Comments by "m g" (@07Flash11MRC) on "Why Are Young Men and Women So Divided on Politics?" video.

  1. " society viewed my decision quite negatively. ": Sociaty doesn't even know who you are. You need to change the people you befreind and spend time with. This isn't "society's fault". "young men and society need to be taught to value what was formerly known as women's work": Fully agree with you.
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  2. "Patriarchy is engrained in society.": Yes, and that is the main issue we need to change.
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  3. "Part of the deal with a any good relationship is both partners giving up some of their independence.": No, it's not. Having a partner should add to your life and better your life, not box you in or steal your resources, time. This is the issue with toxic relationships: One or both partners forcing each other to give up a part of who they are.
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  4.  @maxpayne232  "what you said makes no sense at all. Time is not an infinite resource": I literally didn't argue that. You just made up a strawman, claimed that that was my argument and then fought that strawman. Try again!
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  5. "progressivism is a failed experiment": Progressivism has never been tested, because it literally doesn't exist. Women still have lessd rights than men, minorities are still oppressed and cápìtàlí$ts have all the power and money in the world, whereas us workers are still struggling to get by and afford basic things such as housing, nutrition, electricity, internet and phone bills.
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  6.  @AudreyWineland  "until you realize that good men": There are no good men in power. " are still required to fend off malicious violent men": Men are the problem.
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  7. "Women seem unable to see their own biases": What bias are you talking about?
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  8. Exactly. This is a men-problem.
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  9.  @ernimuja6991  " but no body is hearing.": No, what men want from women is anti-human-rights. Men have no right to women or children or free labor.
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  10. They are literally both married to their husbands.
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  11. "But you cannot find women that wants to be the sole income for the whole house.": Because women already work both at home and in the work force. You staying at home just drags women down with you, because you are not doing your part in providing for the family.
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  12. "When a woman is a full-time housewife we say she works 24/7.": Yes, because that work is unpaid, free labor that benefits men. "When a man is a full-time house hubby he is unemployed?": Any person that isn't part of the work force is by definition unemployed, doesn't matter the gender, age, ethnicity, whatever.# Your arguments make no sense.
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  13. "What viable solution do women have for a man's role in the world from maturity to seniority?": Women talk plenty about this and they are telling you exactly what they want from men. Just listen, please. "When are we getting women into high mortality rate jobs?": Forcing any gender into any job is authoritarian and coimpletely morally wrong, because again: Neither men nor women are hive-minds and most men aren*t in those jobs, either. Men do these jobs, because they are paid well. Women don't expect that pay for themselves when they do another job. You are mixing up things that are not happening. Forcing people into jobs they aren't fit for is counterproductive and totalitarian. Women already do those jobs, they are also in the military. Just because the majority of people working those jobs aren't women, doesn't mean there aren't any. This is a non issue and part of individual freedom.
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  14. What are the good parts and what are the painful parts?
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  15. Lmfao. Yeah, that's why men lead us all into endless conflicts, wrs, financial and societal crises around the world throughout all of human history.
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  16. "Now, why are so few women looking for the men who want this arrangement?": Because nowadays this arrengement only works for people who earn lots of money. Women already work both at home and at some work place for their boss. What does you staying at home add to the life of a woman you are dating?
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  17.  @ernimuja6991  "There are a lot of highly educated Republicans.": Lmfao, such as?
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  18. "can be taught": Maybe, but that's not women's resposibility. Men have the internet at their fingertips. They can learn whatever they want for free.
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  19.  @gaborhovan3530  "It is not fair to blame x for not having a skill": Hard disagree for both genders. All adults are free to learn whatever they want, so coming across other adult people who don't learn valuable skills for whatever reason is certainly a them-issue, not a me-issue. If you refuse to learn a skill, you are free to pay other people for their labor. However, you are not free to expect free labor from other people.
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  20. Exactly. Patriarchy harms both genders in different ways, which is why men need to get behind women and start fighting the patriarchy.
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  21. Most women are literally for that as well. Pregnancy and childbirth are extremely dangerous for women and girls.
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  22. "it’s pretty logical why this is happening": Which is?
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  23. How does that solve anything? What does this solve?
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  24. Yes, either that or fialed careers.
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  25.  @ernimuja6991  "Women were doing poorly in school": Where*d you get that lie from? No, women and girls weren't even allowed in school until they fought for change.
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  26. Exactly. Usually it's men themselves who project onto other men and pressure each other.
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  27. Assuming all of this is true. What's the point of staying with your wife?
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  28. " would put the fear of God into women": Why? That's not a good thing. Religions and gods in general aren't a good thing.
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  29. Same. I wouldn't date a MAGAt, either.
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  30. Unless they take on cápìtàlí$m itself, nothing will get better for men. If they chose to go after women and children, they'll resent men even more.
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  31. You did a good job still, because you tried. It isn't your sole responsibility to fix years of braìnw@shing of other men. We just need to organize and work together more. Stay strong :)
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  32. "And the same reason late 30’s women are on you tube crying about being alone.": They are not alone, though, they are literally married to men. You just make stuff up to feel better about yourself.
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  33. "[Women will] have to consider doing the same if they want a man.": Yikes. Women and girls don't "have to" do anything, especially not for men. Women aren't your walking wallets. Women are already forced to take care of their entire family and serve the male members of it since the day they are born. Women and girls have historically been sl@ves their entire lives. This needs to change. If you as a man can't work hard enough to provide for a woman and your kids with her, you don't automatically deserve a woman's labor. Think of this in a gender swaped way: If women ever said they deserve men to serve and pay them for free, whereas the men were forced to provide free labor to women as long as they live, the entire world would lose their sht.
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  34. Cells aren't children. Besides, there are already laws against mrdr.
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  35. " bc for the first time since the Civil War, the two parties are actually ideologically different": No, they really aren't. Sure, they disagree on some social things like trans issues or gay people, but ultimately both parties serve cápìtàlì$m and cápìtálí$ts.
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  36.  @rickpearson7943  " Nazis also preserve capitalism.": You clearly don't even understand what you are saying. Nazism, the German version of fascism, is the merger of state and corporations which in the long run leads to a (militaristic) dictatorship. This is what people like Vance, Musk and Peter Thiel are trying to do by using Trump's movement and his MAGA base. "So by your logic, a social-democrat and a Neo-Nazi are essentially the same ideology.": No, that is your logic. Stop strawmaning me and bring on some actual arguments that hold up with the real, scientific political definitions. " Obviously, that's reductive and over simplifying to the point of absurdity.": It's funny how even a simple mind as yours can tell that your own strawman is total nonsense, so why don't you keep your absurd ideas to yourself.
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  37. Then don't get married! Geez, most of the time it's men popping the question and then later pretending they were somehow forced, when they are not. Literally nobody is forcing you to get married. Especially as a white men, you are on top of the world by default. You can make decisions other people (women, pocs, minorities) never even have a chance to. You can be in relationship(s) without ever getting married. You wouldn't sign a healthcare or hous-building contract that screw€s you over, either, would you?
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  38. How can you be so rude to people and so vague about your thoughts?
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  39. "and who made $60k/year": What are you talking about. Everyone making above 30k/year is pretty wealthy.
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  40. Women have historically done all of those things, but for free, because unlike men they weren't paid. "whos gonna grow the food,manage the water": This is literally what women do every day. Women have always been in the fields.
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  41. Just keep in mind that men lie. A lot of men have learned what women want to hear, but secretely still vote for Trump or whoever is anti-women and anti-girls.
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  42. Nice try blaming men's actions on women...
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  43. "nothing serious": You mean the people you date aren't serious about a relationship leading to marriage, kids, etc.? where do you find those dates? I know a lot of people use dating apps just for hook-ups, which is also the reason I don't use dating apps, for example.
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  44.  @jrbknyc8785  " I am a Christian and I want someone with similar values": Okay. That's a start. Have you tried looking in your church, your circle of friends or religious events?
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  45. No, it wasn't. All of the stuff about men being smarter than women and whites being smarter than blacks etc. was entirely made up by white men in power to conwuer and divide the working class.
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  46. "taking care of himself is more difficult than managing finances": I don't see what the problem is. Ideally both genders would be capable of that. Edit: I mean both of those things, not just one or the other.
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  47. " did some messed up shit a few centuries go": The messed sht is still going on and it is called cápìtálì$m. We need to overthrow it.
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  48. Wow, religious people are extremely fragile. God is an imaginary friend of many people, he is not real.
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  49. What does?
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  50. No, thanks. Men have plenty of standards and so should women. Women's standards are literally there to save their lives.
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  51. Okay? And assuming this is factually true, what is your point?
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  52.  @catsnchords  "The middle east saw unprecedented peace while MAGA was Pres.": It's clear you've never been outside of the US. Trump was literally worse than Obama, and it was Biden who pulled us out of Afghanistan, not Trump.
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  53. " there are things the modern woman has wrong": Which is...?
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  54. "with young men feeling economically marginalized": They may feel marginalized but they don't see how women and other marginalized people are even worse off than them. The issue comes in when those men blame the people who are worse off than them rather than putting the blame where it belongs: It's cápìtálì$m that destroys all of our lives and ambitions, not the poor and the less powerful.
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  55. "No man wants a woman who says it would be nice to have someone to laugh with and do things with.": Why is women saying that they want to spend time with their partner a bad thing? "Men don't want their love and sacrifice to feel like an option. We want it to be a necessity for you.": Could you be more specific and give an example? "men want true burning desire and passion from women": Okay, how are women supposed to express this? "not the optionality of a heated seat, or remote starter": What does that even mean? Your car-analogies are very vague.
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  56. Men and women have to have an honest conversation about our biological differences": How should those differences influence society? " and mating habits": What do those justify? " as well as the vision of both men and women and how they define success in life": This is different for every individual. You are drawing unnecessary lines between men and women when neither men nor women are hive-minds.
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  57. Yes, exactly! This unnecessary divide between the genders already starts so young (usually kindergarden, pre-school or whatever).
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