Comments by "" (@nightmareTomek) on "Aba N Preach"
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@Yusheesan I have a very good idea why they divorce, because when relationships start I can predict their durations very accurately, and let's be real here, you can't do that, not in a million years.
You just look like one of these women that blames men for everything, and that throws temper tantrums when we point out one of your bad behaviors, or a general bad female behavior. Blaming men is your strategy to divert from your funny reasons to end it, and generally when women don't want to look bad. Men can see through this, though. They only don't confront you with it like I do because they don't want to deal with your childish emotional explosions that women misuse to their advantage at every occasion (or maybe they are simping to get pussy), which unfortunately makes it worse by reinforcing your bad behavior.
But I am, like an increasing number of men and a few women as well, witnessing these absurd reasons, usually pretty lame excuses that most women come up with. Again and again and again. Regularly. Deny it all you want, be the delusional one, denying and crying is prime female strategy to bury facts they don't like. They're surfacing though. We know what we're dealing with.
The majority of women aren't even honest about why they leave because it's in your nature to avoid confrontation. That's why you can only blame in the first place. How many stupid gals came along and claimed that their last boyfriend was an abuser? It's dishonest, dirty and selfish.
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@theresefrancis9283 A woman will ALWAYS see her reasons as justified. Always.
Doesn't mean they are. There's a reason the red pill community is growing so fast, men everywhere are realizing how much you're bullsh_tting us. How you're lying to make yourself look better, at our cost. And how dumb your excuses can get.
"Women will usually stick it out until they are burnt out"
"without mentioning that cheating, p*rn addiction, and blowing money are the top reasons for the wife to leave"
Translation: "It's men's fault, it's men's fault, it's men's faaaaaault!!!"
It's so consistent actually that I have my own theory why you're lying so much, it simply helped women survive for tens of thousands of years and be accepted by communities, something they desperately needed. They are trying to elevate themselves, to make themselves look better (even clothing and make-up is for this purpose), and (yes, from my observation again) women can get very, VERY angry if you hinder this effort, they can even get furious at constructive criticism just for making them look worse. Proving women wrong is hard even today, but back then it was a million times harder. And we also need to deal with the emotional explosion after saying something against women ("you're a misogynist"), so that's another reason women don't get scolded when they should.
For most men it wouldn't even be a problem if you talk yourself up, but what the problem is that you are hurting us while doing it, without even realizing it.
There was even a survey about this, which interviewed men and found out that even in happy relationships their wifes hurt the husbands feelings on a daily basis and won't even understand it when it's explained to her.
Thus, "women will stick it out" is just pure bullsh_t. They will only try to stick it out when they get a high value man, when she's a 6/10 and he's a 9/10 and it's evident to any man that he doesn't want a relationship at all. That's when women try to stick it out, as many, many men have noticed by now, and what I've observed even before the existence of the internet. If she's a 6/10 and he however is a 7/10, she will get all the attention for her pussy and that's where I see most women drop their relationships on a whim, while men try to stick it out like the simps they are. Always leaves them heartbroken and it just amazes me how they could be so blind, since I predicted her behavior, and I predicted exactly the moment she stops being true to her word.
Obviously you won't believe me as I'm not believing you, but I actually can predict the duration of a lot of relationships years in advance. I never said they change overnight, what's actually happening is that the chemistry between the partners gradually changes, in the woman way faster than the man.
As long as someone understands that women lie for their survival, the whole thing unravels itself and becomes comprehensible. And women cease to be a mystery. There really isn't much to it, women are simply liars.
What else?
Oh yeah.
"cheating, p*rn addiction, and blowing money"
You talk about extreme cases as if they were the norm. Those aren't actually the norm, just your fears, on which you are acting. Arguing with women is nearly always like this, and it can get very tiresome.
Women actually decide on 80% consumer buying decisions. So she's the one blowing money, usually his money. Despite that women divorce when they make more money than their husband. If he makes 100k a year he's most likely to end up divorced. If he makes 400k a year, he's most likely to end up divorced and then remarry. If he makes 600k a year he's most likely to stay married. And the average dude makes 75k a year.
AND from what I observe, women have the opportunities to cheat, not men. The men with options instead tell women he doesn't want a relationship, literally so he can fk around. But usually the women don't believe him, they think they can "change" him, but are left heartbroken when it doesn't work out as in her delusion.
And on a funny sidenote, I found a channel lately reading break-up stories from reddit or somewhere, mens' stories and womens' stories at around 1:1 ratio, however in all stories it's always her who cheated, I haven't heard even one with the man cheating. Well, the channel could be biased obviously, but isn't it interesting anyway that I haven't even heard one?
Got any more stupid accusations against men? I doubt you even got to the end...
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@Yusheesan That's just my observation. And before you think it's sudden, like the other gal, I didn't say it's sudden, it's a gradual change of chemistry. The reason of break up just comes out suddenly, doesn't mean she hasn't mentally and quietly prepared for it for some longer time.
Thing is that more and more men gather the same or very similar observations as me. But we can't really make studies that make women look bad, or otherwise there's gonna be a huge outcry of you poor, poor victims.
As I said, I believe there's a biological reason why women lie, it's to be accepted by others, and communities, and it helped them survive for thousands of years.
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@kirielbranson4843 Okay, well, true. But still sounds extraordinarily difficult, I mean you need support financially and to carry out the study and to get it pubilshed. For that the study needs a certain appeal and I don't think something that can paint women in a negative light will get much of that. Even if it's not meant to hurt but to improve society, criticism will always make people feel bad. There will be outcries and lots of heads shaking. And sadly I'm not in this field, I'd love to be, but I'm not. Wouldn't even know where to start. I've been interested in psychology since I was 15, thinking, observing, puzzling it together, and I still am, but just for myself. And I don't have any university certificates.
I guess a few things could be found out with surveys and publish them over youtube in a format like the It's Complicated channel. Could work. Could really work and blow up similarly like a few other channels did. Hm.
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@bruhattherate You're a stupid hater. She's not solely for the money, clearly you haven't watched her videos at all and you don't have the slightest clue what message she's conveying, yet you try to ruin her image, and people thumb up your stupid message and applaud it. That makes actually you the hypocrite.
She also didn't admit she's a hypocrite, that's something you didn't read correctly and made up. I could exactly say the same about you, like you accuse her of solely wanting money, you wrote that sh_t to get approval of other people here, this is the same thing. You are the hypocrite right there.
Actually she admitted she has a male look (not a hypocrite), and about the female behavior she criticizes she often admits of doing the same bad things. That's not a sign of a hypocrite, but of someone who's trying to improve his character.
This whole channel looks to me like a hate-channel. Frankly I've seen only one video, but this video misrepresents the truth and uses it as a pretext to sh_t on someone.
That's what you're approving of.
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