Comments by "" (@kellygreenii) on "The way it ALL ENDS: the five endgames that all women face" video.

I think you overlooked a sixth option: Someone flips over the game board!! Large numbers of unpaired women leaves large numbers of unpaired men. Usually with little to no sexual access. Especially at the bottom of society. These men have less and less of a reason to support the social status quo. If women are allowed to increasingly turn themselves into a harem for those few top men? The more likely becomes an ugly backlash against female (sexual) freedom. Similar to what we have seen in some Islamic cultures in reaction to modernity and it’s values. That backlash is already starting. The reversal of Roe v. Wade. The kneecapping of Affirmative Action (the greatest beneficiaries of which were women). Hinting by the SCOTUS that they may go after contraceptive access…and the rewriting of divorce laws in some red states. Hypergamy evolved to function with a limited set of options. If women refuse to discipline that hypergamic impulse. Radicals and autocrats may impose that discipline upon them from the outside. 🙁
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@crystalcube-q3n Nothing if that is what she truly wants, and what truly makes her happy. The problem is that this is not what most of them want (their words) and it is not making them happy. So pressuring women to be career women and childless is just as oppressive as pressuring them to marry and be housewives. Meet the new boss. Same as the old boss…
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@ThePhabulousYvelise From my male perspective, it seems many women struggle to separate their perceived value as a mate from their self-worth as a person. So they dig in and defend their self-worth and refuse to change…by insisting that they are fine and men are “the problem”. SMH. Men want what we want…and need what we need. Successful men do not need someone who brings the exact same things that they do to a relationship. Especially since most women don’t spend their resources on men (My money is my money, and your money is our money….). So their success seldom benefits us, while the reverse is almost never the case.
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