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  45.  @salparadise1220  Depression is certainly real, but keep in mind it's based on a somewhat subjective view of one's life and agency. Things aren't always as bad as we think. I would also say that “believing” in a better tomorrow is different than holding “hope” for one. Let me know if that's too fine of a distinction, but it's almost like there's an inherent desperation in the concept of hope. Plus, hope takes us out of the present moment, which is where the action is. My overall hypothesis is that hope isn't just a cope, but that it often functions as a drug. As long as I have hope, what else do I really need? Hence, it can be a tragic trap of sorts, as things further decline--but at such a gradual rate that we don't notice. I think it's just better to step up and take responsibility for whatever the situation is, and take action toward resolving it. We are subjects--but not victims--of life. Meaning that life always offers us a way, as well as something in our current scenario worth appreciating. Hope feels too passive for me. Whereas belief feels more interactive, even though I can't fully control what I believe. Think of it this way. Donald Trump can keep promise us a better tomorrow and string people along with hope, all the while things are deteriorating beneath the surface (or in plain sight!). Now he's poised to do so for another four years, at which point we could be past the point of no return. All in the concept of hope...all because we WANT to believe. To keep it all very simple: make your own hope. “Turn you to the strong hold, ye prisoners of hope.” - The Bible For me, the stronghold is my own will, faculty and ingenuity. But I do feel hope is necessary/beneficial for those who truly are helpless, such as children. Man, I have a lot to say on this topic.
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