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  10. My heart goes out to all those that have been victim to Narcissistic abuse. They prey on empaths. I’ve just come out of one and it’s hard having to adjust yourself and perspective. When things for a while are so on and off/ hot and cold that when it is actually over you’re still questioning it, like is it really over. You’re left feeling empty but you know what. The victims didn’t waste their time on the narc as what they felt was real for them, for me. everybody is learning and we can learn from this on what to look out for next time round. See it as life is a lesson. We still have that love in us to love someone else who respect us and we can give that to someone that will treat you right like a normal healthy relationship. Learn from To love again, don’t shut yourself off because you been hurt by a narcissist they’re only in it to take, take, and take, and never give. I noticed small hairline triggers would turn in to a big argument where I’d always be like what’s up, don’t shout, talk to me and the narcissist would always walk out of the flat leaving me to chase them and beg. It’s not healthy I feel sorry for them because mature adults wouldn’t get upset about this. Such as being on a budget and turning the heating off in one room that wasn’t being used to save money as we’d lost our jobs due to the pandemic. I was accused of controlling the heating made out to be absolutely horrible and what I done was the worst thing I could’ve done. I’d understand if she was in their using the room and wanting it warm which she wasn’t.
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