Comments by "Killed The Cat" (@killedthecat1034) on "Emilia Clarke Wants More Male Nudity in Game of Thrones" video.

Oh John! You have truly earned your feminist card today! lol
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+Kazooga 1234 okay babe, well then i think you are arguing over not much and getting nowhere at this point... it doesnt matter what whos definition of the words are or what phrases you want or he wants to be known by. The feminist argument always gets boiled down this way. till its pointless. if the belief is the same then what does it matter if you dont like a phrase or word right? ask him his beliefs not monocur
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Why does it matter then what one guy who you dont even know thinks. Your getting caught up is all im saying. If you think he is truely this ignorant then donr waist your time on him.
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Oh I see... recognising some person who you say has sexist views, who has no power that you know of as inconsequential and not worth the effort you're putting into it if that person really does hold those views because of the lack of power that person holds in general I am all I am all the sudden on the side of sexist bastards everywhere. Yeah that makes sense. Or is it just that I dared to disagree with you and your ego is what you're tripping on right now. PS way to feed the hysterical I'm thinking woman stereotype. You're really propping up feminism there.
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Kazooga 1234 OMG,,, again... think of more then one possibility sweetheart. Think in more then one perspective.... If im telling you not to waist your time on people and things that don't matter in the pointless aspect of arguing with random people in the you tube comment section then why would i put that much effort into responding to a person who is obviously gonna spend a good deal of their life arguing with wet paper bags. Its called TALK TEXT and the lack of give a damn enough to check it after. I have more important shit to do. Deal with it. Ya know when I know others have lost the argument online... when all they have left to make their point is to comment on grammar and sentence structure. and babe.... just proving my point again. Arguing ineffectively with a wet paper bag is not something you should aspire to. If you want to be a champion of women, learn how to become one. Learn what is inconsequential BS and what is important. Vote, protest, go volunteer. run for office. Educate yourself. or at the very least when you see a fellow woman online getting themselves into a pointless battle with a stranger and they are to far in it to see that... try and help them regain perspective and refocus there energy onto something that might actually help the cause they seam to be so blindly passionate about. With that being said... good nite... because hypocrisy often nullifies a persons point in many eyes.
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silvafox07 Sure... if you want to make an ASSUMPTION out of your self... If you read what I said to her then you would see every-time I refereed to what she called you as "if you where as she says" or a variation of such. In the attempt to reason with her more effectively by getting into her state of mind. I never actually made a judgment on you. Unlike you I put thought into the actual words and didn't just lunge out with a defensive action before thinking it through.... so you keep laughing but maybe its better to think before you do.
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Kazooga 1234 your giving him what he wants... just saying
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Hello fwiend First... thank you for the thoughtful response and the respectful one. That is rare on here. I agree with you quite a bit as well. Jail sentences for men and women for the same crime are often unfair. I do agree with that and they are also unfair for different races and even culture and religion. I am the type of feminist that if I say equal, I mean equal. For example, if I go start a fight with a due ( for some reason that Im not sure of at this moment LOL) I would not only expect to hit me back and defend himself against me but I would also expect to be charged with the bigger crime. It wouldn't happen because Im female but it should. Though if Im being honest... Not sure I would argue about that either. LOL... We all have flaws. LOL In all the latest studies and many more before that women are still making 72 cent to the dollar of men for the same work on average. I agree Its gotten better but its still a problem that needs fixing. As for having kids... Im always a bit torn. Because as I said EQUAL across the board but... I don't think women should be punished for reproduction. At the same time you shouldn't be expected to pay someone for not working. I mean I guess maturity leave is a solution in part but then that only applies to those who have been there long enough to earn it. I don't know what the solve to that issue is that isn't a half measure. I would love if someone would figure it out without blaming men for it though. I understand your reasoning on the custody thing but I think that is going in the opposite direction then we need to be pushing parents now a days. Its hard so lets take it out of your hands is not the way we evolve. When I was pregnant with my son the father of my child cheated on me, Knocked the other girl up and left me and even did so in my house on my own bed. 5 Years later we live together. As Strictly best friends, co parents and a general family. He is actually friends with my boyfriend ( who i Have been with for almost 2 years now) and we all hang about once a week. And yes.... it creeps me out sometimes how all that shook out! LOL How we got here isn't easy. It was one of the hardest things I ever had to do and I had to deal with that while at the same time learning how to be a mom and starting a biz. What made it work for us though is us putting down the romantic part of our relationship for good and once that happened niether one of us had to worry about being mad any more. Which gave way for our family to grow and come together. There where a few times we came close to filing in the beginning but always ended up choosing our child over our emotions.... I count myself lucky now for him because I get to spend my life with the amazing friend and co parent side of him and NOT the shitty boyfriend side of him. Its not easy but your kid is worth it and so are you. Having that peace in your life is good for the soul. IDK... why gay guys and trans get so much hate. I do know it comes from the broken inside of the hater though. Not the LGBT community. Its often religion being used to hate something you don't understand. I take heart in the fact that the most persecuted of us often become the ones who effect change the most in this world. I see that about her and I tried to tell her to stop that also. IDK what the issue is there but what im saying... dont let her bring you down to her level. Your obviously thoughtful and smart. stay that way. if for no other reason then its the best way to get to people that act the way she is acting. BTW... Id rethink the feminist label... Cause you sound like one to me and it doesn't have to be a bad thing. LOL... hope you feel better.
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Kazooga 1234 Sweetheart.... I love your passion but if you learn anything from TYT you learn not everything so black and white and all the shades of grey in between are important and should be talked about in a calm, rational and less accusatory way because that's how we solve problems. That's how everyone can be respected and heard all at the same time. I am in wolf pac and have been a tyt member for over 5 years now. i watch them every day. Nowhere do they pit women and men against each other in that way and they don't say women defend themselves and go to jail but men murder and get out free..... And that is certainly not the norm. now if you where talking about a rich white dude then you would have a point but its the money he has that causes that. Not the sex. Not everything is about male and female being put at odds. Men are not out to screw us over all the time. Look at Cenk, and Ben and John and JR and all the rest of them. And I say that because you kinda sound like you have a one track mind about things and thats not healthy.
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Hello fwiend I think you spelled it right. I have second degree in that one and one in Hop Keto.... I know I didn't spell that right. LOL Basically more leg and weapons training is the difference. Wow! That had to be scary for you and your family before you knew what it was. When my son was 3 he was diagnosed with a moderate form of iron deficient anemia. Before that though all we knew for weeks was he had super low iron and lot of overtly small cells. which could loot like a lot of things to anyone but a specialist. Things like Leukemia and cancer where thrown around. So I was crazy scared out of my mind for that whole time but not being able to show it because you gotta be ok for your son and all. What he has isn't the best it could be but its by far not the worst.... So when I was reading your words I just thought the whole time how freaked out your mom must of been. For much longer then 2 weeks. Give her a hug the next time you see her? I don't think the football thing was stupid. I like you weren't letting it slow you down. Thats what we are doing for bug. His is controlled by a watchful eye, a stash of iron for emergencies and a strict diet. but me and his dad are committed to not letting him use it as an excuse to not do anything, Even when it scares the crap out of me. LOL Though I think I might make an exception when he gets to the age range that he wants to start dating girls. LOL JK.... Kinda LOL That sounds like fun. its for sure a good job if you have physical issues and you enjoy helping people. Like it seams like you do. Id go all the way! We don't half ass stuff around here mister! LOL JK.... Do it if it makes you happy. That is important. And do what you think is best... even if its not conventional.
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Hello fwiend No poking the crazy bear! Let here wear herself out on her own. Nothing good comes from it babe. Just frustration, irritation and often confusion. Let her live in that hateful crazy bubble all on her own. LOL
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umm... because the OG definition of feminism is basically people who wish for women to be treated as equals in all things as men. Hello fwiend
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Kazooga 1234 thats pretty much what i just said dude. Do you enjoy propping up paper tigers to fight about?
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Kazooga 1234 and Silvafox07.... Do you even know the inconsequential craziness that you are arguing about anymore? First wave second wave 23rd wave. Does it really matter? The point is everybody wants everybody to be treated equally in the law and in our personal interactions and everywhere in between. Is that something you both agree on then you're just fighting over technicalities of word usage at this point. Move on people.
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Kazooga 1234 I call everyone babe. I'm a girl hun.
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silvafox07 she is right... girls can practice common sense as well but that tells me there is maybe some truth to what she is saying.
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Hello fwiend I wou,do argue from both sides on the fathers and children thing. It is very true that men are mistreated when it comes to custody and even some on child support. The courts to often give all the power to the mother and that's for sure wrong. Though there is something to be said for parents who just need to grow the hell up and stop expecting the courts to tell them how to be adults and good parents. So my general opinion on that is to have everyone put there adult hats on and figure out what best for the kids. For the jail thing part of that is unfair treatment to sex, class and race. The other is science and the study of human nature shows men are more prone to violence then women. In that case men and woman for sure should be equal but we should also give a knod to science and biology and recognize we are different in some ways. As for sexuality, it's true for a man to sleep with another man its a bigger deal ( for reasons I can't understand) but on the other side men can sleep with as many women as they wants and it makes them look cool. If a woman sleeps with more then one guy she is given the scarlet letter. Women getting paid less is also true. Often times due to child baring being put up as a reason but look at the other side of that. We should make the choice to stop having babies if we want to be treated equal? I imagine at some point there will be some serious lack of human species issues if that was the case. Just saying... I would also put forth that being because women are not being taken as seriously as men are. If men take a firm stance it's considered strong. If we do, it's we are being to emotional and need to calm down. Which seams to be the case BTW with you to guys reactions to Kaz. Which indeed suggests that there once again can be a little truth to what she is saying about your sexism. Acting like its funny and cute that she is getting all huffy... mature is not the word I would use. Yes, she is getting a little over board and I have said as much but the mocking and patranizing says more about your maturity level and moral ground then it does hers... you surrender the high ground with that manner your prasenting. Which makes it for anyone who reads this with the sense of it's a pox on both your houses and they would be right. We don't solve anything this way.
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Hello fwiend Kids change things about you. You almost gain a superhero type of patience and forgiveness if you let it change you for the better. I always find myself comparing what I would of done before I had Bug and what I do now in my head. Its a world of difference. Like I said, it basically boiled down to when I let go of the wanting to be with him and make our family work thing it became a lot easier because I didn't have to be concerned with with that stuff and it helped that in all other aspects of his personality he is pretty amazing. He gets up everyday thinking how can I make life easier for both the mothers of my children and my children and goes to bed every night exhausted because he put those thoughts into actions. In between he also has worked 2 jobs at a time, got his cosmetology degree and is almost done with getting his writing degree. He has put out 2 books, shoots me clients all the time ( Im a freelance graphic designer) and makes sure his kids don't want for anything. Even if that means he does. So like I said, great guy... shitty boyfriend. LOL BTW... your only 19? Im impressed. You have some serious grown up chops for 19. In many different ways! Go you! lol I agree there are many factors that contribute to the pay difference and the factors you mentioned are a few of them. Nature tells us to nurture for sure but I also think it feels into people doing it as well. Men being more likely to get higher paying jobs and nurture fields in general getting paid less. I don't know an honest Dr out there that wont tell you that Nurses do ten times the work that docs do and often times doing what docs do in their jobs. In larger amounts usually. Pretty much the only thing they don't do is pick up the scalpel. Yet they don't even get paid half as much as docs. It has gotten better in the last few decades though. We still have a long way to go. I have enough humility to know I don't know the answer to the women work place child birth thing but I do think it would go a long way to getting it solved if we stopped pointing fingers, got the people out of the way that just want to use the issue as a tool to their own means and got some smart people in there that want to solve the issue. Plus a general sense of compassion and understanding on both sides of the issue couldn't hurt. That's all I have so far though. I hear you. Though I don't think she is a troll. She would of stopped the craziness a while back if that where so. You don't get that intense for that long without having your heart in the matter. Either way, I think its best we both just put her down and let her move on to hurling crazy and inaccurate accusations at someone else for a while. Some people just can't seam to be able to step out of there own point of view and get perspective on the bigger picture. We all do that occasionally but its not a good idea to make a habit of it. So with that I suggest we both just move away from crazy town? LOL That fight thing was an analogy obviously. Not sure why I would be randomly going up and picking a fight with people. LOL I would agree with your point on trying to wait until someone gets there to help as long as that applies across the board. Guys have this finny thing when it comes to that subject of being extremely opposed to especially hitting girls. At the same time, it would be ideal for you to not have to hit back at all, as you said. I have 17 years of self defense training and 2 black belts and I can tell you above all else, what they hammer home on self defense is doing what you need to in order to keep yourself safe while at the same time trying to do he least amount of harm possible to the attacker. Its not about being some kind of bad ass. Glad your feeling better. So I imagine your going to collage soon? Do you know what your looking into yet?
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