Comments by "TsuM" (@TsugMt) on "Why Westerners Can't Find Love in Japan" video.

  1. I think the key word here is having high expectations for Japan, andnI don't say that in a negative way but rather we need to go to Japan with an open heart, with a sense of adventure and curiosity and not expecting things to go a certain way so we can enjoy more the little things that Japan can offer. Without expectations I think we can enjoy not just Japan but life more
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  2. I think the key word here is having high expectations for Japan, andnI don't say that in a negative way but rather we need to go to Japan with an open heart, with a sense of adventure and curiosity and not expecting things to go a certain way so we can enjoy more the little things that Japan can offer. Without expectations I think we can enjoy not just Japan but life more
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  3. I think the key word here is having high expectations for Japan, andnI don't say that in a negative way but rather we need to go to Japan with an open heart, with a sense of adventure and curiosity and not expecting things to go a certain way so we can enjoy more the little things that Japan can offer. Without expectations I think we can enjoy not just Japan but life more
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  4.  @punbishal5874  Yeah, preparing mentally is important but I think the most improtant thing is to learn Japanese, go without expectations, because having expectations for everything is just goong to disappoint us every time. And finally, really having an open mind about the good and bad of japan, and not to focus on the bad, but on the good side, and see the "bad" stuff as challenges People talk about japan like if it were this alien planet but it's just a normal conolex country as any other. And living as an immigrant in the USA or Canada is notneasy either, I speak as a mexican myself who has seen so many people struggle as immigrants innotherncountries, not just japan
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  5.  @punbishal5874  I think it's the opposite, it's not about focusing on the "problems that we'll surely live through" haha, some problems may affect locals more than us as foreigners. For example, we mexicans cannot pay for a rent un Mexico but for foreigners rent is very cheap here so it's not necessarily a problem for them It should be a focus and understanding about thebchallenges we may face and what others may not affect us too
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