Comments by "Dan" (@Dan-di9jd) on "Cole Hastings" channel.

Depends but I mostly seen that if you are positive, kind and humble, someone will be jealous of that and try to bring you down.
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I think you're fairly young. When I was 24 I was happy to be single. It felt great that I didn't have too much to worry about. Now I'm nearing my 40s and honestly I regret my choice. So women within 3-5 years of my age range would probably already have been married, and if not, would have a lot of emotional baggage that would explain why they're single so late. That would probably apply in vice versa as well as I am late single and would probably be put under a microscope compared to younger men. With that said, I did have some prospects as a younger person. I regret not having pursued them now as those women are very happily married. I read a lot of comments on here about how women are evil, or how you can't have conversations with women, etc. Don't fall for it. Do you best to find someone as young as you possibly can. If you have a job, a career, and make money, it's time to find someone immediately regardless of your economical status or if you think you're ready for marriage. It is a lot better to be with someone, even if for a short while compared to being old and unable to find someone.
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@manoroyop12 honestly if you keep trying I think you’ll do okay. It’s hard to say if online relationships will last. Especially at a younger age where girls might be looking for casual relationships. It’s a good idea to make a move fast and ask her out on a date. Good luck man. You’re still very young so I wouldn’t exactly panic or take it too seriously. Don’t act desperate and don’t act like this is the only girl in the world. If things don’t work out just continue on. As long as you keep trying and talk to girls I think you’ll do much better than me.
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@manoroyop12 I guess until you meet in person, then despite being geographically close, you're still only knowing the online person. I think a lot of folks put out this online persona that differs from what they are in "real life." So it is best to ask the person on a date and meet the actual person as soon as you can. I recommend asking her out on a date as soon as you are able to. It doesn't have to be anything elaborate but I would get her phone number, pick a location, ask her out on a date to that location, then meet with her. There's a good chance some women just want to remain friends online and don't want to meet in person. So it is best to establish quickly that you're expecting a relationship and that you want to take her out to get to know each other better. Pick a public place, like a coffee shop or an event at the university/college and see what she is like in real life. I think dragging it out for months might be a very bad idea for both parties as stated above the online persona might not match that in real life.
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@manoroyop12 also this video itself the guy got hurt by a woman in a long term relationship. I think it is important to realize that once you’re in a relationship you’ll be able to find someone else just as easily as you did with the first. So that is why it is important to establish a relationship at a young age even if you don’t feel you are quite ready. Don’t wait until you’re too old or “established” before attempting to find someone. Make a serious effort now before it is too late. Trust me you don’t want to be nearly 40 and wondering wtf went wrong after so many rejections.
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I guess the good news is if you do end up never finding any sort of relationship that you'll experience a very short and painful life as oppose to waiting for a very long time. I'm about to turn 40 myself and I never found any sort of relationship in my life. Some good friends here and there and some moments of happy events but otherwise mostly alone. I plan to minimize possession just as I go into old age that I don't have to worry about where my stuff will go after I pass and I won't be too attached to anything worldly.
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