Comments by "" (@nightmareTomek) on "HealthyGamerGG" channel.

  1. This "I'm behind in life" really bothers me. Nobody is behind in life, life is not a race. Marriage is not a steam achievement. It's totally fine to pause and breathe a bit instead of sprinting down the laid-out career path as fast as possible. However, it's not just your brain that sabotages you, it's society as well. People will call it a race when they think they're ahead, in order to feel good about themselves. Don't listen to them, they're just saying that to improve their own state of mind (at the cost of yours).
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  2. Someone not wanting to talk about these things is exactly what I expect, thus I find the advice to talk about it weird.
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  3.  @W_Sir_Morpheus  bro, her issue is hypergamy. No amount of problem solving is gonna help.
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  4.  @termitreter6545  But you also can't criticize women at all without being called a misogynist nowadays, can you? Another question is how many are doing reputation destruction. Not all of them isn't saying anything specific, thus it's protecting them. But I wanna be specific, is it the minority or the majority? What about general emotional retaliation? When they're upset, which also happens often in relationship when he did something minor wrong? Some women have even called this emotional abuse.
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  5. ​ @cube22111  She annoys me as hell, I'm not gonna watch that full interview. I think she has a very skewed viewpoint. She sees all men as rapists, and then disregards the whole data of unhappy women who hit the walll, still haven't found a relationship and no longer can. We have the data! And the studies. Women dating options peak at 20 and tank at 40, men dating options is the exact opposite, they peak at 40. It would be fine if she said she doesn't want this and that personally, but when she blames society for trying to teach her these facts, because these impair her freedom... When she's 40, she's gonna blame society again and say, men are all perverts because they want a young, fertile woman. Not only that, when women get pregnant before 30, they have way less risks of everything, and I would guess (though I'm not a woman) that they're not keen on having a c-section. I bet that she's going into clubs to drink, sexy dressed, maybe with makeup, and then is surprised that the drunks are approaching her, and from there she deducts that all men are like that. It's not like she gets approached on the street at daylight.
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  6.  @cube22111  I hate what she said about friendzoning, too. She's a hypocrite. So men don't know how to see female queues because we lack the social skills (btw, who's fault is that? Don't mothers explain it to their boys?). Then she goes on saying that some dude friend wanted a relationship with her that she didn't realize either. It's his fault for not realizing female queues, and then it's not her fault for not realizing but again his fault for being emotional about it. I don't have empathy for that girl.
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  7. This is hilarious. 🤣🤣🤣 In a situationship there's always one who won't fall in love. When the other does and accepts the situationship, it's only because he thinks he gains more time to convince the other to fall in love as well, knowing a relationship is out of the question.
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  8. Strange that the top 10% don't need to connect emotionally, his status will make the emotional connection with her all by itself without him doing anything. No wonder Dr K dislikes the red pill. Nah, I'm out of this, tired of the bull.
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  9. I read a dating advice book over 20 years ago by a woman that said women often love the relationship instead of the partner they have the relationship with.
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  10.  @suruxstrawde8322  okay, all women are starstruck. We have a different name for this, it's called hypergamy. And dont gimme that "some men" crap.
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  11. ​ @termitreter6545  And I think this is a method to dismiss others experience and protect that poor gender from criticism. That's why these guys instead find themselves a group that thinks similarly, that group for some reason grew substantially in the last years, and now both sides can accuse the other side of being delusional. Just perfect. I am one of these who has little contact with women, however it was my choice. I've avoided relationships already for 2 decades, told NEARLY every girl that fell in love with me no, way before it was popular or I knew anything about red pill. My experiences with them are all the same, and you claiming they react differently is to me nothing more than ignoring reality in order to protect them. On top of that, I've read studies saying certain things that I rephrase as criticism, certain things that other women even called emotional abuse. And you will dismiss ALL OF THIS. I already know. There's no point in furthering this conversation, so please don't. It's just absurd.
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  12. "I can't speak to people, so that means pretty women don't have it easy." Typical female bullsh_t. There I was feeling sorry for her, then she dropped that line and it stopped. She has the chance to form connections, that's something many men don't have. That's what they mean by "women have it easier", she has the option to take the chance - just because she doesn't, she thinks she has it worse. Gynocentrism is present even in those that aren't participating in society. Also many boys get emotionally abused by single mothers, but noone cares. While every 2nd girl calls her ex an abuser, so when a woman says she's been abused, I really don't know what to think of it.
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  13. A psychiatrist believing in soulmates?? xD Whaaaaat???? This channel is completely simpified since it delved into gender dynamics.
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  14.  @termitreter6545  You're using their individuality as a form of protection against criticism. That's why I said there's no point in continuing this conversation. I am not dismissing their individuality. I'm also not treating anyone badly by criticizing them, these attacking assumptions are so stupid and tiresome, another reason this conversation is so pointless, because I knew already that you can't come with anything else. I'm criticizing unbound behavior that stems from biology. While you are misusing language to shift accountability. And not everything is a trauma. You have a trauma to go outside when it storms? You have a trauma against getting wet? I'm just fed up and that's why I avoid them, and there are studies exactly explaining why I am doing this. I'm not treating them badly, but it doesn't take long until the reciprocation stops. This isn't my problem, it's a societal problem. Look around, how many are saying that society goes to s_it? Wanna be stoopit about it and call 3.5 billion people traumatized? This conversation is conducted in a way of beating around the bush and avoid saying specific things that would make someone look bad that you instinctively wanna protect. It's just absurd how deep the problem goes. So just give it up.
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  15.  @termitreter6545  You're essentially using the same strategy to dismiss red pill as was used in the past to dismiss female bullying. The things he said in the very first minute, communication based attacks, it was said back then that these people are not getting bullied at all, they're just overreacting and aren't being physically harmed, or they're having bad social skills to deal with the situation and it's them who should improve. Same desinterest in others problems and claiming it's their own fault.
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  16. Today's horoscope wisdom?
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  17. That's probably just an illusion.
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  18. ​ @suruxstrawde8322  Or it's your mind thats clouded by too much fairytale thin.... eeerm I mean optimism. Yeah, in 90% of cases she had an emotional connection with him and he didn't have any with her. Yeah, that's why it lacks depth, but the thing I'm wondering about is whether she made that connection on her part anyway.
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  19.  @Mikinaak2023  Good for her, but probably she won't, and I don't really care.
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  20. Men shouldn't try emotional bonding before she wants to anyway.
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  21. 6:00 is that a joke??? xD If I were 6 feet with a 6inch friend, I'd be my own damn fault if life were hard. Women can't accept that, they can't take responsibility for their actions. They fail judging characters. They refuse to listen to men. And when things don't work out, who do they blame? Men. Oh and the reason we are gatekeeping suffering? Because people are competing for who's the bigger victim. If I say "I have it hard, too", I'm borderline getting called a misogynist for not agreeing that it's the hardest for beautiful women. It's their own damn fault they're destroying our sympathy. Show me one high value man like this who's depressed. Besides, despite the bullsh_t women say sometimes, that they want a good and caring man, ALL studies and statistics in the world show that women chase successful men, men with money and status. And men know this full well, as a man you know eyou're not getting loved for who you are ANYWAY, but for your money that you're SUPPOSED to give to women. That's probably another reason why these high value men never commit. They want a wife and a relationship and someone to love. But they rarely feel like being loved for who they are instead for what they have. Then it makes more sense to just have pleasure. Tired to listen to this dumb society.
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  22. It's fine to be alone. But by 30 men don't have many dating options yet. They have the most at 40. Women have the most at 21 and basically zero at 40. So it is a little early to despair. Edit: oh, and negativity is unattractive.
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  23. This rumor spreading is really rampant, online as well, like nonstop. Can't believe that people still believe those.
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  24. I think you very much misunderstood that woman. She normally wouldn't have rejected the top 10%, and she will revert to that behavior. She also is under the delusion that these 10% will notice her rejection. They won't. They have hundreds of other women. She's trying to hurt them emotionally because she's been hurt, but deep down she even knows it won't work.
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  25.  @suruxstrawde8322  These words emotional connection the other gender has invented and you're using them to rationalize things.
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  26. "I don't know him" -> "He's scared of not getting what he wants." 1 Minute in and that girl already said a contradiction. Mhm mhm, seems like women are in panic mode when someone strong tries talking to them, but isn't in the top 20% of men. Also he doesn't know her and she doesn't know him, yet she doesn't want to give him a chance. Interesting.
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  27.  @suruxstrawde8322  are you saying that hypergamy is an obsession?
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  28. Sounds fine to me. Just don't be dumb and fall in love.
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  29. Being gifted is awesome. It's the responsibility that's put on the gifted that's so damaging. The parents set their kids up for failure with overly ambitious goals. All the while the schools aren't made for gifted children and don't give them the required challenges so they learn how to work for their grades. Treating the children unfairly... I don't know if that's the solution... possibly better than doing nothing.
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  30. ​ @suruxstrawde8322  You're doing your best to protect them. Don't you. It's not like I care because I can observe them being this way, and I observed it already before the topic blew up so much in the... media.
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  31. @ it could, though, if people were smarter.
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  32. Would advice you to get some male friends instead. Everybody has autism nowadays though. lol.
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  33.  @NoName12344o  Seems to me they're dating girls on average nearly 15 years younger, and they do seem happier to me. Haven't heard of any data on that question yet, though.
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  34.  @vorpal22  I have a gifted friend, who has a very good work ethic... I'm wondering how exactly was his childhood... He started a business and bought car and house recently, while his wife's pregnant.
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  35.  @bro918  And a good pill probably.
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  36.  @Mooseyw  I wonder if this explains why they're offended so often, about jokes, about generalizations... Not just the bullies.
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  37.  @DomenTheChief  The fk is emotional masochism? You telling yourself that you're worthless, or is someone telling you? Masochism should mean that you derive pleasure from being hurt.
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  38.  @suruxstrawde8322  You're doing your best to protect them. I don't care that much because I can observe them being this way, and I observed it already before the topic blew up so much in the, well, media.
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  39.  @rahulranjan9013  Exactly. Those people also like telling you what's supposed to make you happy.
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  40. If you lie for your addiction, this means society is shaming you for it and you accept the shame.
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  41. So soulmate means friend or pet now?
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  42. @ ok. Well, I don't really care.
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  43. @ Why not? You get pissed if you see someone shaking his head over your opinion about soulmates? Or something?
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  44. I think Dr. K has lost his mind and is causing a simpidemic.
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  45. I also can say whatever I want and you can feel free to ignore it.
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  46. In this video he's telling a lot of wrong things though, and his reasoning is backwards.
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  47.  @Hightiertrashcan  My 2nd comment explained it. Dunno what else needs explaining??
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  48.  @Hightiertrashcan  Ye. It's youtube censoring free speech because someone might feel offended. And since there's always someone that feels offended no matter what you say....
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  49.  @Hightiertrashcan  Let's see what sticks.. - That 10:1 men to women ratio on dating apps doesn't really matter when women rate (from pictures) 80% men below average looking.
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  50.  @Hightiertrashcan  - There are also dating apps with a 1:1 ratio with the same things happening. Oh and there are methods to calculate different ratios out of the data to get a clean result. People just conceniently forget this is being done for the sake of their argument.
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