Comments by "Holger P." (@holger_p) on "Einzelgänger" channel.

  1. For the good times, it's easy to find plenty of people to share it with you. It is hard when it come to the bad times. You are sick and somebody should visiit you in the hospital. Or you end in wheelchair and need nursing or whatever. In those situations it's better to have a long term relationship, some emotional bonding. No you don't die alone, somebody has to burry you. Do you want an anoymous officer to do it ?
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  2.  @BOSSDONMAN  for some people it does. And dieing can be a process of 10 years.
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  3.  @JAE-gg1xb  It's not about your developing, it's about your problems. You have a disease or a difficult decision, you need emotional support of somebody. If you come up with such situations more often, you will loose friends, cause you are exhausting and you are not the place or guy to have fun with. Imagine you get in a wheel chair or worse, most people experience they loose at least half of their social contacts. Just because you cannot join for the weekend hike or so. Also, most people still have family around, until they are 50 they have parents, maybe siblings, but they die or loose the power to support you. So as older you get, as more of your contacts will break away.
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  4. some consider marriage as an option to have an income ;-)
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  5. You skipped the time, between the death of your parents and your death, who will take care of you ?
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  6. Maybe you get out the garbage, in order to have sex later on. Life is more complex than "only do what you want".
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  7. But you are here. So you want to answer to somebody else.
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  8. And why ? Cause you want an relationship ? Maybe people generally want, what they not currently have.
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  9. Actually, happiness or a thrill comes from changes or surprises, discovering is a big joy ....just knowing somebody deeply can give you security and a warm feeling, but no thrill any more.
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  10. What happens in the "bad times", when you are in hospital, nobody visiting you ? it all has advantages and disadvantages. Not sure which way is better.
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