Comments by "M Simon" (@msimon6808) on "Men Rarely Understand This About Women | Jordan Peterson" video.

  1. "How do I bill that?" Add copious details. Flesh it out.
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  2.  @justagirl6761  "He liked giving me the silent treatement." I gave you what you asked for in the way you asked for it and now you are mad at me? I might as well just shut up and avoid the fight.
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  3.  @TrishHermit  " Maybe they are telling you what they want, but like most men, you aren't listening?" I heard it all the last time. And told you how to fix it. Got anything new (you can express without anger) ?
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  4.  @BarbieSueRehfuss  So you need this comment ==> " Maybe they are telling you what they want, but like most men, you aren't listening?" I heard it all the last time. And told you how to fix it. Got anything new (you can express without anger) ?
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  5.  @TrishHermit  You got a problem? State it without negative emotions. Stating it without negative emotions makes solutions easier to find (it often makes them obvious).
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  6.  @theresabengston2975  The anger is the disease.
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  7.  @TrishHermit  In information theory a redundant message is not information. Information is something you don't already know. Women like to talk. (the channel is operational). Men prefer information. Generally. So I guess you proved my point.
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  8. I can read her mind - literally. She doesn't ever say I'm wrong. And what do I find? She makes herself miserable and won't stop. She knows how to bond to clear the bad emotions. And refuses. I did ask for a hard case.
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  9.  @patrickrampy6885  Silence is in fact a great gift. If you know when to keep it.
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  10.  @dh12.  I had one GF who could do that. The first. There have been LOTs of others. So I have a fair sample.
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  11.  @xochj  Yes. I developed at least part of your expertise on my own ( I WAS an abused child - personal interest). Helped many (freelance). There are some who don't want to be helped. One of them latched on to me. We raised a family. I consider it a Bene Gesserit breeding experiment. It worked. Got 4 good kids and a grand daughter (so far). She (wife) still (after 50 years of therapy) wants to be a mess "I'm going to be angry the rest of my life". Never could talk her out of it.
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  12. "Unhappiness" - amplifying negative emotions. My rule is "tell me about it without negative emotions".
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  13. Women abused in childhood are less sensitive to negative emotions. The have to be. They continually produce them. That is why they get mixed up with abused boys. "I thought it meant he loved me."
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  14.  @qua7771  Abused children. The society is full of them.
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  15.  @BarbieSueRehfuss  Child abuse is becoming pervasive.
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  16.  @TrishHermit  Narcissism is frequently caused by child abuse. Hitler was an abused child.
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  17.  @BloominOnion1  "thought crimes" ? The anger is the disease. It should be a signal. Not a lifetime ambition.
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