Comments by "" (@kellygreenii) on "Why WOMEN DON'T APOLOGIZE: understanding the nature of the problem" video.

@MOMO-m0m0 Whenever someone says the word “but”, IGNORE everything they said prior to that word. Everything prior to it is what they think you want to hear (or will make them look good), what comes AFTER that “but” is the truth of what they think or feel. Your gut was right. It was not a sincere apology and she was telling that she didn’t feel that she owed you one. She was just offering up a lame excuse for why she wouldn’t do it. What to do? Realize that she doesn’t respect you, and lacks the maturity/integrity to genuinely apologize when she’s wronged someone…then act accordingly. In my case, that means I walk and don’t look back. YMMV.
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@konnykontant This. In most cases, it’s just immaturity and the inability to admit error and still maintain their self-respect.
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