Comments by "Chip \x26 Steve" (@chipsteve) on "The coin of the realm: give people what they want" video.

The dating apps are full of women saying they only want a serious relationship and want to "take it slow". They are so oblivious to what men want. It's not even if they don't care. They are too solipsistic & "me me me!" to even realize that in order for them to get what they want in a relationship, they should consider the other person's perspective. A woman saying that she's only looking for a serious relationship after taking it slow is exactly equivalent to a man saying I just want bedroom fun immediately and I don't really care about you as a person.
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@slaytanic921 Sure, but that's not the point. It's that our culture has become so ridiculous that such a dichotomy exists, even on the most superficial of mediums.
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 @Paul-yk7ds but that's as sustainably "Happy" as they ever will be. Just chasing you forever. You both get each other's best that way.
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@kenyanicholas6809 Exactly. One side's prerogative is seen by society as morally right, & is openly - even arrogantly demanded (right on the top line of dating app profiles). The other side's prerogative is seen as dirty, wrong, "what a pig/player/fboy" etc - & is not arrogantly demanded, or almost ever openly stated. And the entitlement by the former is precisely the issue writ large, as evidenced by millions of dating app profiles. When as you state, there should be no obligation from any "new" person in one's life (relative stranger). But society accepts it from one side & not the other.
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