Comments by "" (@kellygreenii) on "What men DON'T UNDERSTAND about FEMALE SELECTION: what being high-value does and does not get you" video.

  1.  @scottverge938  Women move on emotion. So asking them to explain rationally why they do what they do is a frustrating waste of time. Society doesn’t require them to discipline those emotions so a lot of them never do it. But biology and psychology drive those emotions. So if a woman has an opportunity to get with a man she feels is more attractive or higher status than you? She’s going to dump you, unless she has learned to discipline her biology/emotions, and honor commitments. If she is feeling some void or inadequacy in herself (every supermodel seems to have a midlife meltdowns as her beauty fades, and the power that it gave her goes with it)? She may use sex and the validation of men as a drug to self- medicate that pain. So her betrayal is not personal…and since she’s high on the feel-goods? She will ruthlessly feel no regrets…until the crash back down to reality arrives. This is why it’s important to ignore what most women say…and watch what they do. Watching what they do will show you what those instincts and emotions are pushing them to do…and what they truly want on that gut level.
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  2. Not necessarily. Sometimes women simply want the dopamine hit of being made to feel attractive by an attractive/high-status man. So they may simply want you to flirt back, not have an affair with them.
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  3. Biopsychsocial. Hypergamy is mainly biological. But you still have the psychology and social conditioning of an individual woman. You could be the best man on the planet. But if you don’t fit the template of her individual psychology and social conditioning? She’s not going to be interested. For one of the women I knew in college, it was Swedish tennis players. For another it was tall, dark-haired artists. When I pointed out all the other men who were interested in her (while she kept throwing herself at my 6’3” black-haired artist/musician roommate who barely knew she was alive)? Her response? “It’s never the right ones”. Women would rather futilely chase their template, than actually have a man who doesn’t match it actually love and care for them. So their rejection of you isn’t personal.
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