Comments by "CaptainVanisher" (@captainvanisher988) on "Looksmaxxing Rant" video.

Most men will be fine when it comes to their size that's correct. However, this idea of "just be yourself and not have insecurities and you'll find someone" is a delusional idea that will only be accepted by women. Sure, women can easily find someone by "just being themselves" , I'd exclude obese ones but even those can find someone at this day and age. Men can't. If we just default to being ourselves we will become examples of darwinism. Now to answer on this more personally. Even if I achieve the very high standards I've set for myself there is a high chance I'll never find a woman that wants the same things as me and has the same values as me. Meaning, a devout Christian that waited till marriage, wants to marry young and wants to build a big family. I've met many women, not a single one falls into any of those criteria. But I am not gonna give up that's for sure.
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@raccoonchild Imagine unironically using the word "incel".
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@yungtube7848 depopularize what term? It's just has lost all meaning at this point. Everyone is an incel, everyone is a Nazi, everyone is a woketoid. It doesn't mean anything anymore. And you calling me an incel proves my point perfectly.
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@waddle623 Sure femcel
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@raccoonchild Yes and no. Most people are able of simple observations. I spoke and had female friends in high school but I was mostly rejected on the romantical side even though I was not bad looking, I was being myself and I was a gentleman as my mother taught me. During those times I did some observations which mostly acted as reassurance of what the red pill/black pill side of things are saying. Since then I've become more traditional and I understand the dating market a lot better. This idea of "be yourself" is absolutely garbage.
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First off I have no need for a "partner". Am I starting some sort of business? No, I am starting a relationship and a marriage, my wife isn't my "partner". As for "the feedback you're getting is from p*rn". That's absolutely hilarious. No the feedback we are getting is from day to day interactions with modern women. And I reject the idea of being with those unworthy women. As a wise man once said no hymen no diamond.
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@Keep3r1438 no one hurt me
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@waddle623 Muh incel - 🤓☝(🐒💅)
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No one cares ONLY about looks. However looks play a significant role in dating and refusing to accept that shows that you're either a woman (you'll get sexual attention anyways) or a coper. Everyone has a standard for looks, because being attracted to your wife/husband is key to the relationship. And stating the raw truth of "most girls think most guys are unattractive" is not a bitter mindset but a correct observation of the dating landscape. If men are not self conscious and realistic when it comes to dating, they'll never succeed.
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@ancientalien000 Again you seem to miss my entire point. What you stated is a paradox. If a person gets rejected upfront due to his looks, how is he going to get to know said woman? Do you understand now or should I explain it a 3rd time? As for your condescending trash advice, I am fine honey. I study at a uni, I work out regularly, I go out regularly and I am generally doing great in life. I am also a traditionalist so I can clearly see the utter idiocy of modern dating. As for your claim that most Americans marry by 40. That's not statistically the case. Marriage rates have dropped by a lot the past 5 decades. They're at their lowest point as of 2023. 50%+ of marriages also fail in the Us. So by all accounts marriage is a failed institution. The state hijacked it and destroyed it. As for relationships in general. It's projected that over 50% of women over 30 will be single by 2030. Isn't that interesting?
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@datboi5805 body pillows? Is that a common thing in your country? Are you an owner of one?
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@LeBronyaJames At last someone that can divorce reasoning and emotion. Yes a lot of the people I argue with reply through emotional lenses. They usually fail to understand what I am saying. But oh well, what can we do? 🤷‍♂
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@ancientalien000 No you seem to not understand how that works. The bell curve was normal only after the woman knew the man she was rating. But here's the thing, do you think that it's easy to get passed the appraoching stage of a woman for most men? Most men are unattractive when women don't know them. That means that they will ultimately be rejected if a woman finds them unattractive. So if they can't get passed through stage 1 due to their attractiveness, it's 100% understandable why they would "whine" about it. It's a paradox. First it's "no women do not have high standards for looks" to "okay women have high standards for looks, but if you get to know them you the standards normalize". And the question to that is "How will you get to know a woman to drop into their reasonable standard scale if you get rejected insantly due to their unreasonable standard scale?" Do you even understand the absurdity in this? Cultivating social skills and good personality traits won't get you anywhere either. There's something called game. That's how men can have an easier time to pass stage 1. But that alone won't make you succeed. Looks are essential. I've seen so many men with great social skills that can have a discussion with anyone fail time and time again to land women. The only men I've seen that were at best average looking getting away with having great success with women were men that were borderline narcissistic psychopaths. And I am not joking about this. Every narcissistic psychopath I know is a chick magnet. Coincidence?
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@katm8128 A lot of people don't see how lonely it can be for women because women have every access to not be lonely. That's the reality of the situation. If you're a short ugly guy it's over for you when it comes to dating. But other than your personal experience did you know that women on average lose their virginity 2 years earlier than the average for men is?
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@madalice5134 Yes because you seem to not understand how horrible the advice women give is. Do you think that those "incels" didn't follow the advice of women in their life? As a former incel, I followed exactly what my mother taught me, exactly what my female friends said to me yet I never got any success in getting romantic attention from women. When I started following the advice of men that are actually successful in this sphere, I saw results. In fact my only results in high school was when I was following advice from friends that were douchy/as*holes to women. Yet when I lost contact with said friends, I stopped getting any results. I was too bluepilled to even understand why that was. But my advice to any young man is to NEVER listen to women's advice on dating. NEVER.
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@peter9703 Again I am not a black piller nor watch any black pillers so what's exactly your point?
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@datboi5805 I just googled it. It's some kind of large pillow with anime figure printed on top. Probably some kind of fetish. I'll ask you again, are you into this kind of stuff?
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@TertiaryTrash Since he hasn't responded, I can answer the method. Have okayish genetics, work out well, have good skin care and hygene, pick a decent hair cut, dress well and practice being social. That's what I did and got a steep increase in sexual attention. Now I am still a virgin and I am not planning on losing it anytime soon since I am religious and waiting till marriage. But all those took me many steps closer to attracting a marriageable woman.
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@TertiaryTrash Most of the things I listed take time but they're possible.
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