Comments by "Daniel Bradford" (@Falconlibrary) on "" video.

One of my female colleagues asked out a male co-worker and he turned her down (nicely, by all accounts). She was, by turns, furious, humiliated, or mystified (sometimes all three at once). Her reasoning was that she got so much attention in online dating that she couldn't possibly conceive of a man not reciprocating her interest. He had been CHOSEN. Didn't he realize how special that made him? How honored he should be? Her estimate of her dating value was vastly inflated by the false reality of online simping. I can verify that this woman believes she's a 9 or 10 and is in truth a 7 in her early forties. The man she asked out is younger and better looking. Online dating is the ultimate reality distortion mirror. The amusing part was that she said she'd NEVER ask out a man again because she'd been rejected ONE TIME in her entire life. She expected sympathy from us, her male co-workers. Our response? "Welcome to our entire lives, where rejection is more common than acceptance." She didn't like that. And what did she learn from this? (A) To be nicer to men who asked her out in real life or showed interest online (B) To revert to her usual persona in "online dating" where she had an endless army of simps that she could reject offhand because she had so many "choices" Go on, guess what she learned. I'll bet you can guess.
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"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." is the quote. I've been very successful in in-person dating but was a miserable failure at online dating. Why did I find so many women willing to date me when I met them in person but did so poorly in online dating? Women get a false sense of their value in online dating by being besieged by an army of simps, most of whom just want to bed her, not wed her--and men do, too. Men: Do NOT use online dating apps. To quote Admiral Akbar in "Star Wars": IT'S A TRAP!
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@cosmeticscameo8277 Hadn't heard that saying before, but it's a good one.
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@gtrdeath28064212 You must be a smooth talker, like me. That goes a long ways. I got that from my dad, the World's Greatest Salesman.
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It's the end of the party and the hostess looks at all the leftover food nobody wanted to eat and offers to put it in Tupperware for you. No, thanks.
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@MareMagister You're right. I talk to women about all kinds of things and the ones who do online dating have confirmed what you just said: they use it as an ego boost without a serious intention to date. Women operate on feelings (getting all these messages makes me feel better about myself) while men operate on purpose (of course I'm trying to get a date, IT'S A DATING APP). Once again, we are thinking and acting very differently.
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@Jorendo Shift work is a killer in all kinds of ways. Women have told me they don't like men to approach them at the gym, which has been my observation. They feel kind of vulnerable there. Club scene is for 20somethings. I know churches and civic organizations used to have singles dances and mixers so people could meet up in person. If those don't exist anymore, someone should organize them. I grew up on a farm and our rural community solved the "man meets woman" problem (how are you going to meet women when you're out on a tractor or wrangling cows?) by having barn dances.
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@Lyba 🦋 You're getting attention, aren't you? Isn't that why every woman is on the internet?
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@gtrdeath28064212 I've had women tell me "I have a boyfriend" and I just blow right past it with "I know how to handle boyfriends, let me take care of that". Women admire swagger. But the fact that a woman with a boyfriend (who may or may not exist) are willing to be "sold" on another guy shows me their true nature: always looking to trade up.
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@Lyba 🦋 She has a liberal arts degree in women's studies and basket weaving. Take a seat, honey.
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No, she won't. Women don't learn, man. They just don't. They're not problem solvers. That's us. How many women do you know who say "Why does this keep happening to me over and over again?" If you do the guy thing and tell them how to fix it, they get mad because they didn't want a solution, they wanted you to validate their feelings.
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@zebare726 1. I don't care, I shop online 2. When I work out, I work out, and women do NOT like to be approached when they're working out 3/4 Don't date women from work--does this one need explaining why it's a superbad idea? I did it a couple of times before learning why not.
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@ltcajh I'm not saying it doesn't work, I'm saying it doesn't work well.
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@Barlmoro I know what she looked like when she was in her 20s and she was very attractive. But the legs go last and she's got great legs. Like most women, her self-image was formed of herself in her early 20s, when she was at her hottest. Women don't have realistic assessments of themselves in most cases.
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@FFE-js2zp I worked in Beverly Hills, where women are more physically attractive than most parts of the country, and in Beverly Hills, where a woman doesn't get hired unless she's above average in looks.
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Your take on this is better than Joker's. His assessment of female motives was far too charitable.
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@sunnyskies880 That many?
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@strongbad666 If I'd been a crewman, my retort would've been "That YOU led us into, Admiral Goldfish!"
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@JohnSmith-ys3wc The answer is C, nothing! Because women are already perfect and don't need to grow and improve. That's just for men.
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@OgiMetalHead Bingo!
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@fred6907 She's got great legs.
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@Ayztee23 She's got great legs and takes care of herself.
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@gurgy3 You can have your scale and I'll have mine, but I'm sticking with a 7 rating
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Studies have shown that "lasting" marriages last because the men are whipped.
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@Lyba 🦋 I'll bet that keeps you awake nights. Let's see, how many women are fighting in all of the wars in Asia and the Middle East right now? Almost none? Oh, so that means men are fighting and dying, but their lives aren't worth as much as women's, right?
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@hungrymusicwolf She just wants attention. I'm supposed to feel sorry because a woman in subSahara Africa doesn't have the same privilege as a woman in the States? What about the men in that continent who are forced to fight in all the wars going on there? Feminists care about women's rights, not human rights, which would include men. We're disposable.
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I expect Youtube to remove Joker's channel sooner or later. This isn't a free speech platform and he doesn't fit their political agenda.
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Dude, their online dating profiles are all the same: it's a long list of demands about what you must have and must do for her, with not one word of what she can do for you in a relationship. It's one-sided from the start. Just don't do it. The only winning strategy is to be incredibly handsome, which is the 5%-10% of guys who get 95% of the dates. Ordinary dude has a chance so small it may as well be zero.
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