Comments by "Daniel Bradford" (@Falconlibrary) on "Boys Never Pick Me" video.

  1. Personal story that illustrates the 80/20 rule: I was once colleagues with a very attractive divorced mother in her early 30s. Very beautiful, bright, and sweet woman. Every guy on staff wanted to date her but I got in there first. We got along great, her son thought I was super, BUT--she was divorced from a guy who is high on the food chain in Hollywood. Got his pick of gorgeous women to sleep with. She thought she'd put him in check by threatening to divorce him. But that's what he wanted! He took off and left her to raise the kid (with his financial support) while he slept with an endless stream of 22 year old models and actresses. She couldn't handle the rejection and the way he'd turned the tables on her. He hadn't done it out of malice: he simply didn't want to be monogamous. She couldn't get this guy out of her mind and he kept popping up in her conversation again and again. I got sick of it and just walked out of her life. She didn't even notice because she was so focused on him. Her ultimate fate? She ended up being "in rotation" with her ex, his fallback when he was lonely or bored. She knew he was using her, she knew he would never be faithful, but he was a bad boy and an Alpha Male. It was only then, in my early thirties, that I finally realized the truth: women would rather share a "bad boy" than have a "nice guy" all to themselves. This is a fact of life. It is a fact of female psychology and behavior the world over. The sooner we men come to grips with the fact that the vast majority of women don't prefer us, and in fact only have relationships with us out of desperation, the sooner we can begin to stop pursuing women who don't want us. Which is most of them. It was hard to accept at first but over time, it gets better.
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  2. But your roommate gave her THE FEELS. Women are ruled by emotion, not logic.
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  3. 80/20 Rule
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