Comments by "Django" (@django3422) on "How To Make A Disrespectful Person Look Insecure For Insulting You" video.
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I watched this video back when it came out, thought over the lessons within... and, sorry to say, felt like I'd forgotten it until very recently when I had to challenge my boss over some very shady decisions he made that were negatively impacting me.
And he was being very passive aggressive about it, kept trying to redirect, to shift blame, to try and turn things around and fire them back at me...
It was a conversation that ended with me resigning my position but I remember feeling very satisfied with how calmly I had handled it and was surprised at how angry I didn't feel after the fact. Only in hindsight do I realise that I employed pretty much every pointer you highlight in this video.
It really did work. I'm very grateful for what you do here, it's really helped me a lot. And I know I'm saying thanks even though I still ended up losing my job but, for once, I felt good about it and I owned the decision. This time it hasn't pushed me down a pit of despair, I was able to hold my head up and feel good about it.
Seriously, CoC, thank you.
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