let me tell you this, that kind of mentality only breeds prejudice, and hate, and it can become into dangerous actions, learn from us guy, here in Mexico we have MASSIVE problems with violence towards women and people who think like you here in Mexico don't help with the aituation they only make it worse. So, yes, this lady is making excuses....So what? She and her husband agreed it was ok, it's not your problem, it's not your culture, japanese culture is very different from the west, we cannot force them to be like us, that's BS so just let her be, no need to point that she's "evil" or like "all other women". That's just a dangerous mindset
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  206.  @Hjominbonrun  Well, I'm not a gringo so I don't care about that shit but I make fun of it because it's so important for them lmao. But my point is...Common guys, this lady made a grown up decision with her husband, and even if she told him afterwards well, it was a mistake, surprise, we are all humans, that weird ass expectatuons you are having towards this married woman is weird as f my dudes, she made a decision with jer partner, I get why you wouldn't accept it but this is your partner LMAO
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  207. The thing is my man, is that although you know, you don't know, Japan live through a deflation, the opposite of deflation , that's why wages aren't that good. Also, wages shouldn't be everything, as mexican I don't really agree with the gringo mebtality of more money= happier life and I guess japanese people feel a little bit like that too, they are people who take a lot of pride in their work and put their identities in their job, not in the money the earn like USA people do. They do have problems but if you see, the west is OBSSESED with Asian adult videos, especially Japan videos, there are adult websites who tell us their data and most viewed video and the west has a hige fetish on Asia lmao, so it's not just japan.
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  208. Lastly, we should as the workd not think of increasing population with a world which resources are decreasing, we should strive for a more balanced population that doesn't grow into infinity but one that can share with nature a better balance
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  209. @Sboink The Leg Day  Deoends, that peiple are borb in developed countries like myself doesn't mean we want tobget out, for example, my mexican people are less and less interested in going to the US, they want or prefer to stay in Mexico rather than go to the developing country that is the US and going to another "developed" country for example in Euiore is not easy for millions so you don't have to be xenophobic....
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  210. @Sboink The Leg Day  Not obly that, it seems you think of us people living in developing coubtries as just people who want to escape but tell me your majesty, who do you think is selling all the weapons to cartels abd organized crime here in Mexico? CUBA? HAHAHA, AFRICA? HAHAHAHA It's the US, and they consume a toooon of drugs, you can blane us mexicans but at the end, gribgos consume drugs like crazy and sell weapons like crazy to this country..... So yeah, we have a ton of viokence sasly, out of the 30, 000 homicides per year, 24 000 are from guns....The US is killing us but of course..We developing cou tries and people are worse abd less intelligent and "developed" countries are saints abd special and above others....ugh....
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  211.  @victorlarryesmenda2805  And the husband alsonhas a responsibility here to think about the son....The COUPLE TALKED, like two normal human beings, not like a sexist idiot who thinks women can do just certain jobs like people in this comment section. And they came to the conclusion she can do the job..... Why yall have the thickest skulkhead?
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  212.  @satou6547  So you're comparing making adult videos with a drig trafficker? Bruh....The sexism is strong in this comment, and I say this as a mexican who knows how fkd up violence can be towards women I'm really sure you're one of those guys who think that abortion is perverted andnwrong because a woman cannot decide over her own body....It seems myself as a 3rd world country citizens knows more than you about respecting other people huh......
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  213.  @victorlarryesmenda2805  wey tas pendejo si no quieres hablar bloqueame y ya. No need to be like a like kid and throw a tantrum, if you don't want to talk to me just block me and that's it
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  214.  @demonizedhuman941  And yes, as much as your narrow ass mindset wants to tell you otherwise, sx work, for both men and women is a other job it has existen for centuries and it will continue to do so, so let's support those people because they also deserve a safe environment to work in as everybody else....Why is that so comolicated to understand? Guys, the fuking planet is on fire and you care more about sx workers.....SMH guys...
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  215.  @demonizedhuman941  Then that's a you problem dude, if you feel like that go to live to Irán or Afganistán where women will hear all you "intelligent" thoughts. Also, not like you could control a very different culture that is Japan Which is grounded in the same religious values as the rest of the west.....
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  216.  @demonizedhuman941  Well, if you don't like sex work it's a you problem and you should cry because it will always exist and has always existen since naciente times my dude. Just that with the internet it took another form so go cry with your parents because that kind of job will never stop Also please don't hurt women that work in that industry because you sound like a psycho, please seek some professional help if it bothers you that much, don't go hurting other out of hate please. Respect
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  217.  @demonizedhuman941  Learn some respect, me as a mexican who knows a thing or two about violence affecting millions of my people understand that your thoughts are really scary dude and you should just chill and let live, because your thoughts are not of a normal person who respect others imo Also, don't speak racist shit on me because that will o ly confirm the poor quality of person you are. GREETINGS
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  218.  @kazumakiryuu2668  Like now the lady is not like a drug carrel member but the children is going to suffer so much from seeing a video so much he's going to do what...? You talk like a 7 years old, if you're a kid...Go to your parents and learn more from life before talking stupid shit. If you're older....Oof....I see you haven't grown up for shit....Good luck with that mentality to live in real life...
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