Comments by "" (@nightmareTomek) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. Dunno why they think it's ok to treat others like garbage. I'm gonna stay single, don't wanna deal with this crap.
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  2.  @roses6564  yes, all of them. Some labeled toxic, some not, but it's in their nature and they're doing these things subconsiously.
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  3. If both parties think the significant other is their best option, then that means she is over 40 and has hit the wall.
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  4. In interviews someone like Sadia has a clear advantage because she mastered the skill to answer quickly, implant and reframe her wants as facts and then shove the topic aside before it can get analyzed too thoroughly. I found that I always need a bit of time to figure things out to the bottom of them, makes me think I could never participate in an interview anymore or just be a silent listener. Also when I present the figured out version, then they get mad.
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  5.  @Mereologist  Your answer is like this: Police: "Who committed the crime?" Witness: "Generally we should be nicer to each other." Police: "Yeah true, but who actually committed the crime? You saw it, didn't you?" Witness: "I did, and that's why I want to tell you the important message that the world is very cruel and that this cruelty is very unnecessary." Police: "Do you want to help or not? We need to know who the culprit is." Witness: "I'm helping right here! I'm telling you that the world is full of bad people and everyone should strive to make it better. You should do your job and put the criminals in prison." You didn't answer my question, whether the man is actually hard to deal with or not. You just spammed overgeneralized life advice, which are very useless in tracking down a problem. That's a societal problem that whenever we try to find a problem (that might hurt a woman's feelings), we get bombarded with everyday phrases that we should all do better. And then nothing's solved. And that's why a lot of men are opting out. See how the witness managed to blame the police in my analogy?
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  6.  @mysticone1798  And not so true at all. In my experience rather a wishful dream, borderline a flatout lie. I've tried defusing situations with humor countless times, it works with men but only rarely with women.
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  7.  @roses6564  They convinced you very well to believe in them rather than in reality.
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  8.  @roses6564  not gonna read this. when it starts with ad hominems, you can't expect anything intelligent to come later. just another vvoman being mad.
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  9. So much stupid BLAH BLAH BLAH here. Appreciation this, appreciation that, it's already common knowledge and for some reason it's not working anyway. Why not? "After the man received all the help he needed he then left the woman and went on with his life." Yep, no surprised. (The reason is btw that you didn't care enough what he actually wanted, you just gave him something and expected from him to be satisfied, while he did't see much value in it). I can predict how long relationships last based on the behavior and chemistry of 2 partners at the start. I've been able to predict a few relationships 3 years in advace down to a month. And from my observation female perception is warped. They overvalue their input and undervalue men's input. I even have an evolutionary explanation for that. But for me saying that here I'll be seen as a misogynist, and women will continue to not listen. Just like a few comments further up people say women hate those therapists who point to the woman as the problem, and they stop going to therapy. With this attitude the relationships you want will keep breaking. You can think about that, or not, kinda your choice.
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  10. Wouldn't say corrupt. It makes it easy and makes them lazy. But the power doesn't last.
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  11. Black humor however isn't helpful at all.
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  12. That's the impression I had since a teenage age, prevented me well to have relationships. They just gonna get discontent over time and there's nothing you can do about it.
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  13.  @rayrwyr  but are there enough right women around for the average men? Probably not.
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  14.  @LisaCulton  You seem to be very angry everywhere you post.
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  15. ​ @LisaCulton  Ye sure, interesting. No, they're all out of spite, every single one. You could stop with that bitterness.
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  16. Women want to feel desired while making others feel undesired.
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  17. ​ @SpedSauce  This is where Tarabans advice is incomplete and wrong because of this incompleteness. Not only will she demand a higher price of a lower value man, she will also be very unwilling to do effort for him. If she does, she might already be dissatisfied with the relationship. Or if you ask for effort, she might freak out and leave. That's right, she will show her true colors and that's why low value men have learned not to ask for any effort.
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  18. Most beautiful woman I met and fell in love with 20 years ago, a bombshell and gifted, which made her not crazy. But the amount of disrespect to her father and other men made me walk away.
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  19.  @LisaCulton  yeah right, that's why they're walking away and vvomen are going to home depot looking for men. What makes those vvomen not alone?
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  20. You're a rare one to listen. I think these lies are what makes us so wary and suspicious of one another and destroy our trust. I hope you find trust in your husband that goes beyond only that he doesn't cheat, but a trust that his decisions are meant to do good for you, even if it doesn't always look like that. I mean in case you haven't found that yet.
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  21. No matter how you pet the cat, it gives you the claws and then says "you better pet me better, or I get myself a better petter".
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  22. It's not just the beauties that hate the truth, from what I observe.
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  23. But they want to be lied to... Do you think they don't?
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  24. xD Women will always find a reason to separate, and they will always blame the man. One story after another. I bet you never considered that you could have been the reason he didn't put in the effort you expected. Well, I hope being alone makes you happy, because if not, I wouldn't have any sympathy for you.
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  25.  @LisaCulton  which is most likely a myth you like perpetuating. Sons probably had a lot of duties and requirements laid on their shoulders, from working, being a good this and that, to going to war. Daughters duty was just domestic help.
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  26.  @LisaCulton  but we can't stop playing the victim card, can we.
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  27. And that's not even ridiculous enough to sound made up.
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  28.  @Mereologist  Is that actually true though that men are difficult to deal with? Or is it just that women feel like it? That is why more and more men don't want to deal with women anymore. Any criticism you say they're immediately reflecting back at you.
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  29. This is the key element that Tarabans advice is missing. Not only will she demand a higher price of a lower value man, she will also be very unwilling to do effort for him. You can't demand it from her or if you do she might freak out or even leave, she will just not think it's justified to do it for you.
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  30. ​ @Enhdros  Saying this again. This is where Tarabans advice is incomplete and wrong because of this incompleteness. Not only will she demand a higher price of a lower value man, she will also be very unwilling to do effort for him. If she does, she might already be dissatisfied with the relationship. Or if you ask for effort, she might freak out and leave. That's why low value men have learned not to ask for any effort, because it doesn't work and only leads to drama instead.
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  31. Sometimes you need to give a bunch of praise anytime she lifts a finger.
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  32.  @amerigo88  The focus of the video might be nice and all, but how is it in reality? Feels to me like the man's job is 10000x harder, he needs to walk on eggshells and not even say a single word that she might to his detriment interpret however she feels like, and all she needs to do in return is to just be polite? If I think about it, I actually tried to be loving and forgiving and always speak with a warm tone. Amounted to nothing.
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  33.  @ephraimwinslow  I also know what you mean, but I persisted with truth and helping and found a beautiful way of IDGAF. Had quite a bit of training with this with my ex.
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  34. Well, it's a bit more complicated than what he articulated, and the complete workings are hard to explain. Thus he's not completely wrong, but imprecise.
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  35.  @JanW51  requires equally as much? You can't be serious, right? Because not being entitled and bratty is so hard to pull off, or what?
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  36.  @robmcguckin7605  That's why I keep saying that high value men stay single because they don't want to deal with that crap. Not because they're jerks or something. And I'm not even high value.
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  37. I think you're forgetting "DUMB". I'm binge-watching him today, a few videos have good messages, but most are just dumb, and way too long for their dumbness. Just let me point you to what he said at 8:30, so you can really envision the stupidity of that what you're praising here. "Eventually your red pill days will be characterized by relationships with women. Everything is completely different and yet nothing has changed. ... Women will be part of our lives in one way or another. In a way the red pill allows to have relationships with women in a way that makes sense for the particular individuals involved. Women are not the enemy." And then envision divorce r4pe. How men can lose everything, job, house, children, to a woman who became a bit unhappy and is full of spite towards her ex husband because in her eyes he's at fault she has to divorce. And Orion is saying a bunch of nothing, or that no matter our knowledge nothing will change and what is happening is going to be ignored. How is that not stupid? No, actually women's behavior is abnormally destructive and needs to be addressed and fixed, the way you'd try to correct a bad behavior of a child. Divorce r4pes need to stop, PERIOD. Many other things need to stop as well. The red pill points this out, there's no stupid enlightment in this, it's knowledge that can either be used or ignored, and he talks about it like it can only be ignored. And that's from someone with a psychology profession. Aboslutely idiotic! Think it through.
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  38.  @NormanGreenwood-s2o  "technically"??? So if "Reality is one and it is you who seems to be having problems coping with it" isn't technically an ad hominem, then "just another vvoman being mad", which was my very next response, wasn't one either. You're picking favorites and judging sides differently based on your liking. When I said what I said, albeit it wasn't nice, she wasn't questioning why I think this way, no, her immediate response was to jump to blame my opinion on an incorrect assumptions about my life circumstances. She's gonna sit on that opinion. Even if she didn't, from experience I know that you can't talk to them normally again after they've been mad once. And I'm not gonna read the rest what you wrote. Are you her alt account or something, because I used the block feature? Can do the same with you. Like, immediately!
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  39. not this spiritual adviser spam again...
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  40.  @jamesbickle4912  And that's the answer why some never commit. If there were less dishonesty at play, people would marry after only a week.
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  41. Women don't amplify everything, only negativity. When you shower them with positivity, they can be extremely indifferent. Otherwise how did we arrive at the understanding that women love drama? Also there's an easier way to avoid arguiging with women. If she's shouting and crying, her her out, don't respond, turn around and go away. Done! I haven't had fights with women either.
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  42. This isn't delulu, is a purposeful emotional jab. She knows she's wrong. But it's not her intention to be right, but to be hurtful.
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  43.  @Sad_Bumper_Sticker  Which you wouldn't be able to refute not even if arguments would be raining from the sky onto your head.
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  44. Just be the richest man in the vicinity, and also win the genetic lottery, also win the lottery of finding a nondelusional woman. Easy as pie.
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  45. xD Time to cheat and take his house, lady. Most other women do this, too, as soon as they experience a teeny tiny bit of unhappiness. Then they put the lives of their kids in jeopardy just to get back at their ex husband. You have kids? Women search men who make 6 figures, then complain that they have to work for it. Still, even if he makes 100k a year, the marriage has (not exactly sure I remember the numbers correctly) like a 50% chance to end in divorce, compared to only 10% if he makes 400k. And yet, if the man is available at home, she can still complain that he's too available and not career-driven enough. This clusterfk of reasoning just looks to me like women actively look for a reason to seperate. I wonder if this is evolutionary from the times where the alphas got regularly replaced by younger and stronger alphas. In modern times though it makes women often end up alone and regretful.
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  46.  @roxyroxelle  Yee, people never think it's fun to have the truth hit them in their face. And that's good because I don't really want a partner. All the girls that fell in love with me over the last 2 decades I told no, they were just all emotionally unstable. What emotional availability do you want anyway? Men are surprisingly empathetic, but you women don't believe it anway, or can't recognize it. And is this what you want, or just approval for your mistakes? And even then, a lot of women keep complaining anyway, they just switch over to that he isn't masculine enough or something. Hypergamy is a thing. What I observe is that unless women marry up by a significant margin, they will be more dissatisfied over time in their relationship and no amount of empathy can do anything about it, especially not if the man hasn't been blessed in the DNA lottery.
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  47. I don't think it's the 2/10 pumping their egos as much as media and the industry is. Industry found out that pumping their ego is what incentivises them to make these 80% of consumer buying decisions.
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  48.  @borispirs7788  no, omg, don't make her "elaborate". It's her purpose to make emotional jabs at those she disagrees with. You just gonna make her attack more.
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  49. The problems I see with "becoming the best version of oneself": - what do you do it for, if not for women? Money? Status? Confidence? - best version at the end usually only means accumulating more money and resources. Not smarts, not create something relevant, not improve society - if all men become the best versions of themselves, women will chase the top 10% of high high value men. - meaning: please work and be disciplined, so someone benefits off of you (which by the way doesn't equal improving society) "The best version of oneself" can very well turn out to be a societal trap in half a century
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  50. He isn't completely right in everything. His general idea how society is going is quite good, but the winners from the survival show didn't have to live for another month there to claim their victory, if they would have had to, then it would be more like life and there would be no winners, just a general breakdown of the system.
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  51.  @soleil7259  Oh, and let me emphasize that the goal of my criticism is not to hurt you. But you women need to hear this for you and the situation to improve, you can't just push your emotions into the foreground and tell us how much you're hurt to avoid listening to cricism. And you women should start trusting men to make this judgement and have trust in it's fairness.
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  52.  @JohnSmith-qx8ll  You failed to answer my question... Which is no surprise I guess...
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  53.  @TerryBradstreet  Did your question get answered? Or do you need another one? How about just wondering about what someone else is thinking about this topic?
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  54. 10:00 I wonder if women are watching, and agreeing. xD Is it working? Is something changing? Or are they just watching, nodding, and continueing their bad behavior? That's what I would expect, I mean there was a survey showing that women 2 things, one that women emotionally hurt the men that they love on a regular (daily) basis, and two that they don't even understand it when it's explained to them.
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  55.  @elainer8288  No, that isn't it. Reciprocity is something you want, but it doesn't work like you want. Reciprocity is one type of effort. And like I said in different comments, she's gonna reserve the effort for high value guys, even if they aren't reciprocating. But to men her level she's the one not reciprocating.
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  56.  @josephang9927  Which are all chicks.
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  57. There's a key element missing here. Not only will she demand a higher price of a lower value man, she will also be very unwilling to do effort for him. You can't demand it from her or she will freak out and leave, she will just not think it's justified to do it for you. This goes hand in hand and is all part of hypergamy. While the higher value ones on top of the discount get also her effort no matter if they show reciprocation or not. It's like the effort is reserved for them and for cute and helpless, which includes dogs, cats and children. This advice is incomplete and the incompleteness makes it wrong. Also people do talk about this, it's the red pill. Get this right or stop promoting your book.
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  58.  @sadiegodwin205  What the _ _ _ _? Are you trying to justify ad hominems? And mouthing off big about toxicity, yeah sure. She had no validity. If you want to make a valid point, don't start with an ad hominem, period. In fact don't ever use one, Nobody has to listen to a person who's arguing like an angry 5 year old. but you also already used ad hominems and you have as much validity as her.
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  59.  @sadiegodwin205  How are you expecting something constructive after coming to me with only ad hominems and empty claims? Bring something constructive yourself. You want me to show you what you overlooked or tried to gloss over? You said to me, "you had agreed to avoid all women due to toxicity, despite your poor attempt to explain not completely on a level of toxicity alone.....how nonsensical" Now let's ignore for a moment that this was already your SECOND ad hominem in this short and first comment directed at me, as well as an attack on the statement itself, and also lets ignore your grammer. What explanation, where's the explanation? I said, "yes, all of them. Some labeled toxic, some not, but it's in their nature and they're doing these things subconsiously." There is no explanation. Open your eyes, I made an empty claim there myself. I could explain it, but I haven't done so yet, yet you, because the claim made you angry, decided to attack the nonexistent explanation. With 2 ad hominems and once attacking the claim directly. You never cared to find out what you couldn't make sense of. That is how you derive amusement in conversations? How fantastic. Just like the other gal, I suppose. Time to block.
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  60. Okay, guys, listen. I wasn't the nicest here of course, but that makes me identical to the opposing side. If the hypocrites are gonna only defend one side only, the one of the eternally protected gen _ _ _ (the one that needs defending even against criticism), then I'm not gonna read it and I'm gonna instantly block. Talk with each other and have fun celebrating these opinions that drive a bigger wedge between the gen_ _ _ s. You go, girl!
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  61.  @jameskamotho7513  it entails being an emotional punching bag for vvomen.
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  62.  @hexadecimal5236  Well, close, but not entirely correct. Women always talk sh_t, true. They might want to be loved unconditionally, but from what I see a woman's love is gonna fade at some point. Even if people stay together for a lifetime, what's to say that it doesn't become just a respectul cohabitation at some point? When was the last time you saw a widow be heartbroken about her man dying? On TV? Some men want to be loved like sons, maybe due to their own problematic upbringing. Other men would do anything for a chance to give their love to someone else. They work just for that hope, even if they're still single.
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  63.  @randomoffgrid  that Lisa is spamming comments like these everywhere. Seems to prove your assessment of vvomen right.
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  64. Disney makes good relationships.
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  65. Not quite. They sticking up for each other even against the truth is a form of power play, they gain individual power by giving the group power. And they don't really get protection there, not really, they would not side with the group if the risk were higher. Taraban also quite generalizes things to make them fit in one episode, while talking quite slowly and barely getting to the point. He's somewhat correct, but too imprecise to be truly eye opening.
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  66.  @jerrysmith5782  The problem is rather that most women can be useful, but they aren't because they think it's beneath them. Yet they have a whole list of requirements for the man. Women with a disability who cannot be useful in the same sense is a different subject, and since in most cases the reason was something out of her control, people will have pity and it will make their caring more selfless.
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  67.  @jamesholster5323  Yeah, the wokeness will fade. But there are still behaviors engraved in female biology that create problems in and for our society, behaviors from which wokeness stemmed in the first place. Those won't disappear all that quickly, especially not if not even men are able to recognize the source of the problems.
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  68. Probably was "I want to go everywhere and try everyone's .." anyway.
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  69.  @Miketar2424  I doubt he's giving people truth, but gives you what you want to hear. He reminds me of my teachers... who talked a lot never getting to the point. And his analogies are in my opinion absurd. And his constant "at this point I want to tell you to subscribe and donate and and" doesn't sound like he's genuine to me. I liked the first 2 videos I watched from him. The rest is just garbage...
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  70. Same here, having no woman around means everything is 1000x easier. It's a bit sad, but the better option. I wonder though if this is a form of control when she wants him to walk on eggshells 24/7.
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  71. So you have to fake some emotional bullsh_t to make her insecure once in a while?
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  72. Yep. A lot of other people got mighty tired of having the truth fall on them after being told beautiful lies all their life.
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  73. What I've observed is that the dumber the message of the channel is, the dumber is the positive feedback. Those that disagree with someone usually don't watch a lot of his content, only those that agree, and there's always just 1% negative feedback. Hence even on flat earth channels there's mostly approval and praise. I think, doc, you're not wrong with what you say, but you say only the obvious things and those in such an overelaborate and time wasting manner, like it's for apes. You declare yourself the winner when getting criticized because it's a good business design. I wonder if you'd respond to that criticism, but I doubt it.
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  74. I'm not afraid of rejection. I'm annoyed that I'm expected to waste my time. And by the hypocrisy that women want to feel desired but in the process make someone else feel terrible and undesired. And the 2nd hypocrisy that women say they want the man to have good character and then they refuse the chance to get to know said character. Isn't worth the squeeze, honestly dealing with this at all feels just entirely stupid. If women are so independent nowadays, they can ask the men out instead.
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  75.  @LaSpiaggia3Sole  It's not a long explanation. She is gonna be unwilling to do effort for someone that has to pay full price, and those that don't will get her effort no matter whether they reciprocate or not. You can't ask for effort, because if you do you'll get drama instead. Maybe they let this through.
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  76.  @Arven8  In another video, I think it also was from the doctor here, I heard that in a relationship a woman can easily replace a man, but not the man the woman. That's probably what she uses to force him to be 10000x more careful than she needs to be. Which is kinda weird when 80% women chase 20% of men, these men aren't the ones easily replaceable. But women are spiteful, too, I can imagine that if she's discontent she dumps her high value guy for a low value simp to hurt him...
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  77. That's why high value men refuse relationships, they don't want to deal with her craziness.
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  78. I cheated one as well, she thought a marriage would solve our relationship problems and I though that was just dumb.
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  79.  @soleil7259  These are sweet, but empty words. I'll give you an example. It's said that communication is needed for a good relationship. So does this advice tell you, why or how communication breaks down, which causes the downfall of relationships? No, it doesn't. Why not? Because if it did, someone would be offended, and that someone threatens people with being hurt to avoid hearing he or her is the problem, also known as victim mentality. And my next question is, which gender loves doing the silent treatment, when angry? What do you think that does? It breaks the communcation. But does that advice that communication is needed ever tell you not to use the silent treatment? No, it doesn't. That's why your words are so empty, although technically what you say is correct, use say it just for the purpose to shift our perception of who's to blame from women onto men. If that doesn't work, the next step that women often do is calling others misogynist, and if that doesn't work either, next step would be tears and crying. Same thing with responsibility, you're trying to blame men although in reality men usually take most, if not all of the responsibility (and blame) for the problems in the relationship, even those caused by women. I can give you an example here, too. What does society often say, if he cheats? It's because he's an a-hole. If she cheats? Because he didn't give her what she needed. He gets blamed both times (thus he has the responsibility put on him to make her happy). This is societal manipulation, women are good at that. Unless women stop seeing things from an emotional, judgemental and narcissistic perspective (or we go back to patriarchy), things in society won't improve. You want equality? Then start being actually objective and fair (and studies show that in stressful situations (and you could call hearing criticism as a stressful situations) women's fairness goes out the window; also studies show that children from single mother households have disadvantages in life, like greater chance to fail at school, do drugs, suicide and be criminal. But the studies can't yet explain that it's actually the emotional unfairness of women from stressful situations that causes it, but just wait a few decades and there probably will be something showing you that I was right all along). Own your feelings, or fk your feelings, one or the other, or these unfair judgements will just cause disdain.
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  80. I read that comment on the last video as well.
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  81. It's like wanting groumet food during a famine. Yeah, there's a difference between wants and gets.
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  82. From my experience it's next to impossible to give women guidance. Don't know how many exceptions there are, but the general rule is that women don't listen. Men are full of advice, they give it to each other, too, and even more criticism, and they listen to each other. Giving criticism to women however just results in them emotionally blowing over, calling the advice giver a misogynist and other names. Best case scenario is when women assume the advice applies only to the advice giver, and it makes them ignore it. I get that women need to look good and their status is very important to them. But they're harming themselves with that attitude.
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  83. In other words, they cheated through social connections. Yeah and this is what largely happens, it's actually just a power struggle, not cooperation. But in reality there's nothing to win, instead the structures of society break down. Because life isn't like the game.
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  84.  @ma2000  yeah no, not lately. I'm seeing this for decades so that I came to the belief it must be biological.
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  85. He reminds me of my old teachers. Who were talking a lot while saying only little. Stuffing their phrases full of foreign words to sound smart. And these metaphors... just wtf. Like a salat spinner, if you spin it, you get many metaphors that are functionally irritated but well spread out, but if you spin only a little you get just a few metaphors well pasted against each other with only slightly hurt surfaces. Just like life.
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  86.  @CeceliPS3  I haven't read the whole conversation, but I agree with you. "Best to always be stoic, indifferent, detached, calm, etc. No one but you should have power over you." sounds like a meaningless phrase. She has power through how society sees women as more important (I mean, there are studies on this!), or laws being skewed towards women. If you get put into that situation, you can be stoic all you want, you can not care about it but you gonna be seen as the bad guy anyway. They shouldn't have power over you, but they collectively judge you. And how about if she accuses you of harassment?
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  87.  @JohnSmith-qx8ll  "I did not frame the woman in question as a bully" You haven't? But what if you misinterpreted your own example and she actually is the bully? I have another question. It should be common knowledge already that females are favored in school and academia over males. (Right? Or do I need to cite some studies first?) So lets hypothetically say the preferential treatment increases even further so much that hard work does no longer cut it to bridge the gap. How does being stoic solve the issue that as a man you're simply gonna lose? What does "they shouldn't have power over you" in this context even mean, if they actually indeed have power over you AND your future? Even if the favorism isn't even that big, it still means the teachers are bullies against you while they're thinking of themselves as righteous. My example is very analogous to your example, even if you don't believe it is.
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  88.  @michellehoward2123  you vvomen always shift the blame on "who hurt you" when you dislike the argument. It's like arguing with a child who always "no I don't want to", no matter if it's even the right context. Most of the time it's incorrect and they don't have any insecurity. And also it doesn't matter whether they have or not, it matters whether what he said is the truth. Also, while it's true that a bad relationship to the mother can badly impact the childs approach to relationships. But it goes for boys as for girls, and also may I remind you that it's usually mothers divorcing, getting sole custody, alienating the children from the father or all 3 of those. Even in a healthy family the mother usually takes over all decisions and the father goes to work for most of the day, because if he doesn't... A study showed that when he has 100k income the divorce rates are at 40% and when he has 400k it's only at 10%.
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  89.  @SpedSauce  It's sad that Taraban doesn't know this, but spends so much time promoting his book.
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  90. Also people do talk about this. In the red pill.
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  91. Anime is for men relationship p0rn like 50 shades of gray is for women. In 50 shades of gray he's a multimillionaire and CEO and good looking and not taken. In animes they are just smiling and shy.
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  92.  @noelofpatmos  everything has to be a meme....
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  93. I don't think this advice works. It sounds like "if you want a happy marriage... pray to God".
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  94. In other words, women don't care about our characters, they care about how we stand out in society?
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  95.  @MegaSunshineyday  Yep, dating far down might do the trick.
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  96. ​ @Diametricallyopposed00  He isn't spot on, there's a key element missing which makes him actually more wrong than right. A woman is not only giving high value guys a discount, her effort is also reserved for him. If a low value guy asks for effort, she doesn't see it as justified, will probably freak out and it leads to drama rather than cooperation. This isn't limited to GFs, it also applies to mothers and platonic friends. And that's why we learned to not ask for any effort. I doubt that you agree to the truth that isn't making you look good.
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  97.  @Diametricallyopposed00  You can disagree all you like. Truth is truth, I can observe it and more and more people can as well. And thanks, but I'm not looking for a partner.
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  98.  @elainer8288  That means if you're asking for reciprocation, it immediately reveals what men you're dating.
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  99.  @elainer8288  This immediately makes it obvious who you're picking to date.
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  100. So why do women do this when the relationship is already taking a step off the cliff? Had a woman do it the first time a few days before break-up, 3 years into relationship. My anger also made her happier than I've seen her in months, if not years. Something's seriously wrong there. Also, didn't she realize that my anger wasn't making the relationship better? That's some astonishing backwards thinking!
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  101. Nah. From my observation it's only women who overvalue what they give and undervalue what they get. Even a dating advice book by a woman for women that I read 20 years ago has said this. And I think that was one of the few good ones since the author was probably the only author that interviewed men before writing it.
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  102.  @blackspiderman1887  he's handsome for his status. Without a yt channel and that job he'd be 5-5-5.
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  103.  @inconnu4961  xD Or just accept that only 40% of men get to reproduce, and move on with your life. I think there's no girl for me out there, any good women have already been picked up and the rest are emotionally exhausting (thus why they're single). Besides I'm not a provider either, I got kinda demotivated by life and a single mother to chase a career, and what woman in the world would care about my intelligence going through the roof? Hope is fine, but no need to be delusional.
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  104. @ There are enough books and channels, it would just drown in the sea. I could write one, wouldn't be the first I write. But I'm too lazy to make a channel to promote it over and over.
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  105. From my observation doesn't only apply to the beautiful ones. Not that they aren't told the truth, they can't be told the truth without an emotional fallout. Even in a young age from a family member, the truth can be met with a whole bunch of disrespect. If it weren't so, then the truth would get us laid. Why is this? I think it's biological. Since they require social bonds to thrive, they want to present themselves in a better light and... not be entirely honest.
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  106. ​ @sadiegodwin205  Claiming she had validity is an empty claim. Reality is that you get just as angry as her at opposing opinions. But instead of countering with an argument you get nasty.
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  107.  @NormanGreenwood-s2o  This channel and this video especially attracts a different ratio of male and female viewers than usual. And this is the result. Dumb assumptions being thrown everywhere and at everyone to discredit disliked opinions. And _ imps defending bad behavior.
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  108.  @NormanGreenwood-s2o  "what a hypocrite", who is actually the real one here? Hm??
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  109.  @riziqhanafi8108  so when parents instinctively protect their children, they're bad people? Look at how little effort you put into thinking your argument through.
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  110.  @ws6206  Completely agree, but agreeing with you makes the platform shadow_ _ _ the comment... 🙄
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  111.  @ws6206  not a bug either, one can check, it's still there. Just not visible. Just said speaking up could save the relationship situation we currently face.
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  112. THE FK MAN!! Yes, women aren't going anywhere, but their behavior is abnormally destructive (divorce r4pe), they need to LEARN AND CHANGE this bad behavior, and learn to not be so spiteful all the time. Otherwise the last time society wasn't going downhill was when they were oppressed. No dumb talk about half or wholly swalling some truth pill is gonna change that.
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  113. Hm, whatever. Vvomen get more and more dissatisfied with a relationship over time. She makes up her own reason.
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  114.  @Mr._Anderpson Aurelius probably just wasn't in his right mind when he said that quote.
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  115. Ok then let me make everyone here hate me. What I've observed is that the dumber the message of the channel is, the dumber is the positive feedback. Those that disagree with someone usually don't watch a lot of his content, only those that agree. I think this doc isn't wrong per se, but he's wording everything in such a convoluted manner that it generates the most amount of screen time and thus money. What he says in 12 minutes Pearl says in 20 seconds. And at the end of the 12 min he really hasn't said much. Now he declares himself the winner. xD Well ok, good business making, probably gets him more girls than the average incel.
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  116. You are maybe drowning in all these metaphors and analogies. I actually see the reality and have dissected it to how it works and the psychologic reasons, and everything's making sense. Seems to me like me using common sense is still magic for others.
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  117. Wonder if Orion thinks of himself as delusional, too...
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  118. That isn't just the explanation why men are opting out. It's also the explanation that women have lied for ages.
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  119.  @themonsterunderyourbed9408  It is real, it's just not what they want you to think it is. It's also the ability to have your own emotions under control.
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  120.  @themonsterunderyourbed9408  Saying they have higher emotional intelligence it's like saying they're stronger than men, or they are more mature, or or or. An attempt to shift perception.
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  121.  @Kick_Rocks  If women call men disrespectful, it might just be another shaming strategy. Like they say at every turn that men have no confidence. If men find other men disrespectful, it can end with a well-deserved punch in the face. Most men however would punch other men, but not a woman.
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  122. The female version of this, which was about respecting the husband, had detailed instructions and a thorough example (that women treat their boss with respect, too). This video had none of this. Am I right to assume that removing every last trace of judgement is infinitely harder than just be decently respectful?
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  123. A lot of them also defend and celebrate their worst behaviors. Freedom of speech shouldn't be misused for that.
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  124. For some reason women always stand up for one another and their destructive female behavior. However, lately I've heard something that the pill makes women go insane. I wonder if that 16y old just started taking it.
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  125. In interviews someone like Sadia has a clear advantage because she mastered the skill to answer quickly, implant and reframe her wants as facts and then shove the topic aside before it can get analyzed too thoroughly. I found that I always need a bit of time to figure things out to the bottom of them, I probably could never participate in an interview anymore or just be a silent listener. Also when I present the figured out version, then they get mad.
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  126.  @roses6564  by your logic noone should be in a relationship. Because people 'feeling it' for one another for a long time barely realistic or feasable. It's always one who dated up and he or she is gonna feel it, but not the other. In most cases it's she who's settling and yeah, we kinda talk here about her getting more and more discontent over time. Hypergamy, baby. I was with someone once that I didn't 'feel it' with. Still cared for her. But I knew it wasn't enough for her and eventually it would collapse, which it did. Yet I was honest and she knew from the very beginning, yet wanted it anyway, then complained later. This is such nonsense, better to stay out of it from the start. I've seen you before and we had not the most pleasant conversation.
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  127. at the age of 3.
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  128. They already said in the beginning they share a mindset. This won't change much. xD I wonder about a collab with someone who strongly opposes their views, like maybe Sandman (and I don't like Sandman very much, he puts all women in a box, he's very negative and then he's right about a lot of things...). Well, I have given up on women. I wonder if any of these 2 channels will change anything with me. I'm binge-watching Psychacks and already downvoting the most. "How to get any man", just dating advice masquerading as societal knowledge. Just another man trying to solve a problem that doesn't want to be solved.
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  129. ​ @liamcampbell9087  Ex-fking-actly. Instead he validates your simpy little pea brain. What annoys me with channels like these and their herds of simps is how they gloss over some of the harmful things happening in society, they indirectly promote closing your eyes against it and just get a partner, just because. And the herds of simps of course agree since they wanna defend pussy. Do you think these issues wil get solved this way? You really think that? 9:50 "red pill stuff is phrased to be largely alienating to anyone outside red pill". means, phrase it in a way so those easily offended victims don't get offended, best to not point out they've been doing something wrong at all.
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  130.  @jamesholster5323  Men want it solved, the problem doesn't. Because it stems from women and women don't solve problems, they run from them.
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  131.  @jamesholster5323  Men want it solved, the problem doesn't. Because it stems from the female gender and they don't solve problems, they run from it.
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  132.  @jamesholster5323  Men want it solved, the problem doesn't.
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  133.  @jamesholster5323  Men want the problem solved, that's something different. Problem itself doesn't want to be solved.
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  134.  @jamesholster5323  Men want the problem solved. The problem itself doesn't. Bit of a difference.
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  135.  @jamesholster5323  Btw, it seems to me that the yt ai is so extremely sensitive that you can't even write woman anymore without it being flagged as mys ogi ret pil stuff and getting deleted within 45s.
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  136. How likely is it going to be that men are more supported? "White men are evil"..? Erm yeah, I think I'm fine single.... Lots of time for hobbies, no pressure to perform, no emotional exhaustion. By the way, women occupy most of the social jobs, are the majority of teachers and kindergarden workers. Also women always blame men for just about everything. So how is support for men ever going to happen? Not in a thousand years.
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  137.  @daryna94  Is Alexander Grace's channel, despite being addressed at the red-pill/black-pill/MGTOW/incels, actually only watched by people happily married? Fk, all I'm hearing from him is "you have to improve, then work on yourself, then improve further, and then you will have a chance at the only thing that makes you happy, a wife". And advice for women is "all you need is to be yourself". And then, what's the reward? The risk that she becomes a nagging wife a few years later? There's a survey (out there somewhere) saying that even women who love their men hurt their men's feelings on a daily basis. I'm fine where I am. I want an anime-girl, and visit Alpha Centauri. And be Ranma1/2 for a day. Not all wishes must come true.
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  138.  @DoriterEater  Noone can avoid a mental disorder nowadays, can they?
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  139.  @omnipotentone5628  What's cutting contact supposed to accomplish, exactly? I don't really understand why people red-pill-rage at all, for me it sounds as if they're not understanding red pill. Red pill just explains bad and destructive female behavior. That's basically all there is, I mean most red-pillers don't even get why women exhibit this behavior. They (women) should be taught to behave better, like children are, too. No reason for you to go into a cave, you're not a beaten dog, are you?
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  140.  @dianetemple4437  dating isn't relationship, it's smash and dash.
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  141. I kinda doubt one of these channels will change anything. I'm MGTOW. I think the woman I would love to have simply DOES NOT EXIST. It's like telling men to look for the great pirate treasure.
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  142. Well, I know where their problem is. At around 30:00 they go off the rails and imply that everyone not succeeding or not wanting a relationship is emotionally damaged (childhood trauma) and expects their partner to heal them. This is simply not true and that's why their advice is very, very limited. I see why the red-pill community is disagreeing.
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  143.  @Candlelight787  Even if the diamond is there, most certainly there aren't enough diamonds for everyone.
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  144. Men, don't try to solve a problem that doesn't want to be solved.
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  145. OMG.😂 Can't win, eh? What was that about black-pill?
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  146.  @Lawskipper  Go east means hunting for someone that sees you as high value. Meaning the average guy in her country gets less options.
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  147. That's why high value guys don't settle. Not because they have attachment issues.
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  148. The outside not being able to see someone's potential isn't a good thing, it's for example the reason why Disney produces only unwatchable trash, they don't spot the talented people. People not supporting each other also leads to a toxic society. Not something I'd like to live in. Also, I read a study once that vvomen hurt their husbands feelings on a daily basis even in happy marriages. Even when it was explained to them, they didn't understand. So it's not just when rejecting, but in general. And I see that as a problem. Some traits that in ancient times helped us survived might not be very good in present times, nature just tries random things and sees what sticks. That's probably why we have such high divorce rates while birth rates are plummeting.
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  149. What's this rambling? The analogies are too inaccurate. Harsh reality is that no matter how you pet the cat, it gives you the claws and says "you better pet me better, or I get myself a better petter".
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  150. ​ @petersonxtateG  Tarabans advice is incomplete and wrong because of the incompleteness. PhD doesn't make him all knowing. It's sad that he spends more time promoting his book instead of figuring out the key elements that he's missing, and it's also sad that you take his advice as it is without critically searching for the missing element.
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  151. ​ @LaSpiaggia3Sole  It's that not only will she demand a higher price of a lower value man, she will also be very unwilling to do effort for him. You can't demand it from her or she will freak out, she's gonna see it as unjustified and can even break up over it. So following Tarabans advice and demanding effort might just lead to instant break ups. That's why men have learned no to do it
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  152.  @LaSpiaggia3Sole  Its this. Not only will she demand a higher price of a lower value man, she will also be very unwilling to do effort for him. You can't demand it from her or she will freak out and leave, she will just not think it's justified to do it for you. This goes hand in hand and is all part of hypergamy. While the higher value ones on top of the discount get also her effort no matter if they show reciprocation or not. It's like the effort is reserved for them and for cute and helpless, which includes dogs, cats and children.
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  153.  @LaSpiaggia3Sole  I'm trying to give you an answer, but this site takes down a response.
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  154.  @LaSpiaggia3Sole  I would like to give you an answer, but platform doesn't let me.
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  155.  @LaSpiaggia3Sole  Maybe you can load comments below, then search for my nickname, you might stumble on where I explained it.
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  156.  @LaSpiaggia3Sole  Hey, it worked!
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  157. Rather the entire top 10% of men just don't want to deal with this, so they stay away from relationships.
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  158. Whole top 10% of men don't want to deal with it, so they refuse relationships.
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  159. they perfected their magical thinking for a long time, it can sometimes appear reasonable.
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  160.  @rayrwyr  Somehow every advice about relationships with women sounds like bullsh_t to me. I wonder if the commenters market value simply was way higher than his girlfriends. I'd be interested in seeing other men try this approach. Not me however, I just don't want to deal with women anymore.
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  161. The fk did I just watch??? 😅Wasn't that just the most useless advice ever? "You just have to serve the ball... " to notice that nobody wants to play with you, and you're the last one to pick on the team. And that they're standing in line to play with that other dude. Do it more often to get used to that crappy feeling. 🤦‍♂ Men should follow their hobbies instead of this sh_t.
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  162. I bet one big issue among women is that they care and give all they have only to top 10% men, who have so many options that they don't care about desperate women throwing everything at them. Men don't want to deal with emotionally exhausting relationships, that's why they fk around instead and never commit. And when women have to care about and give peace to a relationship, they usually never think of it.
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