Comments by "" (@kellygreenii) on "The SUPERFICIALITY of DESIRE: we're shallow and we can work with it" video.
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It’s isn’t society. It’s WOMEN. Unattractive men can improve on their situation somewhat by improving their wealth, status, and/or game.
Other than improving their fitness, women are largely relegated to making the most of what they were born with… and it’s value in the mating game is time-sensitive.
So women who lose the genetic competition, or can no longer compete against the younger version of themselves? Will resort to gamesmanship.
They will try to shame you out of your needs and standards, so that you believe that what she can offer is the best you can do, or what you should want. They’ll also try to sabotage other women they see as rivals for the men they want. Don’t fall for the con.
Nod your head, acknowledge that you heard them and keep moving..
Men when they are losing, will try to improve themselves so they can play the game better.
Women will express distress in order to get the game itself changed so that they can have their desired outcome. Remember those same women who will try to shame you out of your standards, will be quick to get the ick, or trade you in for something better the second you stop meeting theirs.
Don’t get taken in by the hypocrisy. Their standards are liberating. Yours are “discrimination” and “toxic”. It’s like trying to win in a casino where the house cheats.
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Disagree. Accept that the biology is real, and screen for those people who can DISCIPLINE those impulses. Women get into trouble because they let their hypergamy and emotions run riot. Attractive women often fail to grow up because they don’t have to in order to get attention and validation…but then when their looks fade, no one wants to deal with a Karen that is unpleasant to be a around. Or they waste their youth chasing after men that will sleep with them, but will never marry them.
Men get into trouble because the chase after beautiful women who have nothing to offer besides their looks, and tie their self-esteem to whether or not this person want to sleep with them or not.
Your value as a human being is NOT equal to your desirability as a mate.
If you want children? Play the game and play to win. Otherwise, understand the game for what it is and don’t let an insane, entitled, and superficial world tell you who you are.
Because of Covid, and diet changes, I’ve dropped about 30lbs. As a result, I’m suddenly getting a lot more female attention. I’m not a better person. I’m just pinging their biological radar. But I’m not going to rush to get entangled with women just because more opportunities present themselves (one woman vying for my attention is quite married. No thank you…).
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