Comments by "Leahflower" (@leahflower9924) on "Soft White Underbelly" channel.

  1. Telling her she's one of the prettiest over and over in the beginning wasn't necessary
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  2. These people have to be narcissist to do that to their own kids and still be able to live with themselves most of us would be consumed by self hatred
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  3. He's not looking for love
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  4. That burned hands story was so sad 😢
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  5. She's got muscles like an Olympic athlete
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  6. You often have to self diagnose the therapists don't figure it out half the time
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  7. He's a man he just has to fix his inner child
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  8. I have trauma and kids and I always wish I could tell everyone to work on their trauma before they have kids
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  9. If the monsters are your family or trusted friends then what do you tell yourself you know thats what magnifies the trauma right is the cognitive dissonance
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  10. That's how the elites want it, it's called wage slaves. They got rid of regular slavery because it wasn't as productive as wage slavery
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  11. If she didn't look like that you wouldn't find her interesting at all
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  12. When you are abused you will slowly believe its your fault and stupid family members will let you believe it's your fault
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  13. they take 50% to pimp you out and take advantage of your trauma or low self esteem, this is another form of trauma bonding! smh
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  14. 1970s was also the decade of serial killers apparently
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  15.  @Legalcodejustice  yikes i am not disturbed by ladies of the night or pimps I'm disturbed by the "wholesome family man" who pays for a body
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  16. She was showing her vulnerability while crying in public and someone literally swooped in and pounced on her vulnerability...what a sick world
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  17. Even though he probably thinks he's all messed up he actual seems like he's normal and his family were the messed up ones
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  18.  @a.wanderer5006  guys like to forget or block out that kind of information, because they have needs they just need someone to take care of those needs, they really love their wives/girlfriends! lord help me
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  19.  @bhall18utk  dude what the hell she is very traumatized
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  20. Has anyone seen lords of Dogtown he looks straight out of that movie lol
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  21. because our society likes to blame the victims of society so society never has to take responsibility for who it messed up
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  22. Funny you say baby because she looks like a rough version of baby spice
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  23. she reminds me of kate hudson even the voice, i just watched kate hudson on that show Truth Be Told lol
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  24. that's how you survive sometimes it's like being a soldier or warrior
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  25. They are similar i feel like with borderline there's more of an issue with identity and abandonment/rejection
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  26. I have a lot of trouble maintaining my job I love it and it's easy but if I have a bad day I don't want to deal with anyone and I have to practically slap myself to say you don't wanna lose this self sabotage is a B
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  27.  @Fankas2000  haha thats what i was thinking too if you wait until someone is done with their shift they'll equate that with being creepy even if you are trying to be respectful lol
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  28. it's a coping mechanism
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  29. She is an empath
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  30. Fantasy world is the number one way to survive more severe trauma extreme fantasy and dissociating is easiest to see in multiple personality disorder
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  31. Well it's always hard not to fit in or when you're mistreated or poor in every time period in every society
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  32.  @lovemydog27  yes exactly! Dealing with people is exhausting
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  33. save your money after the "house" takes 50%..i'm dyin' lol
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  34. GG should've stayed with Jabbers and that style he got a lot worse after awhile his country stuff was ok
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  35.  Russiawithlove Love  he seems like he has the stammering or whatever you call it that trauma survivors get sometimes when they try to explain abuse, the memories are all over the place so that's how they talk
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  36. I was a nihilist too but nihilism is usually not real unless you're a psychopath with a different brain structure otherwise nihilism is just a defense mechanism everyone wants love and meaning and anyone who acts like they don't or are too cool for it are full of crap
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  37. Majority of people don't get unconditional love
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  38. We are bad in relationships but we have good hearts we maybe care more than the average person narcs are like the opposite
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  39. He's totally demoralized
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  40. He seems to live relatively peacefully the best part is when his victims are haunted by this and then it affects their whole motherhood because they are traumatized
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  41. I've also heard Joe king tell some of these stories interesting to hear from new Hampshire punks because there were only a handful
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  42.  @annaz5281  lol exactly
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  43. Thats the problem with abuse you are always stuck wondering why someone you trust could hurt you
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  44. ​ @davechristian7543  I don't know if this is true for people from new York but I'm from new jersey and for me everything that's not new York city or long island is considered upstate new York
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  45. I'm glad she mentioned high school because it can be a big part of fully developing BPD I was sensitive and was prone to maybe be borderline but I remember I felt "normal" in middle school and I could feel myself turning borderline because high school was so bad
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  46. They seem like they're acting
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  47. ​ @ES-bl1mp not to sound funny but self absorption is a trauma response you start to live in your own head and ruminate and the way you trust and see people and how you relate gets distorted
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  48.  @sharktoothgamingandfishing3524  she's trauma bonded to the brothel basically
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  49. ​ @bryanfrombuffalo7685  I think you need meaning and good relationships in life I don't think structure and routine are as important as people say they are, a lot of people that are successful and disciplined have no meaning in their life and are completely depressed
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  50. And he doesn't discriminate with females so we know he isn't a hater
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