Comments by "Tomas Vrabec" (@tomasvrabec1845) on "The Insidious 'Toxic Masculinity' Myth is Damaging Humanity" video.

I am a man and in my default I am masculine as I feel better that way yet at the same time I do become feminine when situation need it. I have both feminine and masculine friends and they have their needs so I adjust my self to provide comfort or encouragement or even harsher judgement when needed
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@zatheriz i am not ashamed to be masculine. I wrote that in my normal I am masculine but I do get feminine when needed like when a friend needs emotional support. To say the truth most of my friends are pretty mich the same (and vice versa- default feminine and masculine when needed) we are a group of abou 10 people, men and women, straight and gay, couples and singles who just are... Humane
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The only thing I find a bit funny is how the initial idea of feminism was for women to become little more masculine and stand up for their rights like voting. The initial or ideal idea of feminism is quite well... Masculinity done right
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@Dimetri Drossos it us just good to have traits from both sides no matter which is your default. Like for a masculine guy to be able to provide emotional support to a friend in need would be femininity done right, since that is a feminine atribute.
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Most reasonable people like 42 do not stand purely on either side but consider the ideas from both and take those that make sense. Traditions are important too
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Why would anyone intelligent even stand on purely one side of the argument? It is far more reasonable, and I would say better, to entertain our selves with ideas from both sides. You don't have to accept every idea but it is important to consider them. This way should ensure the best and balanced growth where the good ideas should be taken from both and bad ones left behind. Otherwise the overall idea becomes rigid and still like SJW which is dangerous for everyone.
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I am usually masculine, as far as I know, since I feel better that way and happier from my self yet at the same time I do chose to be masculine or feminine depending of the situation and people I am with.
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@Dimetri Drossos i just tried to use the term masculinity as the term for all of the positive atributes like asertivenes (and the rest he mentioned in the video) ... Since if the begining of feminism was to stand together with respect and demand responsibility and right (to which you need those atributes) it was a form of masculinity done correctly
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