Comments by "Leahflower" (@leahflower9924) on "The Roots of Body Dysmorphia | Dr. K Interviews" video.

  1. Yeah I always say pretty people say looks aren't that important and rich people say money isn't that important
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  2. ​ @ZekeHyle9  in high school I feel like it's clear someone has a distorted view of themselves when they are constantly being asked out or hit on and they still feel ugly, but when you don't get that much attention that's where it's easy to get dysmorphic and not really know how good you look or how bad you look
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  3. I didn't really ever think about that but that happened to me I wasn't standard ugly if such a thing exists but I was the cute kid who got awkward during puberty then got tall and skinnier so people said oh you look nice but then my skin got worse dermatitis and I felt like a leper I got skin meds and skin is clear and in my 20s some people said I'm pretty, it was a total mind F for me and I did get rejected more than once so yeah I give up
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  4. I still remember that boy when we were 13 and he said he didn't want to go to the middle school dance with me and I remember I almost begged him and I was like nope I can't beg don't do it but I'll never forget he rejected me I thought I was ok looking and he was the "weird kid" I felt like a pariah ever since
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  5. Me too and I'm white is this a common problem for mostly white females lol
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  6. I don't know is what I would say too as a female and I didn't know I was splitting and dissociating all the time so idk can be a sign of detachment from yourself
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  7. ​ @mindyann8903 I'm female I don't even look that different than her and I don't know why they said lower than average I think she's a cute swedish girl which isn't the point either but it's funny I think she's cute when I don't look that different and I thought and sometimes still think I'm disgusting
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  8. There's a song like that by the band sloppy seconds I'm not gonna say song title lol but the guy can't get a girl to like him so people start thinking he's gay
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  9. ​ @kamizwr2082  maybe they ask if the people want to be in the thumbnail and my guess is she would say no
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  10. Do you mean BDD.. BPD is borderline
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  11. ​ @Kriliska  that usually has to do with family of origin and then you could add on peers and institutions your stuck being a part of, usually it's the parents that actually shut down your authentic self or tell you you need to be something so you end up internalizing and turning on yourself your family needs to allow you to navigate your feelings in order to be healthy it's not the kids job
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