Comments by "asmRTPOP" (@asmrtpop2676) on "Psychology with Dr. Ana" channel.

  1. A lot of the time the person being bullied isn’t neurotypical (often autistic specifically) and the thing is allistic society hates us autistics :/
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  2.  @mateussarmento7692 you replied to the wrong person lol
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  3.  @kittenrants You should but society brainwashes people to not. If you haven’t figured that out yet you either haven’t finished growing up or you’re autistic like myself and haven’t trained this part of yourself to have empathy. ❤
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  4.  @smudgecan boomers and silent gen did this too it has noooothing to do with social media and everything to do with cisheteronormative expectations people throw on you.
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  5. They suffer it because they had a kid. They would not be suffering it if they didn’t. I hope this helps understand why her video and statements are super valid in preventing more.
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  6. Okay but who cares if it’s “negative”? That’s the reality. People don’t want kids and the ones that did regret it. There is a LOT of political power in the US right now by choosing to not have kids, don’t forget that. Tbh I think you’re just projecting a tiny bit because you’re about to have a baby and hope it’s not going to be something you regret any part of. That is a very understandable fear. But this is NOT a grass is greener scenario…. like… at all. 😂 There is no harm from “regretting” NOT having kids. There is mountains of harm the other way around!!! 😂
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  7.  @ReesDavies Ana’s judgement is clouded by her current pregnancy. I would love to see a do-over video in 1.5yrs time. Hopefully the baby doesn’t alter too much of her grey matter. I don’t think she realizes how big of a childfree audience she had. We go hand in hand with the raised by narcissists community lol.
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  8. Fertility woes sure seem to though 😂 Crazy how when it can’t be a mini-me clone it’s suddenly not good enough for those with baby fever
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  9.  @RoseThePhoenix Oh she one hundred percent is. Which is disheartening. It means she can’t be as trusted with the topics she tends to talk about (the raised by narcissists community and childfree by choice communities are very closely tied so she is alienating her viewers). I hope she has the ability to address this but it appears she is already using a new video promotion to distract. Typical youtuber behavior.
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  10. We know we aren’t wanted even when they don’t say anything though that’s the thing.
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  11.  @narrowgroundentertainment Stop speaking over victims
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  12. I don’t think you know what anti natalism is about because what you described is just a random angry reddit user
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  13. Agreed it’s a horrible take. It makes me wonder if she has right leaning views :/
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  14.  @TheKinseth A biological function that can make or break a person’s ENTIRE life. You could completely traumatize an entire human being all because of a selfish decision
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  15. Number 3 is just plain insulting to anyone without kids or who no longer has kids. Be so real.
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  16. A lot of the “I don’t owe anyone anything” attitude is coming back to bite the younger generation in the butt now. A phrase that was meant for abusive relationships and shedding the genes of toxic family, not for whining about why you have no community when you make no effort to be kind or thoughtful.
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  17.  @rosesapling72 they never turn 18? typical parental mindset…
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  18.  @Lillireify Lol couldn’t be me. Ana is in for a surprise.
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  19. I wish Ana would listen to how the majority feel about her video.
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  20.  @premiersportingkc3443 Stop dismissing her as PPD. When she still feels the same in five years will you still call it PPD?
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  21. Okay and in five years when she still regrets having this kid are you still going to dismiss it as PPD?
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  22. Because she literally can’t get ANY time to herself.
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  23. That’s literally her point. She can’t escape it.
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  24. They are not worth it for everyone I hope that helps.
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  25. Linda what does that have to do with anything
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  26. Maybe it’s also different because I am autistic but unfortunately in almost all of these situations I have to cut off both points of the triangle. It is the best way to keep my peace. Just because I set my boundaries with one doesn’t mean the one starting the triangulation doesn’t stop gossiping about me behind my back with the other person. It causes so much stress and in the end I feel it isn’t fair to me. A real friend would NOT allow that behavior! So, the reality is, neither are friends. And I move on (or greyrock if they are not “friends” but are something like coworkers where I am forced to be around them).
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  27. You sound like her baby
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  28. When she still regrets having the kid in five years will you continue to gaslight her and call it PPD?
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  29. There are literally channels devoted to content that is forever lost.
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  30. Because of the president my friend’s daughter lost her affirming care… my friend’s daughter doesn’t have four years.
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  31.  @Dr.Jekyll_ Stop complaining about a woman
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  32. I think what’s sadder is people don’t think this can be an opportunity for parents and children to be open and honest. No instead the narrative is doubling down on having birthing parents hide how they feel.
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  33. lol it isn’t unnecessary my best friend had her daughters affirming care ripped away by the current administration. She told me “my daughter doesn’t have four years”. Oh and there’s a TB outbreak here too… and no vaccines at all for it! ❤
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  34.  @pictonomii3295 As an autistic person then you should be able to grasp it has to do with the specific language used. The video used disabilities as one blanket category. Including yours. Sincerely, another autistic.
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  35. Those are perfectly acceptable reasons to not want a kid. Those are reasons WE are not having kids.
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  36. You should feel sorry for conceiving purposely during dragon slaying times. Settin your child up for trauma on purpose…
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  37.  @vivvy_0 Yep some villages love to have a jester..
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  38. I think two things can be true: a parent can be triangulated and isolated…… and that parent can also react to it with selfish emotions. 🤷🏻🤷🏻
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  39. You missed the point entirely
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  40. As an autistic I take massive issue with the concept of it being the communicator’s full responsibility to make sure they are understood. Allistic people and narcissists and abusers enjoy being purposely obtuse.
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  41. You were a good little cog in the machine! But we need people who actually SPEAK UP. ❤
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  42. If you don’t have a uterus you should sit back. We are lied to from childhood about the birth and pregnancy process.
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  43.  @AncientCrustacean And all of it is fleeting!! People get sick of a new mon FAST lol
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  44. Don’t worry if she doesn’t tell them the first time it will absolutely be the last time lol. She will quickly be alone.
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  45. As an autistic person who used to have this view I can confidently say you are being absolutely pedantic. You know what a metaphor is.
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  46.  @angiem1704 She was assaulted. She was SA’d. Her being someone you don’t like is entirely irrelevant to that fact. That’s what you aren’t understanding. Victims do not have to be likeable.
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  47.  @ThatBookGirl Eh that isn’t the default reason why women bully other women. It is often just to gang up and “other” someone.
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  48. Her justification is people like you won’t have the guts to post it. The truth needs to get out there.
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  49. Yes and no. You can’t help that 2020 was already underway but the people who actively chose to get pregnant during a pandemic with no vaccine in sight were being idiotic that’s for sure.
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  50.  @sunnyadams5842 Or decided to adopt or paid someone to house an egg or became a step parent.
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  51.  @EthanE0812 Be so real right now that is never gonna happen 😂
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  52.  @EthanE0812 China is the most populated country on the planet.
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  53. That child has been screaming for clearly so long that nothing had been working. The MOTHER is in distress. See, even you don’t care about the mother. Once someone becomes a mother no one cares! It’s all about the baby.
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  54.  @meschakakur it’s about other people reading it
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  55. We aren’t going to help you with children when we made conscious decisions to not have them and worked hard to NOT have them.
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