Comments by "" (@kellygreenii) on "Alexander GRACE (Dating, Attraction, and Emotional Vulnerability)" video.

  1. Exactly. It means you are in relationship with someone of sound character. People of good character act with integrity. Move according to principles rather than pure desire or self-interest. Which makes them predictable. They do what they say. They say what they mean, and they are consistent. If you want “excitement” you are basically selecting for people who either have poor character or are mentally ill.
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  2. Alex is Red Pill in its purest form: that there is a biologic component to human female mating psychology and strategies.
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  3.  @daryna94  Yes. But that takes time, effort, and risk. Which—in an immediate gratification, risk averse world—-many people aren’t willing to do. So they take the easy road and just switch partners….or worse.
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  4.  @bestchannel4587  That is not what either of those are. Red Pill is simply the reality that women have a biological component to how the choose mates and behave in mating situations—-like every other female mammal for the last 65 million years. Red Pill understands that women respond to displays of fitness: height, strength, dominance, status, confidence, intelligence, creativity, humor (money, muscles, game and frame.) Black pill take how women behave in the unnatural environment of dating apps and try to generalize it to the real world: that women only respond to physical attractiveness. Black pill is also taken to by guys who usually lack the other traits (which can be developed) that women are drawn to. So it is just easier to believe that all of their troubles are due to being born unlucky. Alex is pure Red Pill. He is about the reality of female nature, what they are drawn to, and how they behave. He is not Black pill because he is upbeat, optimistic and has none of the fatalism and low-key bitterness that most Black Pillers carry around.
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  5.  @faddy24  You’re assuming that the person who is making that determination is emotionally healthy. Damaged people feel a compulsion to recreate what they experienced growing up. So if they grew up in a chaotic home with high-highs and low-lows of emotion? They are not going to be able to tolerate the relative peace-and-quiet and consistency that surrounds someone healthy. That peace will bring their inner demons to the surface. They get anxious and uncomfortable and call that discomfort “boredom”…. or they’ll try create the drama and chaos themselves by sabotaging the relationship. …and a healthy person isn’t going to tolerate that for very long.
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  6.  @faddy24  Which is exactly what I said…. from perspective of the damaged person.
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