Comments by "" (@kellygreenii) on "He Was Walking By Minding His Business, Then THIS Happened…" video.

  1. I was waiting for someone else to notice that bit of hypocrisy….
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  2. It happens. You just need to stand your ground and call out her self-absorption. When I was 18, I was trying to cross the street in a major city. No one waited at corners, you just dashed across when you felt you could do it without getting hit. So I turn to look into traffic to plan when to cross. Didn’t notice that this woman walked past me in the direction I was turning as I did so. She saw me turn, immediately assumed that I was checking her out (please..I was 18 and she was in her 30s…minimum). She shot me the NASTIEST look. I put up my hands and just said, “Lady, I’m just trying to cross the street… then crossed it. “ To her credit she had the good sense enough to be embarrassed by what she’d done. But I get it. Times have changed and many women these day are so broken that they wouldn’t even be embarrassed at having done that to someone.
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  3. Unwanted sexual attention is part of adult life. If the guy took a photo, that’s one thing. But men walking by and taking a quick glance? Women…grow up an lean to deal with it. Setting and defending boundaries is part of being a grown up. Men have to do this with women as well. The best way to deal with it is to ignore it when you can. Defuse the situation with gentle humor where you can. Confront only as a last resort. But you don’t get to claim how “strong and independent” you are while insisting you be excused and protected for a significant part of life.
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