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Comments by "asmRTPOP" (@asmrtpop2676) on "How triangulation is ruining your relationships" video.
Maybe it’s also different because I am autistic but unfortunately in almost all of these situations I have to cut off both points of the triangle. It is the best way to keep my peace. Just because I set my boundaries with one doesn’t mean the one starting the triangulation doesn’t stop gossiping about me behind my back with the other person. It causes so much stress and in the end I feel it isn’t fair to me. A real friend would NOT allow that behavior! So, the reality is, neither are friends. And I move on (or greyrock if they are not “friends” but are something like coworkers where I am forced to be around them).
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