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  1. Hafiz from The Roommates really called a woman out on this: “You’re using words to try to SHAPE reality, rather than using them to REFLECT reality.” I think woman do this because retaining the acceptance and approval of the group used to be a matter of life-and-death for women and their children. So trying to control others perception of them and their actions was vital. Now it’s just annoying.
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  2. Because women want the freedom of modernity AND the protections of tradition. You can’t have the freedom to be approached by the men you want while also being protected from being approached by the ones you don’t. Life doesn’t work that way. Never has.
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  3. As a guy I think it comes down to women falling into two categories. Those who chase excitement, and those who seek contentment. Women who are thrill-seekers chase bad boys because their unpredictability and disregard for her feelings is exciting. It’s like chasing a drug high. But with every high comes the inevitable crash. They chew up good men because the contentment and stability that they offer is boring to them. OTOH, the women who seek contentment realize that bad boys are bad news. The problem is that many good men have been burned by the crazies and the thrill seekers by the time you find them.
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  4. She is not average looking. She’s what KS used to call an adjustable 6. The problem is that masculinity attracts the feminine. So women who get stuck in their masculine attract men who struggle to stay in theirs.
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  5.  @KorithStoneheart  Fear. Shame. Rejection. Embarrassment. Men have had to suck it up and face these. So we get our rejection up front. Traditional has protected women from being rejected up front. So they don’t know how to handle it emotionally, and most of them have no game. Actually had a woman flirt with me the other day, and she seemed both surprised and pleased that I knew how —-and was willing—to play the game.
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  6. His weak frame and need for her validation is part of the problem. I bet she shit tests him constantly ( rudeness, bitchy behavior) to see if he’ll stand up to her and for himself…. ….and I bet he fails constantly. He needs to please her too much. You could hear it in his voice when he talk about her lack of appreciation…and her utter indifference to it. Which suggests an element of narcissism in her. A common problem with actors and actresses, and why their marriages can be so unstable.
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  7. @ Storytelling has left the room. The problem is you get this fantasy that the hero doesn’t have to change to adapt to the challenges of Life. But that the whole world has to change to accommodate the desires of the Hero…and the hero doesn’t have to change in any way. The world just needs to recognize his/her “greatness” It’s a narcissistic entitlement fantasy.
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  8.  @TheWorstWarlock . We’re talking about emotions. The actual amount isn’t the point. Her hypergamy isn’t being satisfied. He isn’t “better” than her so she feels unsafe. Her biology is running her and she doesn’t realize it. Because women aren’t really asked to discipline or understand their feelings. So she’s acting them out.
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  9.  @blkgranit333  Because unless she deals with herself, nothing he does will ever be good enough or right enough or done in the right way. He’ll keep trying to please her and she’ll keep demeaning him or moving the goalposts. Shout out to the host for maneuvering her into having her say that making $17K for two months in a row might please her…then in the next breath admit that earning at that level forever still wouldn’t please her. It’s because he is not her problem. She is, and isn’t willing to face that reality.
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  10.  @slarsp2  Yes. But that’s how hypergamy works when it isn’t disciplined by the woman. She just keeps raising her standards until she either destroys her relationships, prices herself out of the market… or her standards become so unrealistic that she holding out for a superhero.
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  11.  @KNByam  Loss of containment. Her social training (feminism) is clashing with her biology. That feminine desire to be protected and provided for…especially when she has children. As she is the primary earner, and he can’t hold frame with her (be a leader)… and is unhappy, and she is strength testing the shit out of him (the emasculating behavior she can’t turn off). The problem is that she lacks the insight to understand why she’s doing what she’s doing…and going more and more into her masculine is just going to mak things worse. It’s going to make a guy like this feel insecure, feel inadequate…and he withdraws. Which make her feel the lack of containment (loss of frame) even more…so she acts out more and tests him even harder. Which if it isn’t fixed, she winds up destroying the relationship. She either divorces him…or she cheats on him with a guy whose frame is stronger than hers.
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  12.  @sardonumspa8113  Social media amplifies stupid and crazy people’s voices. That man can barely stand up to her, never mind abuse her. She’s more like his mom than his wife. This is what happens with very masculinities women if they can’t turn it off. They attract weak men, who are willing to be led by a woman. I congratulate her realizing that her masculine energy is a source of conflict. Stronger men just aren’t willing to deal with that constant conflict. So she winds up with a man who is willing to submit to her. Only she hates her choice. Because part of her doesn’t want that control, resents that he doesn’t take it…but fights him when tries. I love how the host drilled down to how the emotional game is essentially unwinnable for him. Because what she complains about isn’t what she’s actually upset about. So he’s stuck trying to give her what she doesn’t really want.
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  13. This….and she never has to grow. She just drops into the world as a finished product. She just has to overcome the men around her. She never has to learn to master herself or anything outside of the human social drama.
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  14. It’s a buzzword. One that is supposed make you feel ashamed, and more easily pressured (bullied) into doing what she wants. “Socialism” gets used in the same way in political ads. It’s just supposed to trigger fear, and allow you to be manipulated into abandoning your own economic interests.
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  15. She deserves a relationship, because she’s shown up and is willing to own her part in what’s happening. The problem is that she is being run by her biology…in a social climate that is DESPERATELY trying to make us believe that biology doesn’t matter. So she has no foundation to build on in trying to understand what’s happening to her. She’s at war with herself…and she’s blaming HIM for it. Her hypergamy is raging, and it’s beating the crap out of him. He feels it. But her social programming is joining forces with that hypergamy to make her DEAF to what he needs from her. “I don’t care. Figure it out.” It’s an unwinnable game for him. He’s just supposed to know how to fix her, when she can barely even put into words what’s going on with her. Without biology given back it’s seat at the table? This marriage ends in divorce. Because he can’t fix what’s broken in her right now. He’d have to double his income to start to quiet her demons unless she starts to rein her biology in.
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  16.  @JohnRobinson-ym4oz  I think they are starting to realize this.
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  17.  @pwh5805  Not that simple. Most women… especially young women have no game. They don’t know how to approach or how to be approached. Too much time interacting with machines and screens..and not enough with people.
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  18.  @bondgabebond4907  Not lifestyle. This is an identity issue, that she can’t solve because she doesn’t understand what’s going on inside her. She just feel stressed, unhappy, unsafe and it’s his fault. There is some insight that her behavior is destructive, but she doesn’t understand why she’s doing because her feelings are controlling her.
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  19.  @TheWorstWarlock  Some of it may. But mostly not. This guy’s weakness and neediness is part of the problem that has nothing to do with the money. But her inability to turn off her masculine doesn’t allow her to attract any other kind of man. I’d bet good money that the sex in that marriage is also drying up fast….
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  20.  @roncrudup2110  True. But every team needs a leader. The problem is that she doesn’t want that role…and she doesn’t trust him to take it. …and his frame is so weak right now that I can kind of understand why. He needs her validation too much to hold his frame with her. She keeps shit testing him, and he keeps failing.
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  21.  @Cov930  Feelings are wonderful servants but terrible masters. This is what happens when your priority is to feel good rather than have an accurate understanding of your situation.
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  22. You’re seeing how children see the world. She never grew up because the world never required her to do so. Until now…and she’s struggling.
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  23. Older women have always said that. They resent the fact that they can no longer compete. That as they age, they lose their appeal to the men they want. Of course they don’t resent the years when they were the beneficiaries of that imbalance. They want to stay forever 21, and life doesn’t work that way.
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  24.  @adriana12995  Disagree. Strenuously. I assume you’re too young to remember Maggie Thatcher. Who sent the British Royal Navy halfway around the world to kick Argentina’s @ss in the Falklands War, when the military dictatorship at the time though they could pick Britain’s picke of the oil-rich Falkland Islands. Like you, the made the mistake of assuming that a female PM wouldn’t have the stomach for a fight. They were tragically wrong. The problem here is that too many women grow up shielded from the consequences of their actions. Are not taught to discipline their emotions…and are taught to do what is right for themselves rather than what is right. Are all women like this? NO. But enough are to make life miserable for a lot of good men. Because they do and say what feels good at the moment. While good men are taught to do what is right, regardless of how they feel about it.
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  25.  @RoadBloc85  Oh he is. Between her masculine energy, her lack of respect, constant shit testing and challenges to his boundaries? He’s a punching bag. Because his need for her validation is too strong.
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  26. This is what happens far too often to beautiful women. She is clearly very smart, and was arguably one of the most beautiful women in the world in her prime: But she failed to grow up, and she is clearly very vain and self-absorbed. Still. Everything is about herself. The world will take this crap from beautiful women when they are young and in their prime years. But that Pretty Privilege runs out, and you need to have something on the inside. Sadly she never got there.
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  27. This is mental illness…..
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  28. Rejection isn’t personal. You get rejected when you don’t match her template for what HER ideal is. Not only is it not personal, you may not even want to match her template. Depending on her situation growing up, she may be looking for an @sshole who treats her terribly. Do you really want to be that guy? If she’s not interested good to know up front. Don’t give another person the power to control how you feel about yourself.
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  29.  @spacecandygames7575  it’s not personal..and if you think it is you are taking away the wrong lessons from it.
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  30.  @spacecandygames7575  Not delusional. WTF are you giving someone who knows almost nothing about you the power to determine your sense of self?!?! When the fact is she may be broken, and you are actual BETTER than she what she wants. To an untrained eye an uncut diamond looks like a non-descript piece of rock. Thay rock isn’t any less valuable because that person doesn’t know and can’t appreciate what they’re looking at. Don’t let an insane world tell you who you are, or what you are worth.
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  31.  @spacecandygames7575  That it is not personal is what you need to learn. Their rejection is about them and their expectations. You will realize that when you are ready.
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  32.  @spacecandygames7575  There’s a video where Matthew Hussey (female dating coach) explains the importance of being approachable to a roomful of women…and why passive women wind up only attracting players. He had to break it down to the basics. Players have success with women not because they don’t get rejected. They do. They don’t take the rejection as a barometer of their value as a person. They just move on to the next person, until they get that “yes”. Like a salesman making cold calls. If that’s salesman took every “No” personally, he’d quit long before he ever got to a yes. The point isn’t to not care about the women, but to not take their reaction as a fair and unbiased assessment of your worth. It NEVER is that.
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  33.  @truthbetold6322  True of extroverts. Not true of introverts.
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  34. So she posts a video to tell us that she’s unfazed by what she’s explaining in granular detailed. Oh, and Eboni? Ninety-to-ninety-five percent of communication is non-verbal. People didn’t make up the idea that you are contemptuous of men who are bus drivers…. …they read it on your face(correctly). You looked like you had just drank sour milk. That look of disgust gave you away..and now you are desperately trying to counter-attack to save face. Nah, woman. You showed the world who you really are…and the world was watching…and believed you.
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  35. Boring is anything that doesn’t distract them from having to face their inner demons.. Sad.
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  36.  @KorithStoneheart  Fear. If you have to approach, she never has to face direct and public rejection. She holds the power of rejection over you…. and if you reject her it will be later away from public sight. So she can spin a face-saving story to tell her friends
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  37.  @luckyrockmore2796  Not really. Physical beauty just isn’t the only kind. It’s just the most obvious and the most fleeting. But physical beauty =/= goodness or good character.
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  38. Without an increase in value…
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  39.  @ChrisMonopoli  “Because we’re biologically hardwired to do so. Powerfully so. It takes a lot of life experience and self-awareness to understand that “Beauty isn’t goodness.” That if you want a partner with good character you need to actively screen for it, and prioritize it over other things”. It’s a level of wisdom that some…arguably most…never reach.
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  40. She’s an Aussie.
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  41. They understand it. They’re just digging in trying to shame men and keep them under their thumb. Non- GDing women are laughing their @sses off at these fools.
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  42.  @raiderdevellian5752  So. Anyone with any sense wouldn’t deal with them….but….
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  43.  @raiderdevellian5752  Which is why drizzle drizzle started as a joke to hold up a mirror to women who are gold diggers or have absurd “standards”. It’s saying: This is what you look like and sound like to us. What is sad…and yet funny…is watching these pitiful women respond by digging in like ticks….
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  44. The real red flag is how vicious she became in reaction to one of the most gentle rejections I’ve ever seen. He didn’t say anything bad about her. He just said “We’re not compatible.” …and she dove headfirst into SIGN language: He sucks; he’s boring; he doesn’t know how to treat me… Yeah. Bullet dodged. Serious sensation seeker…
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  45. I’ve seen this before. She seems smart and nice, but this is the problem that educated women run into in every society. The things that allow men to rise in socioeconomic status, make them more attractive to women of higher status. But the things that allow women to rise in status do not make them more attractive to higher status men. Also, men are willing to date and marry down in status and share their resources with lower SES women. Thus expanding their opportunities. Women are not willing to do that. The higher they rise, the more they feel they deserve. The more money they make, the more money they feel their mate is required to make to be “worthy” and attractive to her. So they eventually prove themselves out of the dating pool. They reach a point that the men they want no longer want them. The harsh truth here is that she is a woman who is below average in physical attractiveness…and she will hit her head on a ceiling with respect to the kind of man she can attract and keep.
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  46. Wow. SIGN language with big words. If you aren’t willing to get in there and act in accordance with female interests, you’re broken. No. Dear. People opt out because doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result is insanity. Understanding that you are not that special and things aren’t going to be magically different for you is actually healthy. It’s how you avoid winding up with a body count of 50 by age 30 and wondering why no one takes you seriously for marriage.
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  47. 1. I’m a guy. 2. I have a “box” and it’s not a shrine. You don’t hang onto it because you’re carrying a torch for exes. You hang onto—like an old family album—because these were important parts of your own life. 3. If my SO opened it, she would find stuff dating beck decades of friends, family and lovers I haven’t seen or heard from in decades. Part of being a grown up is understanding that the other person had a life before they met you…and there were meaningful events in that life. That person just needs to have the integrity to let the past stay the past…and you need to be mature enough not to have a meltdown when you are confronted by it.
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  48. @ Didn’t read all the way to the end?
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  49.  @decwow  They don’t know how because too many of them only know how to interact online. So they don’t know how to communicate interest to the men they want, or politely set boundaries with the ones they aren’t interested in. So they want the world to do the work for them….
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  50.  @Owen-sx4jj  Wow, you missed the point completely…. He was not accusing her of using euphemisms. He was calling her out for gaslighting (Reality Is Whatever I Say It Is.)
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