Comments by "" (@nightmareTomek) on "Lisa Bilyeu" channel.

I don't think everything that's being said here is correct, or simply put, behaviors are called narcissistic despite them actually being different pathological issues instead, or even just simple manipulation that you fell for and are angry about. I've seen narcissists be jealous of others or state that others don't deserve things, but most narcissists haven't acted on that. Also a narcissist has no reason to destroy your happiness in a new relationship (unless maybe if you make it super easy), because in their mind you're dating an idiot anyway, someone who's inferior to the narcissist. I would also say narcissists are a bit sociopathic, they don't value happiness the same way normal people do, as well as they care way more about themselves compared to their exes to bother about their relationship (unless of course they get something out of you, like get you to cheat, but that's your fault then).
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Men cheat, yeah, but women monkey-branch. Nobody's addressing that here. People are being ignorant to half the problem. And they want the world to heal? While being so ignorant? It's laughable. Monkey-branching is not cheating per se, but is a blow against trust and loyality. These women either leave a good relationship with a stupid excuse and the delusion a new relationship's gonna form with some high value man that they barely know. Then they get fked, and in some cases they come back crying afterwards. In fact I've seen more of that than I've seen guys cheat. Or the alternative is that women stay in the relationship despite not loving their boyfriend anymore, waiting for a new man that won't come while being totally disrespectful to their current, in many cases emotionally abusive, too. She's always gonna portray him as the bad guy.
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@CuratedVibes That's because you deem a man "confident" or "emotionally intelligent" if you're attracted to him, no matter whether he really is or not. It's called being superficial. Women are bad at judging characters, you should watch a few different channels, not only those which avoid talking about women's bad behavior. In other places even some smart women are pointing out these problems. Also 80% of women are attracted to 20% of men, that has been shown by dating studies. Ofc good men are rare if a decent man is not good enough for you.
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@barbaramorrow6725 That's because women are becoming more and more narcissistic. Also "time waster , control freak, player" are from the top 20% of men, the ones who are chased by so many women that they don't need a relationship anymore. To recognize that those are going to waste your time is a huge accomplishment and a display of the awesome character judging of women. Or their overestimation of their abilities.
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The women here are incapable of taking into account that some of the problems might stem from them. In fact it seems to me that all the women in the world are incapable of that. Blaming men 24/7 is not how the world's gonna heal.
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Judging by the comments every man cheats, and every woman has been abused in her last relationship. And you want the world to heal? It's not gonna heal when you're blaming men 24/7. And if women are incapable of taking into account that they might be the cause of a few of these problems they complain about. Because dating studies have shown that 80% of women chase 20% of men. These men then don't want a relationship, because they are getting swarmed by beautiful women that will gladly have sex with them, and women refuse to understand this. Ofc a woman, when she gets into a relationship with a high value man, she has the delusion that they have much in common. She's gonna call high value men confident and smart, only because she's attracted to them, no matter if they actually are. Tell me which things (hobbies) you have in common. But don't just tell me it's "humor". Otherwise this is just more female bs.
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I think you all have no comprehension whatsoever about the dynamics in psychology. You just go "men cheat, men bad", and that's where your thinking stops. Nobody ever asks why they cheat. But there's a lot of men who cheat because of the wounds WOMEN inflicted. Also there are as many cheating women as there are men. Again something that the dumb society is overlooking, and another reason the "world" can't heal the way you want to, because we're too ignorant for that. Morons.
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@littlelam3691 I didn't miss your point, don't worry. Every moron everywhere is saying your point over and over. Instead you missed mine. And I bet if I explain it again, you will miss it again. You can't swap genders, because women usually do something else that's pretty hurtful, but nobody talks about it. Like women's faults become socially acceptable, while women blow men's faults out of proportion to get their way - often even because they don't understand men, but instead project their own feelings onto us. You don't get it, do you?
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I don't think anymore that women are adults. Men cheat, but women monkey-branch. Always chase for the top 20% men and are disrespectful and abusive to the decent choices they got.
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52:55 another bs opinion that gets us nowhere. He's saying a few good things, but inbetween he's inconspicuously putting the blame on men, as if women were infallible. However in reality women are responsible for a lot of damage as well, they are hurting others emotionally and not only aren't these women realizing it, they often also outrage when you critique them. Many men who "need to heal" get their wounds from this in the first place, but so do women. NOBODY EVER ADDRESSES THIS. The world cannot just heal if we're being ignorant about half of the problem. Sweet words won't change anything. A survey has shown that wifes in "happy marriages" hurt their loved husbands feelings on a daily basis without noticing. Those women don't understand the problem when you explain it to them either, unless men use the exact words "you hurt my feelings" (which aren't words they often use). And these are only the happy families, how about all the unhappy or broken ones, where women can get extremely spiteful? You need more examples? I have probably like a thousand. If we keep up the notion that women are all special and all angels and men are to blame for everything, the world's not gonna heal, ever.
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While women go for the top 20% who don't even want a relationship because they can get sex with any woman...
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