Comments by "ThatHandsomeDevil08" (@thathandsomedevil0828) on "The Japan Reporter" channel.

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  9. Japan is a place of contradictions when it comes to the issue of sex in this context. I believe the reason why you have so many male virgins like in the west in general is because the women have priced themselves out of the market for the average guy. From Nobita's channel I have learned that women are obsessed with host bars and their male hosts whom are all good looking. Women are also obsessed with Yaoi comics where the characters are always facially good looking. Women are also obsessed with pop star boy bands be it Japanese and Korean groups. Women are into sex work due to lots of reasons including economics. I also learned that women suddenly don't trust men whom chat with multiple women at the same time because they will think is the cheating type so average guys can't even be macho in their approach to dating. Then there's the raw economic side of that dating equation where women expect the men to be economically successful as well as being good looking enough to meet their facial preference standards. Oh and don't forget the crazy work culture that burns out both men and women. These are all high cost criteria to meet by Japanese men whom I believe have been brow beaten into mediocrity and insecurity since the collapse of the Japan economy in general. How the heck are men expected to compete with the ever increasing standards from Japanese women? Small wonder that the grass eater movement first kicked off in Japan. I think Japanese men should go marry women from other Asian countries or even the west. The average facial looking guy in Japan has to compete with dating apps, host bars, yaoi, pop stars, then westerners from Anglo-Saxon countries. They must either go find foreign women or get plastic surgery to improve their facial looks to meet the aesthetic needs of the modern Japanese woman. I hear in Korea that plastic surgery is what everyone does to compete in the dating market and they have birth rate issues also. All in all its a rough gig. Yet another reason for the demographic collapse. I read on Japan today that there is a city that was encouraging the use of letter writing to get singles to date and it has had some success. Funny how awesome women can find men to be if they can look past the face of the guy to know what's underneath. Even then there will be women who will still judge guys based on their looks but good lord; there are always more average guys than good looking guys in every population sample. The primary issue is that the modem woman is hyper obsessed with the 20% of dudes whom are good looking. This will leave out lots of men whom will remain virgins.
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  22.  @melelconquistador  human beings are like dice my friend we have to roll. I forget who said that but I found it interesting. Remember that Bruce Lee said something about being like water. Water is flexible it goes places, flows here, flows there, flows where ever there is space or a path. But at the same time if you pour water into a cup, the water conforms to that cup and becomes one with it. The same goes if you pour water into anything static; the water becomes static, it becomes that thing. You can choose to be one or the other. I chose to be like flowing water most of the time, I flow where there is a path to flow but there are some times where I chose to be static also. It all depends on the situation and what you really want and how you plan to get what you want because we are all pursuing happiness. As such Be like water, my friend. If you must flow then do that, if you must remain static then do that also. You have to be flexible in how you approach things, take and do what is useful to you and abandon what isn't. If you follow the way the Japanese mostly do things then you will be as most Japanese are. So if the fear of talking to people for fear of bothering them makes you static, you can choose to remain static or you can choose to flow it's all up to you in the end, you get to decide how you roll. Again, be like water, my friend; Decide when to flow. Also remember to be like a dice and never forget to roll. ;) Besides, Nobita mentioned that one of the best ways to form friendships in Japan is to engage in hobbies and events that people partake in so if the Japanese tatemae the fuq out of you with direct social interactions, you can then roll into every hobby and event you can find and flow through it all to reach the people you want to reach. A lesson in flexibility. ;)
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  93. Also, I find it rich that the guys of the host clubs say that they are better at talking to women than average Japanese men WHEN EVERY SINGLE HOST IS S FACIALLY GOOD LOOKING MAN. This is so ridiculous it borders on insulting. The reason why women go to these host clubs in the first place is because it is artificially jam packed with good looking men. SO OF COURSE the women are going to do everything they can to not only go there but to speak to these men because they want to BREED with them. This makes the conversations easier as the women go gaga for the men. These men are no different to the typical Japanese man otherwise. They just have really good facial looks which does half the job for them. I am certain Japanese men are actually very kind, deep thinking men who can definitely be great conversational partners and more IF THEY WERE GIVEN THE CHANCE but no, the women are hyper locked on facially good looks, get swindled by men with these features to the point that these women go into prostitution and swindle other men just to please the objects of their desire. It is all so tiring and pathetic. I particularly despise this flaw in women to lose objectivity when it comes to men's good looks. They all suffer 100% loss in IQ points the moment they see a facially good looking man. So frigging typical!! I have no sympathies, not one. Especially when Japanese men are suffering so much that they become herbivore and hikkikomori. Honestly in a way I am glad hosts actually swindle women dumb enough to even make use of such services. KARMA!!!
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