Comments by "" (@nightmareTomek) on "GriffinMind" channel.

  1. They gonna be offended that he's not easily recognizable just as they're offended when he doesn't pay for everything.
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  2. Mind game... and if the roles were reversed, I wonder if they would call it emotional abuse.
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  3. My 9 year old daughter already thinks layers of paint on her face looks good, also she has trouble cooperating and not getting her way.
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  4. Finally nice men have realized it.
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  5. Like we're servants.
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  6. Good luck finding an undamaged one if all they do are shaming attacks. Starts at a young age from mothers, especially the single ones.
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  7. Sometimes I wonder what happened in humanities past for women to evolve like this.
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  8. Half a year ago I heard from an asian that 4b in Korea was involuntary. I don't know how accurate that is, just heard one opinion.
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  9. "A real man would buy me a car and a house before I dump him."
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  10. That's kinda why I disagree with choose one that chooses you first. I'm not a top 20% guy, so if she does, there's already something going wrong and it's like going into a relationship with being tasked to repair it. Which means running after the partner. I have better things to do in my life.
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  11. @ Nor should you. At least when debt is all their bringing ... to the table. Maybe a bear will pay it.
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  12.  @opossom1968  I'm happy your story has a happy end, you have some spine. However I hate that attitude of working and never speaking up because people like this tend to propmote to suck it up, don't help each other out and ignore others problems. I know people like this. Of course the other extreme of whining the whole day isn't advicable. I also know people like that. But the other gender is crying about everything and making every tiny problem into a big one, and I think that's partly why they ended up with so many priviliges. They evolved over hundreds of thousands of years to be this way, because it's beneficial for them and their survival. They keep crying even today and as a result we make these 50-50 laws to give them highly valued job positions that others worked for way harder. Don't take this as an offense.
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  13. 4b = 304s not being 304s?
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  14. Their nature is to deal emotional ellbow blows left and right, and they don't have the smallest care in the world when there's no short-term repercussion. Just like babies would never stop falling head first if it wouldn't hurt so much.
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  15. @ And it doesn't matter because they primarily expect the degree to raise their sek suaI market value.
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  16. @ They're getting this degree just to raise their sek suaI market value, and like on a date they're not paying themselves.
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  17. I don't like Sadia. Seems to me she's always partly wrong, just covers it up perfectly.
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  18.  @J.J.Jameson_of_Daily_Bugle  And I can tell you why you're wrong. A pretty woman feeling loneliness doesn't mean she is. They've evolved over thousands of years to push their feelings into the foreground, it's what made them survive. Finding a partner also isn't a normal everyday skill. Some date forever and never improve, they simply never look past mememe. Some improve by simply observing. Lust should last longer than 3 months, a healthy relationship has intercourse 2x a week. Just forming relationships out of lust is what teenies do. And also you don't learn whether the person is marriage material after just 3 months or after the lust dies down. That's wrong. You learn it after 2 years when the topics you can talk about are exhausted and mundane everyday life sets in. Everything you said is so imprecise, it is equal to being wrong. That's the problem with the blue pill, the outlook on life isn't exact, everything is blurry and where they have holes in their understanding they fill it with hopes and dreams rather than reality.
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  19. They want a man in their life, and if they have one they want a better one. Want want want.
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  20.  @eddiejohnson4434  For sure! They see it like a responsibility. While the biggest leverage they have actually is walking away.
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  21.  @DonSloth  They blow these "bad things" out of proportion with the media as well.
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  22.  @opossom1968  Well, difficult to say I've met people like this when an entire gender gives off this vibe to me. It's more of a gradient of how strongly pronounced that mindset is. They still go to work, but as soon as they don't get something for free or someone else has enough money to buy something they want, they find it unfair, or they collect every opportunity of welfare that they can get, or they say that they deserve something even if it's againt the rules, or they simply leech off of a guy with the promise to go to work one day, like my mother. And when they can do nothing of these things, they are simply extremely stressed out. Honestly, this would be acceptable if they'd be more thankful and modest about it, after all nature made men to be providers and women to be provided for. But then they rarely apologize for taking something extra, more commonly they frame it like they deserve to take someone else's stuff. They never say, I'm not harming anyone, but say instead, I deserve to do it even though it's against the rules. Exactly like you say, they're always owed something. And the way people speak affects how they think. Also they ramp it up to the extreme, no matter how much they get they are still dissatisfied and want more. It's a rampart princess complex, or a narcissism epidemic, there have been books about this like 20 years ago. I also think it's an anti-social behavior that hurts society and it's the reason why it's the topic of so much discussion.
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  23.  @VTrutht  I'm thinking the same. I don't think these are strength test, that's just an excuse to behave badly. Because I don't see high value men receiving these tests.
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  24.  @VTrutht  Agree. They're subconsciously driven to selfishly gather resources, that part is even understandable in my opinion. But then they get angry and hurtful when they don't get what they want, even when they end up with a partner that isn't her first choice. And they're not honest about it. As for Sadia, I was asking myself whether she went into psychology just so her opinions gain more weight.
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  25.  @VTrutht  Thanks. Also agree with the tube, it's becoming a problem. You're not alone with this. I have to do some language acrobatics already.
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  26.  @VTrutht  I feel you, for me it's the same. Like every 2nd comment. And the ai doesn't tell you what it's problem is. If this keeps going, yt is gonna lose popularity. It's one things to stop toxicity, but another to make discussions impossible.
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  27.  @VTrutht  That's what I was just thinking. They have plausible deniability or can blame it as a technical problem. Who knows if whether they're even aware what the ai is doing.
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  28.  @VTrutht  Good mindset. I on the other hand enjoy a good discussion, it sharpens the mind. Even if one ends up finding some people not so fantastic. But the tube is really putting a damper on it and it's irritating. I think freedom of expression (in a civil way) is very important.
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  29.  @VTrutht  My rebellion is to post the things until they get posted. Stubborness to infinity and beyond.
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  30.  @VTrutht  You're quite sweet.
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  31. I'm not a top 20% guy, so if she's supposed to pick me before I do, and she does, there's already something going incorrectly, which will be soon reflected in the relationship. In the past I've successfully predicted how long people stay in love and when they break up, years in advance and with an insane precision like it's some kind of superhero power. Don't worry if you don't believe it, I wouldn't either, but it's true. Anyway, with something working incorrectly it's like going into the relationship while already being tasked with repairing it. That means running after the partner. No, thanks. Maybe in a million years. Or not.
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  32. 16:00 it became the norm to leave immediately because nothing happened with the ability to talk about it and solve problems, it's not old fashioned, it was never there. People are romantisizing the past.
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  33. Ye, suddenly when she sees all that money being handed to her, she gets all feminine. Mhm. That relationship is not gonna last.
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  34. I somehow doubt these s_it tests are there to evaluate men whether they're strong enough to protect her. Why aren't they doing these tests with high value men? I don't buy it. It's an excuse to behave badly.
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  35. Why do people add this over the top love at the end of every comment? Sure, God bless her and I hope she has a happy life, but beautiful inside out? You don't know her, she might not be that.
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  36. 1:20 "someone to tell me I'm good enough", well you wouldn't tell him that either, would you?
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  37. more educated = teacher pleaser for longer
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  38. And it doesn't matter because that degree is expected to raise their sexual market value.
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  39. Hope for what? The movement already failed. Besides, it's just one element in a chain of insane ideas.
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  40. We aren't scared to approach, we just know the result already.
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  41. 25:20 look how she's only talking about how much effort he has to do, not even a word about her effort. They want us to adapt this thinking, so we work and don't even expect anything in return..
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  42. I somehow doubt these s_it tests are there to evaluate men whether they're strong enough to protect her. Why aren't they doing these tests with high value men? I don't buy it. It's an excuse to behave badly.
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  43.  @davestuddert4392  enshittification going rampant here. Since nearly a decade.
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  44.  @VTrutht  You're so optimistic. 😉 I suspect we can't do much with an argument alone. Once in a while I write them some mean feedback, but I think it falls on deaf ears.
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  45. ​@ It's women who always grow discontent in a relationship, no matter what relationship. And it's women who after divorce do everything to hinder their children seeing their father. Maybe you're projecting and what we actually need is quality women.
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  46.  @masterbrad89  It's women who always grow discontent in a relationship, no matter what relationship.
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  47.  @masterbrad89  It's women who
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  48.  @masterbrad89  always grow discontent in a relationship, no matter what relationship. And it's them who after divorce do everything to hinder their children seeing their other parent.
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  49. All I hear is accusations, demands and dissatisfaction.
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  50. 10:17 did Kevin Samuels just say to get engaged within half a year? Wow that is so wrong. You need probably 3 years till you know whether your spouse is trustworthy to value the relationship. And I'm someone that can predict relationship durations years in advance to a precision of a month. It's insane to me how people rush into marriage.
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