Comments by "CaptainVanisher" (@captainvanisher988) on "The Fatherless Crisis In America" video.

If it was the decision of the father, then yes. But it's not. Fathers don't decide whether they will raise their children or not, the government does and almost always excludes them. Also you are giving kudos to women when they have children out of wedlock and divorce after having children? Wow what a nice challenge. Maybe the challenge these women should take should be this : "Try and marry your first partner and stay virgin until marriage, include the men of your family in your partner selection and don't divorce under any circumstances (besides maybe heavy DA)". How about that?
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You phrased it as if it was the father's fault. Almost completely absolving the mother of any responsibility (which in this case they have far more responsibility).
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@robertflores9515 Men will never refuse s3x. Never. Women were always the gatekeepers of s3x since the dawn of human times. It was up to the woman to stay chaste since forever.
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@sararlgarrett That's bs. If the father makes his present significant, even if it is one day a week ,it can be insanely influential for the children. The notion that fathers need to slave away in their houses is bs. The fathers need to make the bangs in the child's life. Strong impressions and strong experiences. This can even be done if the father is once a month present.
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@robertflores9515 The question is why? Why did these women chose to have children while unmarried? Why did these women chose to have s3x with men that are uninterested in raising children? At the end of the day ,it all comes back to the woman who chose to have s3x with these bums. The risk on pregnancy is on the woman, not the man. And choosing the right partner and staying celibate till marriage is the only safe and good path.
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@robertflores9515 These bums have 0 power if women actually hold their legs closed until they get married. Women have the power of s3x not men. By freely giving it to bums, it only condemns you to a life of misery.
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@sbcumb238 So you were innocent and did nothing wrong? Men rarely initiate break ups or divorces. And when they do, it's usually because their woman did something f*Cked up. It's even more rare for men to initiate divorce when there are children involved. So it's either you're hiding something or that you are one of the exceptions to the rule.
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