Comments by "" (@kellygreenii) on "Woman Turns Down Marriage Proposal, Then THIS Happened…" video.

  1. Or that she doesn’t trust marriage itself. Either way, it’s usually a death blow to any serious relationship where the proposer is concerned. Move on, she’s never going to be your wife…and you don’t want her to be if she isn’t willing to say yes.
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  2. She thought she could do better…then wanted to come back when she realized she couldn’t. Smart to tell her to keep it moving.
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  3. Women are different. Some like big romantic gestures like this. Others are turned off and feel pressured by them. Gotta know the woman. I’d never offer a public proposal because I’m not the huge gesture type…and if that’s what you need, I’m not your guy….
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  4. Agreed only with it being private. That way there is no pressure on her to say yes, and no humiliation for him if she says no. Like a trial lawyer, don’t ask the question if you don’t know what the answer will be.
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  5.  @shedparker  Because they aren’t thinking. They are being driven by the instinct to find the best mate (genetically and status-wise) possible. Those instincts create emotions, and women act on those emotions. That’s where we guys run into trouble with women. We expect them to act rationally or on principle like men do…but low quality women don’t. Just like some men can’t discipline themselves to be loyal to one woman, some women can’t discipline that urge to be with the best male available and be loyal to one man. This woman either had a side dude like you said….or she either just will never submit to being married or sees this guy as a placeholder like I said. Which is why you never listen to what a woman says in this kind of setting. You watch and evaluate what she does.
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  6.  @uncletony3025  Then that’s on the guy. You don’t punish the world for the actions of one person. Learn from it. Deal with the feelings, and then get on with the rest of your life. Living well is the best revenge.
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  7. Agreed. An honest No is tough love. The humiliation had to sting, but she did what was in his best interests. She gave him what he needed instead of what he wanted.
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  8.  @mademenchronicles2335  Because women have their own fears…and sometimes it’s not about not wanting to marry you, but not being able to handle being married. In my case I just had to move on with my life. She and I would have made a great married couple, but her fear could allow her to see it. Unlike the brother here, I knew that she couldn’t say yes, so I never put myself in position of being turned down. I saw her resistance whenever I raised the issue of marriage. But she did circle back a year later trying to see if the door was still open. It wasn’t.
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  9. IOW she doesn’t see you as the guy she’s going the distance with no matter what the reason is.
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  10.  @JB-pb9xv  Agreed. He might have even done it that way to apply a bit of pressure to get her to say yes. If he did, then he got what he deserved.
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  11.  @mstwelvedeadlycyns  Some women are so afraid of making the wrong choice that they can’t make any choice.
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  12.  @ahmadstaten7521  Hold my beer……
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  13. Or let someone buy insurance on something they don’t own.
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  14.  @shedparker  For real??
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  15.  @shedparker  Agreed, “I don’t like that ring” is a lame excuse. She may not be cheating. I think she just sees this guy as a placeholder (so she doesn’t have to be alone) until the man she wants come along. I also think some sister just won’t ever get married. They just will never make themselves that vulnerable with a man. Especially the ones who hop from man to man and never deal with the baggage they collect on the way. But yeah, dude got a nasty wake-up call. Which is why you don’t do what he did and expose yourself to that kind of humiliation. If it were me, that relationship would be over.
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  16. Agreed. She’s either telling you that she never wants to be married, or you’re just a placeholder until she finds the man she really wants. Because she doesn’t want to be alone.
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  17.  @johnstampp5726  It’s a romantic gesture. You’re showing her how much you value her by showing how vulnerable you are willing to make yourself before her. That she’s worth the humiliation should she say no. I’d never do that, but I understand why some men feel the need to do it. Most women will say yes. These women are doing these guys a favor by offering up an honest “no”.
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