Comments by "Don" (@dct124) on "how masculine tropes might harm women's careers u0026 dating life." video.

  1. The article didn't touch on how either man or woman is raised. What you learn and view as a child into adulthood as examples of relationships, broken homes, marriage, etc. Has a significant impact on your view of the world specifically when seeking a suitable mate. I have a cousin who makes less than his wife by around 40% to 50% less. His parents had a similar dynamic. My cousin wife was in the military and came from a broken home, where her parents were separated. I spent several years with them and at no point did she throw finances in his face at least not infront of me or there children. Both had regular jobs but also were entrepreneur's able to help each other's business in a symbiotic way which didn't offset their finances, but both simply made more together. Also if considering intangibles, he's definitely higher on the scale. He's far more family oriented and she more career oriented. Not perfect by any means but they've made things work where he became a step father to her two children and they eventually had a child together. I think they've been together over 15yrs and have had many ups and downs. I wonder if the majority or minority of US women specifically think outside of the prototypical marriage lifestyle or if the majority are going into it based on their own upbringing and what's been known as the standard. One of the most difficult aspects is getting a genuine answer out of a women. No offense but they typicality lean toward a PC response whereas men lean toward an adaptive response.
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