Comments by "Dan" (@Dan-di9jd) on "FBE Capital" channel.

The common denominator here is this: they're using dating apps. The core of the problem is that love predates language. The problem with dating apps is that you're trying to fall in love with someone based on a set of values they present to you. The companies that run these dating apps are betting that you won't find love and you will subscribe to their services for a very long time. My sincere advice to men and women is this: use dating apps as supplementals but try to meet the opposite gender organically such as at events, or even just out and about. Love predates language, so the other person will respond much differently when they're in a setting that allows them to sense you by you rather than what you wrote on the site. If you MUST use a dating app, my advice is to try and land a in person date as soon as you can. Don't sit there talking and trying to figure out what each of you like or don't like. Instead do that on a in-person date as soon as you can. I found that the easiest way is to communicate first on the app, then ask for a date at a public location. She will most likely accept that since it is straight and to the point.
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Disagree. There should be some level of compatibility, especially in matters of money because you don't want the relationship to be one sided.
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@michaelangst6078 The problem with modern family is that things are quite expensive. I think regardless both the man and woman will need to work in the relationship to some degree. I think as a guy, you want to be the main supporter but I think as a woman, it's not a bad idea to at least roll in some additional income. It doesn't have to be double the income but at least to some degree adding additional money each month will provide a good comfort spot.
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In a good relationship, you don't need a ton of money to live out a pretty good lifestyle. It would be ideal if a man made six figures and a woman made six figures and they both live at the same house. But I think reality, if a guy makes slightly above the area's average and the woman makes slightly near or below the average for the area, they would find themselves in a pretty good position to enjoy things without being too lavish and living out comfortably. I think guys in their 40s would figure that out because he would think, "You know I make good money, I can provide for a partner and at the same time if she helped out just a little I'd be pretty happy with it."
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I think you should just give it time. There's no limit to when someone can meet someone, but it does make you worried.
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@tommak6516 actually this dude tried to pick my mom up at the cemetery lol. My dad had passed away and his wife was buried up about 3 plots ahead. His wife was Korean and she passed away from smoking and he also comes to the Korean church. So my mom would come to the cemetery nearly daily and everytime she came he was there. We suspected he was waiting somewhere each day because after 5 minutes of her arriving he would appear. I tried coming myself and he would not come but whenever my mom was there he’d be there 5 minutes later. She finally told him to scram and we never saw him again lol.
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@Eidolon5150 mmhmm I’ll take things that never happened for 500 Alex
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@Eidolon5150 mmhmm what’s the next story where one day you were walking the dangerous streets in of NY and suddenly a lady appeared and you’re like the son the father and the Holy Ghost I command thee to return to your cave succubus! And you break out a cross and recite some holy Vatican prayers.
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@Eidolon5150 also didn’t Jesus hang out with so called low life’s like Mary who was a prostitute in the Bible? He also said if you cast the first stone if you’re so sinless. If Jesus can forgive a prostitute who was considered the lowest of low then couldn’t you just I don’t know ignore and not judge this calc class girl and your made up story about how your friend dropped Bible verses to drive her away?
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@Eidolon5150 oh now you’re trying the fantasy character narrative after spewing all that garbage about Bible virgin warriors deflecting calc class loose women? That’s totally unexpected behavior from someone who was so sure his story would impress people.
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It appears you do because apparently if the girl I'm with decides to ask you out on a date, it's like she's inviting you to her pants and you're very worried about that. You're so worried that you'll bring your imaginary bible friend over to tell her about how Jesus and God are his date. @Eidolon5150
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Again... online dating.... and wondering why it is so bad. I think nearly 90% of their problems would drop if they stopped going online for dates. Of course both male and female will be selective when they are presented multiple choices. She probably passed on multiple good choices in her same age range, and vice versa, probably a ton of guys she likes will pass her over for someone younger. I don't think a good man, especially in his late 30s, 40s, and beyond are going online when they are still prime to go out. I think the extreme when you start to get into retirement age that's when you might need to go online since a lot of folks at that age range just aren't going out that often and it's harder to meet in public places.
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found the incel >> @asdfdc1946
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Best of luck. I do think that it is okay if men or women want to live a single life where they can do things. But from what I seen the whole party, travel, and loving yourself lifestyle tend to be a escape from whatever problems you have. I do know a couple of these types, and they're always having trouble but when they do travel or party, it's all over their social media in a way that looks very fun but since I know them and know what is really going on in between that, I just don't think it is a good idea to live that kind of life.
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Personally I think these kind of influencers are here to stay. Big corporations are paying big bucks to promote these lifestyle by investing into plus sized models. They don't have data for it, but the entire beauty industry is worth nearly 530 billion dollars worldwide and we must assume a portion of that goes into the plus size lineups. With that in mind, I just think corporations are really going to push this in the coming years and they're just going to have more money and outreach than any of us would have so there's a good chance a young woman will hear these corporations over what any of us might say and they would make it look a lot more appealing than we would.
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@bks6000 yay! high five!
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