Comments by "Chip \x26 Steve" (@chipsteve) on "Sexless marriage: a breach of contract" video.
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If we broaden out your point how about how a woman approaching a man is "demeaning" - this is some kind of backwards cultural regression I've noticed in the last 15 years. Obviously it must have something to do with social media and swipe apps, but I'm not really sure how to unpack the psychology of that. Women en masse were approaching and were pursuing, and now they've just stopped. Just look at the timeline of Bumble for evidence of that.
On women needing emotional and mental intimacy, okay. You, and the other women who make long comments here, are the vast exception... In that you are thoughtful and cerebral about deeper topics. I can't tell you how many men I see these days "faking" this attempt at emotional intimacy by flat-out faking enthusiasm for these dumbass conversations: Astrology, social media memes, psychic nonsense, reality TV, stupid unfunny "humor" etc etc (Edit: to say that with older women, it's about their uninteresting career or their pets or some cliche vacation they took etc)...& dudes are like "oh really? tell me more!" it's incredibly cringe, yet i see it all the time. People's brains have rotted, and especially women's brains. So you have a situation where any "emotional intimacy" is performative and false from the get-go. Then that gets complicated with physical intimacy, add all the dopamine oxytocin et al involved with that. It's a foundation of sand for sure.
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